Chapter 186: The Hardships and Sorrows of Today's Women
Yan Zhen sighed softly and said, "Do you believe what your mother-in-law says?" ”
The woman nodded, and said as a matter of course: "After all, my mother-in-law gave birth to eight, and people are very experienced, and she also said that I should eat more sour, so that I can give birth to a male baby."
Her first seven are all female dolls, my husband is the oldest, the only male baby, if I don't give birth to a son, my mother-in-law can't spare me. ”
The more the woman spoke, the quieter her voice became, the more worried she became, knowing that if she didn't get pregnant again, she would have no home.
Her mother's family has an older brother and younger brother, and her sister-in-law and younger siblings don't want to see her, and she can't go back.
The woman begged again, "So doctor, please, let me have a son!" ”
Yanzhen knows that it is not good to favor sons over women, but she also understands the difficulties and helplessness of women in this environment, but she still said: "Having a boy or a girl is not something I can decide, nor can you decide." ”
"What?" The woman obviously didn't understand very much, "Why didn't I decide?" Who's that? Man? ”
Yan Zhen nodded, "Yes." And I suggest that it is better for your man to go to the hospital for a sperm test. ”
Yan Zhen said while giving the woman a pulse: "For so many years, you have not had children, it is very likely that it is not your problem. ”
The woman still didn't quite understand, "Why isn't it my problem?" Isn't it us women who have children? ”
"My mother-in-law said that my belly was not angry, she gave birth to eight a year at that time!" The woman stretched out her finger pen and drew an eight, "She gave birth to so much, what she said is always true." ”
"My mother-in-law said that it may be that I killed a weasel when I was a child, and the weasel took revenge on me." The woman said with a sad face: "I've looked for Daxian, Daxian can say, if I can meet a noble person this year, I will definitely be able to get pregnant." ”
She looked up and smiled, "Isn't this the good news of Huihui, aren't you my nobleman when I hear you!" I came from my hometown right away. ”
The woman's eyes were full of hope when she looked at Yan Zhen, who knew that she was now carrying the hopes of many people.
"So, you must let me have a son this time!" The woman gritted her teeth and nodded at Yan Zhen, "I don't want to be looked down upon anymore." ”
Yan Zhen again: "Then you can let your man go to the hospital for a sperm test, at your local hospital, or you can bring it over and I will arrange for you." ”
Seeing that the woman still looked incomprehensible, she said truthfully: "Without a man, you can't get pregnant, right?" ”
She patiently explained slowly, "Your belly is the land, and your man has seeds there, and the seeds are bad, no matter how fertile your land is, it won't bear fruit?" I say that, do you understand? ”
Through the pulse of Yanzhen, she found that a woman's body does not have too many problems except for the lack of qi and blood, and she has not been pregnant for so many years, which is likely to be her man's problem.
The woman nodded as if she didn't understand, "I see." ”
It was the first time she had heard of it.
In fact, in rural areas, there are many men in the family, and they are all brothers, so there is no pressure to pass on the ancestry. If you don't have children for many years, most people will adopt one, and you don't have the awareness to go to the hospital for examination, after all, it costs a lot of money.
So it's the first time I've heard of Yanzhen's theory of having children.
This woman's name is Wu Meijuan, and her family is the only one in her family, and her mother-in-law said that she would not agree to adopt anything, and she must be allowed to give birth.
She met Cheng Huihui when she was looking for a remedy for birth in a temple.
As soon as Cheng Huihui became pregnant, she quickly contacted everyone she could contact, and if she had a phone at home, she should call. If she didn't have a phone and left her home address, she would write letters and send telegrams, and she didn't care about this money, because she knew the hardships of the road to find a child, and hoped to give these women hope.
Wu Meijuan rushed over after receiving Cheng Huihui's letter.
Do you have to let his man come too? Do you want to let her return again now? Wu Meijuan was actually a little discouraged.
Wu Meijuan said disappointedly: "But my mother-in-law said that it was my problem." ”
Yan Zhen said seriously: "What your mother-in-law said is not right. ”
Wu Meijuan retorted: "My mother-in-law gave birth to eight, how can it be wrong?" It must be my problem. ”
It doesn't make sense!
Wu Meijuan estimated that she had been brainwashed by her mother-in-law, and Yan Zhen ran out of patience and said: "If you want to have children, listen to me, if you don't want to be ridiculed by the people in your village all the time, you will listen to your mother-in-law." ”
Her sorrow and helplessness can really be seen, and she really feels sorry for her.
Wu Meijuan nodded and said, "Okay, then I'll take my man for a trip." ”
I just don't know if her man will cooperate, Wu Meijuan has no bottom in her heart, she hasn't heard of a woman who doesn't have children because of a man's problem.
But her man behaved very well there, so what could be the problem?
Wu Meijuan muttered in her heart and left. She came this time and ran away with money from home, how can she tell her mother-in-law and her man when she goes back?
Her mother-in-law is going to woo her man again and divorce her. What makes Wu Meijuan happy is that although her man has also complained for so many years, she has never promised her mother to divorce, so Wu Meijuan willingly endured her mother-in-law's torture and worked hard at home.
But Wu Meijuan just wondered, can a woman give birth to a child and still have something to do with a man? It was the first time she had heard that if she talked to her man about that when she went back, her man would have to beat her.
Seeing that Wu Meijuan was gone, Yan Zhen asked Chen Juan to call the next one.
"Oh, Doctor Yan, I heard Huihui say early in the morning, saying that your Hanging Ji Hall is amazing!" When the woman came in, she was holding a little girl about five years old.
The little girl had pigtails on her head, and when she saw Yan Zhen and Chen Juan without waiting for the adults to command, she shouted sweetly, "Hello, Auntie!" ”
"That's good!" Chen Juan's heart is about to melt, because her family is a naughty boy, and she has no daughter, Chen Juan can't walk when she sees someone's little girl.
Chen Juan couldn't hold back, touched the child's face, and took pear paste candy for the little girl to eat.
The little doll shook her head and looked up at her mother.
The woman touched her head and said, "Eat, Auntie gave it to you." ”
"Thank you, Auntie!" The little girl said thank you and took the pear paste candy from Chen Juan's hand.
Chen Juan looked at her lovingly, "It's good to be a female doll, it's so good!" Look at this well-behaved, unlike the stupid boy in my family, you know that he is naughty, and I am so angry that I want to beat him eight times a day! ”
The woman didn't speak, just laughed hard.
Yanzhen motioned for her to sit down, and actually wondered a little in her heart, didn't she already have a child, why did she still want to give birth so persistently? Do you want to have a son?