Chapter 20 The Reciprocity of "Let".
Take a nap, I didn't fall asleep for a minute, my mind was full of what I had just violated, and I thought about the things clearly, so I had to explain things clearly, how to say them, and it was easier for people to accept.
After silently rehearsing over and over again in my heart, I decided to make it clear at the meeting that I regard it as a challenge to deal with the world, and it is also my first attempt to take the initiative, and if it can be handled well, it is a rare progress.
Playing the audio-visual documentary, Shen Bingwang asked: "Lao He, I haven't been in this kind of single shop, I don't sit on the shop to watch, just sit and watch, will it be against the law?" ”
No. 8 Lao He replied: "No, but you also have to have two people in a bunk, sit back in turn, and look up." ”
Free time, chatting with people of the same age, are interested in other people's affairs, explore their curiosity, and then take out the things they have committed in the previous prison cell, and discuss them.
"405 There was a man surnamed Wang, who saw a neighbor's child with Tang family playing outside, so he drew a circle next to the child, and scared the child and said, you can't step out of this circle, and if you step out of this circle, you will be killed by lightning, and then he went home, and the child really stood in the circle all night.
The neighbor looked for the child overnight, and the child said that I can't get out of the circle and will be killed by thunder, and the neighbor thinks that someone must be playing a prank and calls the police, and the police convict him of illegal detention, do you think you are wronged? ”
"Wrongs must not be wronged, for people with intellectual deficiency and intellectual disabilities, the law is meant to be specially protected, just like an old man with limited mobility, I locked his wheelchair, it is also illegal detention.
This is to ask us to enter the same situation as them, the child is indeed sincere in thinking that he will be killed by lightning when he goes out of the circle, so his nature is to deliberately scare, constituting illegal detention. ”
"But, he's pretty funny, he's pretty funny."
"Haha... Ha. ”
"There is another person, he is a prostitute abroad, where the age of sexual consent is relatively low, you can marry at the age of 8 or 9, he himself has a pedophile, looking for girls around 12 years old, carrying out prostitution, and posting to Moments to show off his affair. A few days after he returned to China, he was invited by the Xiangcheng Police Station, and someone looked at his circle of friends, couldn't see him, and reported him. ”
"According to the laws of the country, it must not constitute a crime, but the laws of our country can manage it, because you are from the Dragon Kingdom, so he is QJ punished, this crime is not light, and he is estimated to be choking enough, it may be enough for ten years, this prostitution is a big loss."
"Haha... Ha. ”
"There is a 19-year-old surnamed Mao, surnamed Niu wanted to give his wife a necklace, so he instigated him to steal a necklace, and then Niu gave him money, but it was a coincidence, he stole the necklace of his wife surnamed Niu, and the wife surnamed Niu saw that the necklace was lost, and the house could not be found.
He confessed the surname Niu, and the police did not arrest the surname Niu, but only criticized the education and informed the wife surnamed Niu, and that's it, and he was arrested for theft, so he was angry. ”
"Theft is the theft of other people's things, I instigated you to steal jewelry, and as a result, you stole my family's jewelry, the perpetrator must constitute a crime, and the abettor does not constitute it. This legal wordplay is so real. ”
"Really, there are no wonders in the world."
"We also have a funny thing, but it's also quite sad, he is a car mechanic, he is not very old, he likes to play pranks, while his colleagues are not paying attention, he opens his colleagues' pants and puts a high-pressure air pump into his colleagues' anus to inflate, causing serious injuries to colleagues, and serious damage to intestines and internal organs.
No matter how you say it, it's out of pranks, so it's not an intentional crime, it can only be a crime of negligence, because the nature is too bad, it won't be lenient, but the sentence will not be heavy, just two or three years, the family of the colleague must be uneasy, so they have been asked to retry. ”
"Some things are difficult to settle, and there is no way, similar things, I can't tell the reason, like what nanny put the child into the elevator, the elevator went up, the child got out of the elevator, the corridor window was low, and he fell to his death from the window, what crime can the nanny convict?
If the family is convicted of causing death by negligence, it will inevitably be difficult for the family to seek justice, and there is a long way to go to convict the crime of intentional homicide.
The teacher was in class, saw the student was stealing the mobile phone to play a game, angrily picked up the mobile phone and threw it downstairs, the student jumped from the upstairs and fell to his death, the angry teacher saw the student's miserable situation, his conscience was uneasy, and he jumped off the building to his death in excitement, you said two lives, who can be responsible? ”
"You can't just let the school be responsible for the low fence, right? At most, the place of the incident is in the school, so that the school will make a small amount of humanitarian compensation. ”
"Life is sometimes so fragile, where does it come from so much fairness, do it and cherish it."
"If you want to say wronged, I think 404 is a little wronged, he drove illegally, the traffic police stopped him, he moved the car according to the instructions of the traffic police, and was hit by another car on the way to move the car, and a traffic accident occurred, resulting in the destruction of the car and the death, and now he is temporarily detained, is he primarily responsible or secondarily responsible? The jury is still out.
I'm looking forward to the outcome of this matter, which Taoist friend has a fateful meeting, and knows his result, and can tell him. ”
"There is also a thief who is stupid, he went to the supermarket and stole the staff's mobile phone, and received a mobile phone text message, which said, brother, I just arrived at the supermarket and couldn't find you, I have something to do first, you want 8000 yuan in cash, I put it in the supermarket's No. 6 locker, password 6666.
He wanted to get the cash and actually returned to the supermarket, but he was arrested by the police as soon as he got there. ”
"With this IQ, you still steal things? What a shame on the thief's profession. ”
"Hahaha."
I shared the interesting case of 403 with them.
"The case I'm going to talk about is just a bit of fun. But if it really happens to you, maybe you won't be able to prove that you are not sick? ”
"Just say it, still hang people's appetite?"
"This man quarreled with his wife, and his wife found someone to tie him up and send him to a mental hospital, he had no way to prove that he was not sick, so he could only obey the doctor's arrangement, and he suffered a lot if he didn't take medicine, and there was no way to escape, and he was able to come out because his wife didn't renew the hospital fee, so he was able to escape.
The problem is that he came out with a strong sense of revenge, and sent his wife to another mental hospital in the same way, and his parents-in-law noticed that something was wrong and called the police.
Investigating the matter found that there were no procedural problems in the two psychiatric hospitals, but he and his wife both recounted their painful experiences in the psychiatric hospitals, and both parties sued each other for illegal detention, so he was temporarily detained on suspicion of illegal detention.
From the more than ten days we spent with him, we didn't think he had any mental problems, which was normal. ”
"Typical love and killing, fortunately it didn't cause a bigger tragedy, in other words, it's really difficult to prove that you're not sick, and those medicines can't be taken by normal people, and it's not normal to eat them, and it's God's favor for them to come out."
"Hahaha."
"The summary of the day is the characteristic of the alley, we have to spend it with a serious attitude, and today we will focus on the rules of 407, otherwise I am afraid that someone will not be able to figure out their identity."
Shen Bingwang speaks, habitually gesticulating, tossing and turning, or pointing straight to and fro, with the feeling of a command.
I mustered up my momentum, got up and said, "Report, I want to do a self-reflection on the matter of washing dishes today." ”
"Okay, here you go!"
"Good afternoon everyone, the day summary is also known as the reflection meeting, then I will do a self-review on today's matter, the purpose of I can come here, one is to control my temper, the other is to exercise communication skills, and I almost lost control today, and I am not satisfied with my performance in 403, I hope that through today's dishwashing, I can let everyone have an understanding of me, and get along with everyone happily.
In a week of 403, I have not washed the dishes, No. 1 is also very careful to tell me the standard operation of washing dishes, I express my gratitude, from the past two days, No. 1 is warm-hearted, for people in need of food, drink, clothing, cleaning arrangements are also in order, to other people may not have such ability,
I didn't know that there were no two people standing in the toilet when washing dishes, and when he instructed Zhang Yujun to go in, I followed in, and then he pulled me out, pressed my shoulder, and told me to stand like this, and the bell rang.
The reason for this, I thought about it all afternoon, and made it clear, that is, when he told me to stand like this, he turned around and walked away, not noticing that my left foot was outside the tile and my right foot was inside the tile, and I mistook it for the correct posture, which was one foot outside and one foot inside. So the bell rang.
As soon as the bell rang, No. 1 must have been angry, because he had just taught me how to do it, and it was a violation, and it was inevitable that the tone was not very good, which made me feel that it was an accusation, and I would be justified as soon as I was wronged, and the voice would naturally be raised, and I instinctively lost my temper, I felt that I needed to control this, which had nothing to do with whether I could bear it or not, and if I could explain the problem calmly, I would definitely be able to deal with it better.
If you have a grievance, you have to raise your voice, the tone is definitely not good, and it must be uncomfortable to give others, so No. 1 will not have a good tone for me, it will only deepen the contradiction, I can realize this in time now, I want to thank No. 1 Shen Bingwang, I hope to get along with you in the future and be able to learn more, thank you! ”
As I finished speaking in a voice that everyone could hear, I applauded and felt very comfortable.
It gave me the confidence to talk and communicate with others.
Later, I learned that this is a reciprocal principle of "let".
That is, in the event of a contradiction or dispute between the two sides, one party will take the initiative to take a step back, and the other party will feel ashamed and make concessions, and may take a bigger step back, and both sides will solve the problem satisfactorily and get the benefits they deserve.