Chapter 1268: Sweet Dream (31)

Acacia Farm: Sweet Dreams (Waru Alan)

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It seems that it is not enough to help children build dreams and realize their dreams, but also let them know how to enjoy. If pain is the process that must be experienced to achieve dreams, it is necessary to know how to enjoy the whole process of overcoming difficulties, and perhaps this is the key to success.

Not only can you find happiness from pain and enjoy the painful process, but you can also enjoy success, know how to retire after success, and retire in your old age. The last sentence of the paragraph I put on my child's bedside: "Even if you lose all your achievements after you have achieved fame", it is not wise.

The ancients said: contentment is not disgraceful, and knowledge is not lost. After retiring, the way of heaven is also.

People who are not content, who do not know when to stop, will not be happy in their lives. There is a joke-like story that tells the story:

[A rich man who is shameless and shameless has died. The whole town mourned for him, and when his coffin was placed in the grave, there were weepings and lamentations everywhere. According to the recollections of the oldest residents of the town, even when the priests and saints died, people did not mourn so much.

And another rich man in the town died, and the funeral was deserted, with only a few family members present. His character and lifestyle were the opposite of the previous rich man. He was frugal and abstinent and ate only dry bread and turnips. He was a religious believer throughout his life, spending his days studying the Code in a luxurious research room. Why does the whole town respect a shameless man and ignore a saint?

The townspeople said, "The rich man, though a pervert and a drunkard, is the greatest benefactor of the town." He has an easy-going, cheerful personality and likes the good things in life. Practically everyone in the town benefits from it. He buys wine from one man, chicken from another, goose from the third, and cheese from the fourth. He was also very generous. That's why each of us misses him and mourns him. But what good is the rich man who eats bread and turnips all day long? No one can make a penny from him. Trust me, no one will miss him. ”】

The story illustrates that wealth is useless failure when it does not bring benefits to those around you.

When the grades are counted down, it is not wrong to grasp the study with a hard time, and when you reach the top three, you should be smart to find skills to learn with half the effort and enjoy the fun of learning, otherwise it is not too sad to recall the painful memories of high school in the future? If you don't know how to enjoy learning now, will you not know how to enjoy the fun of life in the future? Like the rich man who eats bread and turnips all day long, and regards the rise in wealth as his only pleasure, this miser life is not only ridiculous but also contemptible in the eyes of others.

I was trying to convince my son to give up staring at the test results and stay up late every day, and he started teaching me again.

The son said, "Our teacher asked, 'Do your parents always want to educate you to talk to you, and you feel bored and rebellious?'

I said, "This shows that your parents are well-cultivated, and those who want to preach when they see others as unpleasant are not self-cultivated enough." ”

Yes, one sentence blocked his words, and he didn't say anything.