The victim will become the perpetrator.

It is said that poverty is a disease that is difficult to cure, but a more serious disease than poverty is the preference for sons.

The poorer you are, the poorer you are, the poorer you are, until you can give birth to the so-called son who can inherit the incense.

If you can't give birth to a son, you'll be guilty all your life.

This is the concept that some people have been exposed to when the three views have not yet been perfected.

This kind of concept, moisturizing things silently, slowly takes root and sprouts.

"Then I'll ask another question."

Yu Feiwan raised his eyes and looked directly at Wen Wen.

"If, a few years later, you start your own family, conceive a child for ten months, and give birth to a daughter, will you happily accept it and raise her willingly?"

"I will." Wen Wen blurted out.

"What if the second child is still a daughter?" Yu Feiwan asked unhurriedly.

Wen Wen hesitated for a moment, then nodded, "I will still raise it." ”

Yu Feiwan smiled mockingly in his heart.

No, you won't.

"What about the third and fourth children or daughters?"

Obviously, family planning has been implemented, but she is really skeptical that this kind of four and five children were born again and again.

Also, if there is no one in the household register, it is equivalent to not having a child.

If you give birth to a daughter, you have to throw it away and make room for the boy?

Wen Wen unconsciously lowered his head and retorted in a low voice, "This looks like us, does it have anything to do with your unhappiness?" ”

Yu Feiwan: Yes! She's the little unlucky one who was thrown away.

No, it's a big lucky egg.

Pingping's existence turned misfortune into luck.

But her healthy growth does not mean that Wen Wen is innocent of abandoning the baby girl.

"You answer me."

Wen Wen still lowered his head, a little weak-hearted, "How can there be a mother in this world who doesn't love her children." ”

"However, we still have to consider reality."

"There must always be a boy in the family to lean on the top door."

"So, if the third and fourth children were still girls, you would abandon them, right?" At this moment, Yu Feiwan was asking knowingly.

Wen Wen hurriedly raised his head, "It's not abandonment." ”

"If the family conditions are enough to afford it, raise it."

"If you can't, you want to give it up."

"People who can't have children will be treated kindly."

Yu Feiwan sneered, so naïve and idealistic.

Those who are born can be abandoned, but they hope that the people who are sent for adoption will be treated well.

Is this kind of thinking self-deception and making oneself feel good?

"If you can't afford it, why do you have to give birth?"

"Because you can't determine whether you are male or female, can you?"

Yu Feiwan asked and answered himself.

She couldn't judge Wen Wen's good or evil based on that.

Thousands of years of deep-rooted, I privately think that the convention should be like this, and it is right.

For a long time, Wen Wen never spoke.

Just when Yu Feiwan felt that this conversation was going to end without a problem, Wen Wenyu said, "If I can call the shots, I will not abandon any child." ”

"But I know, I can't."

"From the moment my parents died in the black mine accident, I no longer had the freedom to make choices."

"Whether it's going to school or getting married, it's not for me to decide."

"I don't know why you're asking me these irrelevant questions, I can only say that as a girl, I want girls to have the same treatment and rights as boys, but I think in my heart it's impossible."

"In the village, the grandson is the grandmother's little heart, and the granddaughter is the family's money-loser."

"The family's house and savings are all for the boy."

"Girls don't have a share."

"After a woman gets married, she must also have children so that she will not be poked in the backbone and scolded by the hen who can't lay eggs."

"I've seen too much of this."

"Even if it's my grandfather, everyone in ten miles and eight villages says that he is a kind person, but after my parents died, he secretly cut off part of the hush money for my younger brother to save, and even sent me and my younger brother to my aunt's house, the requirements were different."

"I can't resist, I can only choose to go downstream."

"I'm sorry, but it's not too late."

"I know, I disappointed you with my answer."

"I have to make sure I survive."

"If you don't want to be friends with me in the future, I will admit it."

"It's that I'm not good enough."

Wen Wen carried his schoolbag on his back, turned against the light, and trotted away from the campus.

Yu Feiwan was still sitting on the steps, looking at the teaching building shrouded by the afterglow of the setting sun, and his thoughts continued to drift.

Disappointed?

Not a disappointment.

This is the dominant notion today.

The equality she believes in her heart, in this era, is tantamount to a light boat hitting an iceberg and a mayfly shaking a tree.

Even if he is as loving as Li Lan, the balance in his heart is still in favor of Yu Peng.

Giving birth to a male baby seems to be a task that a woman must complete in her life.

If you can't do it, you will fail.

Whether it is a county seat or a rural village, many of them are tireless in seeking children.

She could understand it, and she could even understand the pity of these people.

However, her heart still couldn't control it, and dense pain would come out.

Sour and astringent.

OK.

Fortunately, she never had big expectations for her biological mother, whom she had never met.

Without expectations, there will be no disappointment.

If there is no disappointment, there will be no resentment because of the gap.

Wen Wen's words are inescapable facts.

People, you have to make sure that you live first.

In a way, it's not selfishness, it's self-preservation.

She guessed that the person Wen Wen married was not a good person.

can abandon their daughter again and again, that family will not be a good thing.

"It's not late, it's not too late."

Yu Ping's smiling voice added a vivid color to the sunset.

In Yu Feiwan's heart, a living spring was also injected.

"Did you miss me in the afternoon, so you secretly watched me in the corridor?"

Yu Ping held Yu Feiwan's arm and smiled sweetly and softly.

Yu Feiwan leaned against Yu Ping's head and said from the bottom of his heart, "I thought about it." ”

I really want to think about it.

There has to be a degree of seeing.

Hearing this, Yu Ping held Yu Feiwan's cheeks with both hands, and her delicate brows frowned slightly, "Feiwan, did someone make you unhappy?" ”

"Don't lie, tell the truth."

Yu Feiwan took Yu Ping's hand and said softly, "I saw a person who I thought I would never see in my life." ”

"Don't you want to see or like it?" Yu Ping tilted her head and asked curiously.

Yu Feiwan hooked the corners of his lips, and his voice was clear and ethereal, just like the night breeze in early autumn, gradually bringing coolness, "It's okay." ”

"It's just too unexpected, and I can't accept it for a while."

"If you can't accept it, you won't accept it." Yu Ping continued in a serious way, "It's not too late, you must not wronged yourself because of irrelevant people. ”

"You're the most important."

Yu Ping was stunned word by word.

Yu Feiwan raised his hand and straightened Yu Ping's messy hair, "You are the most important." ”

Your wish is my wish.

What you ask for is why I'm here.

"Where's Jiaojiao?"

"Detained?"

Yu Feiwan pretended to be relaxed and diverted the topic.