Chapter 75: Epiphany

"Brother Fang, my sister-in-law gave birth to two before, is it the same?" Su Dui asked.

Fang Bingkun waved his hand, "The two who were pregnant before, although there were times when they were unreasonable, they didn't react as much as this." ”

He took a sip of wine and continued: "Ah Shen, you are not married, you have no wife, I don't know what this woman looks like when she is pregnant. If you want to talk about changes, it must be a little different, your sister-in-law's pregnancy this time is, people become very sensitive, a little unintentional words, she can be misinterpreted into other meanings, and then cry aggrievedly! ”

"Huh? Is it? Su Dushen was taken aback in her heart, feeling a little familiar to her, "Brother Fang, is there a possibility that you really said something that shouldn't be said?" ”

Fang Bingkun was very aggrieved, "Ah Shen, don't you know, once this woman is pregnant, she will be the queen of the family, who dares to say something that shouldn't be said?" You say, let's eat together, I will put vegetables for her, and say eat more, and the child will also be nutritious. Are you saying that I am wrong? But after hearing this, your sister-in-law threw the chopsticks and scolded me! ”

"What are you scolding?" Su Duan asked puzzledly, "What you said is right." ”

Fang Bingkun was about to cry out if he was aggrieved, "She scolded me for farting, saying that I only have children in my heart without her." Isn't that unreasonable, you say? Am I not having her in my heart? She eats less, isn't her health good? ”

Su Dushen was glad in her heart, fortunately, it was the secretary who was pregnant for her, and fortunately, she didn't dare to scold herself.

"Don't you know, after being pregnant, my heart is fragile, sensitive, and very crying." Fang Bingkun didn't notice Su Dushen's contemplation, and continued: "It's just been three months, that's it, how do you say I'll live in the future?" ”

"Brother Fang, is it normal to have this symptom for three months?"

"It's not abnormal, it's that everyone is different, I've heard that some people have a very short temper when they are pregnant, just like opening a blind box." Fang Bingkun shook his head with a wry smile, looking helpless.

Su Dui thought of the little temper that Gu Fanxing had played on him when she came back just now, if you looked at it according to Brother Fang's words, then her sensitive reaction should have been caused by pregnancy.

He said, Gu Fanxing will not be unreasonable and unreasonable with himself.

He thought for a while, and then asked, "Brother Fang, will the symptoms of that sister-in-law disappear later?" ”

"Possibly, probably not." Fang Bingkun shook his head lovelessly, looked at him pitifully and said, "Everything depends on my brother's creation." ”

Su Du smiled, "Don't say that. My sister-in-law has made a great contribution to this family, you can be more tolerant, and if it's a big deal, you can endure it for ten months, and it's good to give birth. ”

"It's good to be born?" Fang Bingkun smiled bitterly again, "You, you're still young." The child was born more things, postpartum depression has heard of it, after I gave birth to the last two Bao'er, your sister-in-law lost her temper all day long, and she didn't suffer from postpartum depression, but I was tortured day by day, here to take care of your sister-in-law's emotions, and there to participate in taking care of the baby, so that the baby can feel the father's love and mother's love. During the month your sister-in-law's confinement, I was about to get sick. ”

Su Dushen didn't know what to say, he had both sympathy, pity, and admiration for this good big brother.

Why is there so much to do when a child is born?

"Come on, seeing that you are scared, I can't tell you more, if you don't dare to have children in the future, I will be guilty." Fang Bingkun picked up the wine glass, touched it with him, and said jokingly.

He made up for it again: "However, if you listen to me, it's not that there is no benefit at all, and we still have a sense of accomplishment when we see me and your sister-in-law carefully raising Xiaobu together." ”

Su Dui was not frightened, but he really didn't expect these follow-up problems. It's not that a pregnant woman will be like nothing after giving birth, it's not that the child will be thrown to the confinement lady to see that everything will be fine, he is the father of the child, and he should be involved in taking care of the child, even if it is a simple way to learn to change diapers, it's good, right?

At this moment, he was a little worried about Gu Fanxing. After giving birth, she can get 20 million, but can 20 million repair a wounded heart? Can it soothe a heart that misses a child?

Brother Fang just said that he will participate in taking care of the baby, so that the baby can feel the love of father and mother. He felt that this was right, parents take care of their children, and in love, they rely on each other and produce stronger family affection.

But if Gu Fanxing leaves, where will Xiao Longbao make up for the maternal love that Xiaolongbao can't feel? Where is the babysitter? Or is it grandma's? Anywhere, it is not as pure as her mother's love!

He thought that he had done something wrong, he wanted the best everything that Xiao Long Bao would give him after he was born, but he ignored the most essential maternal love, which was the best for Xiao Long Bao.

"It's not easy to raise a child, and there are three in your family." He said quietly.

Fang Bingkun babbled and said: "It's not easy, but it's more about thanking your sister-in-law, it's even more difficult for her." When a woman gives birth to a child, it is not an exaggeration to say that it is a walk before the ghost door is closed, and the eldest and second child of our family are all born naturally, and your sister-in-law was in pain at that time, and she broke my fingers, and almost broke it for me. The third child in the back, because of age, cesarean section, has to get out of bed the next day after giving birth, your sister-in-law is covering the wound with one hand, while moving forward with the cat's waist, snorting and scolding me. After that, it is to breastfeed, no matter how late, when the child cries, then he has to get up, and he gets up six or seven times a night. ”

Fang Bingkun said and spoke, stopped his mouth, looked at Su Dushen with red eyes, sighed "Eh", then covered his eyes with his hands, and said in a choked voice: "I'm so inhuman, people are desperately trying to give birth to a child for me, what if I lose my temper?" What right do I have to be unhappy? I'm not human! ”

After he scolded himself, he wiped his face and said to Su Dushen seriously: "I have to go back and coax your sister-in-law, Ah Shen, thank you, I haven't talked to you like this, I haven't realized it yet!" Let's go, and when the child is full moon wine, come over and cheer. ”

Su Dushen watched him leave quickly, and he was also emotionally moved in his heart, just listening to Brother Fang's words, his brain made up for Gu Fanxing's painful appearance when he gave birth, and his heart was also pinched together.

Getting along with her day and night, naturally gave birth to some feelings, he knew. He is not a ruthless person, when the two of them did ridiculous things, he was also at fault, and it made no sense to treat her like that.

Since he doesn't hate her, and he doesn't have any requirements for the choice of his wife, Secretary Gu is also a high-quality choice, at least, the family likes her very much. Besides, she is Xiaolongbao's mother, although her identity is not as good as the Su family, but her mother's identity is unshakable!

At this moment, he changed his previous mind and chose to spend his life with Gu Fanxing.