089 Wrong and True
Guo Yang sighed: "When others reunite at home, she seems to be under the fence, but she can't regret it, because she herself is willing to come to see you, but this side makes her understand that she and you can't be like other people's mothers and daughters." ”
Guo Yang looked at Yu Fang deeply: "You are already my wife, Xiaofeng's mother, you can only be regarded as a mother to her, so she will only politely call you mother, in this life, she will remember that she is your daughter, and when you are old in the future, she will fulfill her responsibilities as a daughter, and she will also fulfill her obligations, this should be Shen Yin's thoughts." ”
Guo Yang paused when he said this: "It seems a bit cruel to say this, but you can't deny that Sakura is very smart, and it is because of her intelligence that she is transparent, and she was able to talk to you calmly just now, which means that she has made up her mind."
Listen to my advice, if you don't want to lose this daughter, if you still remember that you have such a daughter, then in the future, you just need to be polite to each other, usually when there is a holiday. You can go to visit her, she can also come to visit you, you can also communicate daily, maybe after a long time, you can get along without mother-daughter feelings and become a mother-daughter girl, so it is actually the best for you and for her. ”
Guo Yang stood up and patted Yu Fang's shoulder: "You might as well think about my words, is this the truth." ”
Then he said: "We came in like this, always worried about frightening the child, I went out to talk to her, you think about it first, think clearly, the child should go back for the festival, we have wasted her New Year's reunion, now let her go back for the Lantern Festival reunion festival is also right, don't think too much, no matter whether your relationship is close in the future, the blood relationship will always be broken, you are her mother, she is your daughter, this will not change." ”
After Guo Yang finished speaking, he patted Yu Fang's shoulder again, and then walked out of the room.
Yu Fang was silent, she thought carefully about what Guo Yang said, it is undeniable that what Guo Yang said is reasonable, and there is no nonsense.
Shen Yin is her daughter, this will not change, but it is just a fact that she did not raise Shen Yin well.
She couldn't complain that Shen Yin was wrong, because on the premise, she was actually wrong, and it was precisely because of this that she began to introspect.
Yu Fang is not wrong because she can't hear the advice, if she is wrong, she will not deny this, it is precisely because she understands that she is wrong, so she can't be wrong in the future.
Forget it, this little bird will always fly away by itself when it grows up, and all you can do is take care of it elsewhere.
What's more, as Guo Yang said, she is now a member of the Guo family, and it is impossible for her to let Shen Yin become a member of the Guo family, even if she is willing, the Shen family may not be willing, after all, Shen Weiguo has left such a seedling.
smiled slightly, shook his head, at this moment, there is no longer the anger he had earlier, after all, he was wrong, forget it, it is not a big deal to go out and admit his mistake to the child.
When Guo Yang came out, Shen Yin was sitting on the sofa in the living room reading a book, and when she saw Guo Yang come out, she didn't seem surprised at all: "Uncle Guo, have you talked to my mother?" ”
"It's not that it's been discussed, it's been discussed, but your mother is a transparent person herself, and it's only a matter of time before she figures it out." Guo Yang sat on the sofa next to Shen Yin, and then looked Shen Yin up and down: "Sakurako, have you ever complained about your mother?" ”
"Complaining? Actually, when I was a child, I had it. Shen Yin recalled the mood of the original owner: "I was not in good health when I was a child, which is one of the reasons why the grandfather of the Yu family did not let my mother take me away, because a medicine jar has always been kept by my side, that is not a help, but a drag, although it is a bit cruel for a mother to let my mother give up on me, but from the perspective of the Yu family, we can understand, but these are all from the perspective of others, and from my point of view, this is not cruel to me, in the case of I lost my father, I lost my mom again. ”
Shen Yin is very rational, or rather, maybe Shen Yin was sad in the past, but now Shen Yin is very transparent and rational, it is this transparency and rationality, so I see it very clearly: "When I was a child, every time I was sick, I would call my mother, but after a long time, I found that my mother never appeared again, and slowly I understood that I lost my mother while I didn't have a father, even if I would receive a package from my mother every quarter, but at that time, for me, she was just a mother, not a mother." ”
Shen Yin didn't want to hide his attitude: "Later, I was pushed into the river by Shen Xin and almost died, that catastrophe made me suddenly enlightened, in fact, in this world, I am still very happy, I may not have a father, no mother." But I have grandparents, uncles and aunts, aunts and uncles, and brothers and sisters in their two families, there are so many people who love me, and I have long been surrounded by strong love, I can't think of it, I still need to be sad because I don't have my father and mother, so I let go. ”
Shen Yin's words were full of relief: "Because I let go, I am relieved, so every time I receive my mother's package, I open it calmly, I can write to my mother calmly, because I have long understood this, besides, this world itself is always a little difficult for girls, my mother is like this, my ex-husband is gone, after remarrying, I naturally have to be careful in my husband's family, she needs to be responsible for the rest of her future life, so I shouldn't appear by her side so casually." ”
Shen Yin chuckled: "Actually, when I stayed in the Yu family on the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the first lunar month, I was a little angry.
You said, you took me over, the reason is to take me to Shanghai for the New Year, and by the way, I contacted the mother-daughter relationship with the mother who I haven't seen for many years, but the truth is that the mother-daughter relationship has not been contacted, and I became a little pitiful on the day of the New Year. So what did you want to do with me in the first place?
Don't say that the Yu family is also a relative, and they never come and go, so how can they be affectionate.
Even if the Yu family is very lively, but it is the Yu family that is lively, my Shen family is there, obviously not social, I thought at the time, unfortunately I am still young, it is not safe to go out, if I am older, I will go directly to the train station to buy a ticket back. ”
Shen Yin looked at Guo Yang: "Uncle Guo, you are a good person, but a good person also has his own bottom line, so you can allow me to come back, but you will not propose to let my mother take me to the Guo family, because you actually understand in your heart that I am the daughter of the Shen family, and going to the Guo family is not suitable for me." ”