Sheng Ningan was bored watching everyone discuss their marriage, suddenly thought of a question, turned to look at Xu Weiran who was sitting beside her, and said, "Xu Weiran, have you noticed that neither of us will quarrel?" ”

"Isn't it good not to quarrel?" Xu Weiran raised her eyebrows and looked at her.

Sheng Ning'an organized the language and said: "It's not that it's not good not to quarrel, it's just that I think there seems to be something missing between the two of us?" ”

She couldn't tell what was missing.

She has also seen many couples, and there is almost no one who does not quarrel, even if it is her grandparents and parents, there will be occasional quarrels.

It's not that a good relationship is not a lifetime without quarreling, but a quarrel can last a lifetime.

She and Xu Weiran are going to get engaged, but if you think about it carefully, after the two were together, they almost never blushed.

When two people are together, it is naturally best to have no contradictions, but I am afraid that one party chooses to suppress their emotions and dissatisfaction in order to avoid quarrels.

If it accumulates over time, it will only make the contradictions deeper and deeper, and eventually irreparable.

Of course, it may also be because both of them are emotionally stable.

Xu Weiran patted her head and said, "Don't think nonsense. ”

Sheng Ningan also felt that he might be thinking too much, and in other people's words, it was a bit hypocritical.

"I think you might be a premarital phobia." Tang Dou's voice came through the phone screen.

"Premarital phobia?"

Tang Dou explained: "Many girls will have some psychological changes before marriage, on the one hand, they are eager to enter the palace of marriage with the person they like, and on the other hand, they have a sense of uncertainty about their life after marriage, this ambivalence is called premarital phobia. I think your current situation is very similar, but according to my observation, the one in your family is a good candidate for marriage, what it was like before marriage, there is a high probability that it will not change after marriage, and you don't need to worry about it at all. ”

Sheng Ningan felt that what the girl said made some sense.

"So what do you think I should do now?" Sheng Ningan now completely regards that girl as his psychological mentor.

Tang Dou: "I think the most important thing you should do now is to get a good night's sleep first." When you wake up, talk to your guy. ”

Sheng Ning'an: "What are you talking about?" ”

"This is for you, what are you worried about? The two of you have been talking for almost two years, and you have lived together, and you can mention any dissatisfaction with him, or any dissatisfaction with your current and future lives. ”

Just ask the question and then fix it.

But looking at the two of them, there shouldn't be any big problems.

"There's nothing I'm not happy about." Xu Weiran has almost no problems except for the nature of her work and the fact that she can't accompany her often.

From appearance to education to work and family background, everything is the envy of others.

Or it's because their relationship is too smooth and they haven't experienced any ups and downs, so it seems a little bland.

Tang Dou suddenly thought of a question and asked her, "What, the two of you have been together for so long, do you have anything like that?" ”

Sheng Ning'an: "What? ”

Tang Dou: "Have you ever slept with each other?" ”

Sheng Ning'an's cheeks instantly warmed up and said, "Of course not." ”

Tang Dou: ......

"Okay, I now know what the problem is between the two of you, listen to me, you go and sleep with him now, and there will be no more problems between the two of you." (End of chapter)

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