006 High IQ and low EQ

"Cheng, since that's the case, I won't give you this money first." The village chief is also refreshing.

Nowadays, the world is indeed not good, there were natural disasters a few years ago, and now this most painful day is in the past, but in the countryside, food and clothing are still a problem.

Ten yuan is not much, but at present, the grain is one dime and two pounds, and these ten yuan can also buy eighty or ninety catties of grain, which is also a blessing for those lonely and widowed old people.

Grandma Wang and Grandpa Shen took Shen Yin's hand and returned home, Shen Yin looked at Grandma Wang curiously, with a puzzled expression: "Grandma, why don't you take the money?" ”

Grandma Wang smiled and rubbed Shen Yin's head: "Sakura, you have to know that ten yuan is not much, but now the income of people in the village, many people have less than 100 yuan a year.

If someone in the family works in a factory, even if it is a temporary worker, the conditions are a little better, and the monthly income will not exceed 20 yuan.

The martyr's allowance you get is different, you are stained with your father's light, so you have an allowance of ten yuan per month, so you don't have to worry about food and clothing.

So naturally you don't put this hundred dollars in your eyes.

But what we see as a small amount of money is a lot of money in the eyes of others.

And if we take it, we will always be told about it, and those who understand will think that this is a punishment for your second grandfather's family, and those who don't understand will think that we covet their ten yuan, and the impact is not good.

It's better to be generous and let them buy food to give to the lonely and widowed old people, this is considered to be doing some good deeds, after all, the lonely and widowed old people in this village are indeed bitter, and secondly, you can make Shen Tiezhu's family dare not fight your idea again, otherwise I will ask for ten yuan this time, and I will ask for fifty yuan next time. ”

"Then why not fifty now?" Shen Yin, who has a good IQ, still can't do the opposite of EQ, and it can be said that he has seven tricks and six tricks and no clue for interpersonal relationships.

Grandma Wang still had a kind look on her face: "I just said, I only earn more than 200 yuan a year from a little work, and if I ask for 50 yuan, don't I want their lives?"

Although we have made up our minds not to associate with them, there is no need to make a mortal enmity.

There is another point that Shen Tiezhu is shrewd, the effect of ten yuan is actually better than the effect of fifty, after this experience, I believe they will not let Shen Xin calculate you again.

Finally, our family is not short of these ten yuan, once your father left a lot of pension, and then you can also have a monthly subsidy for the children of martyrs, our family is not bad for this ten yuan, whether there is this ten yuan or not, in fact, it is no different for us, it is better to use this ten yuan to leave a good impression on the people in the village. ”

Shen Yin suddenly understood that he thought he was very smart in his previous life, but because of his Buddha nature, he was calculated by MCA, and now that he thinks about it, in fact, MCA's true character has traces, but he didn't take it seriously, of course, this also shows that his emotional intelligence is really not high.

And now Grandma Wang in front of her is obviously a first-class EQ, and it seems that she should learn more from Grandma Wang in this regard.

Sure enough, someone once said that a high IQ does not mean a high EQ, which is not wrong at all, at least now Shen Yin has this feeling, although his IQ is good, but EQ is really not good.

"Sakurako is not in a hurry, this way of behaving, grandma and grandpa will slowly teach you." Grandma Wang looked at Shen Yin with a smile and rubbed Shen Yin's head, her face was full of kindness: "The most important thing for you now is to take care of your body, and then sign up for the first grade of primary school in the second half of the year, don't worry about the rest, grandpa and grandma will teach you little by little in the future." ”

Just listening to this, you know that Grandma Wang's emotional intelligence is not ordinarily high.

Grandma Wang is a clear and transparent person, and she naturally hopes that Shen Yin's future will also be safe and healthy, so there are naturally some things to be taught.

Of course, Grandma Wang originally planned to teach slowly in a subtle way, but when she learned that Shen Yin had traces of genius, she decided to give Shen Yin further training.

Shen Yin didn't know this, but in the next few days, Shen Yin found that Grandma Wang began to teach her a lot of things.

And this knowledge was lacking in Shen Yin's previous life.

Shen Yin does not deny that he has a high IQ, but in terms of interpersonal communication, there is no doubt that he is afraid of society.

She is afraid of interacting with people, so she will be deceived by her ex-husband.

Thinking about it now, it is not difficult to take this step, at least at this moment, under the teaching of her grandmother, Shen Yin found that she could also make friends with others.

And this first friend is Shen Yin's tablemate who entered elementary school.

Shen Yin's talent Grandma Wang and Grandpa Shen saw it, Grandpa Shen discussed it with Grandma Wang, and sent Shen Yin to primary school, of course, took the primary school papers and let Shen Yin take the exam.

The current primary school exams are actually very simple, and there is no esoteric knowledge.

Therefore, Shen Yin can say that he directly made a full score in the test papers of the fifth grade of primary school.

The principal knew Grandpa Shen and knew Shen Yin's life experience, and he was overjoyed to see Shen Yin's talent.

However, whether it was Grandpa Shen, Grandma Wang and the principal, they were worried that Shen Yin was too young now, and if he was promoted to junior high school now, he was afraid that he would not be able to get along with the current junior high school students, so they discussed and decided to let Shen Yin temporarily go to the first grade of primary school and skip a grade after a year.

Grandma Wang decided to let Shen Yin go to the first grade, mainly to let Shen Yin make friends, Grandma Wang had already seen her granddaughter during this time, and there was no problem in learning, but she was lacking in dealing with people, so the most basic thing was to let her have a few more friends of the same age, so that she could lay some foundation for dealing with people in the future.

As for learning, the principal has already greeted Shen Yin's homeroom teacher and classroom teacher, so don't worry about her.

It was a very rare experience to be a primary school student again.

It is rare to start over in life, and Shen Yin has long decided that he will never be a salted fish in this life, and he will be a useful person to the world if he wants to do it.

Shen Yin was six years old, so going to elementary school didn't attract anything special attention.

Here, many children go to elementary school at the age of six or seven.

Shen Yin reported to school and became a freshman in the 101 class of primary school.

At the beginning of school on September 1, Grandma Wang specially put a schoolbag made by her own hand on Shen Yin's back.

The bag was made of canvas, but it was embroidered with an orchid.

Shen Yin doesn't know embroidery, but he can also see that this embroidery is quite good.

"It's beautiful." Shen Yin blurted out praise.

Grandpa Shen laughed when he heard this: "Sakura, do you like it, this is your grandmother's own embroidery, your grandmother's embroidery is first-class, and the most powerful thing is her double-sided embroidery." ”

"Grandma is amazing." Shen Yin looked at Grandma Wang with admiration, she really didn't expect her grandmother to be so powerful.