[Maybe her daughter is rebellious? If today's child is in a rebellious period, what she or he can say hurts his parents. 】

[Agree upstairs, I have a child like this, who has to talk back to everything, and doesn't say anything to me, and I'm sad to death. 】

[You all give birth to daughters like this, then my heart will be balanced, and my son is rebellious, and I want to drive him out of the house. 】

[Upstairs, when I really can't stand it, silently recite the three words of my own life, I'm like this. 】

……

Mother of two: "No, I don't have a patriarchy, I have a son, but I am very good to my daughter." My daughter was also very sensible before she went to college, and she helped in her own store since she was a child. ”

"On the other hand, my son has not been considerate of his parents at all since he was a child, and he needs money to go out and play with his friends whenever he has time."

"During the summer vacation of my daughter's junior year of high school, she even went out to work, and in three months, she earned her own college tuition."

"Even when she was in college, she worked and studied, and we only needed to give her 500 living expenses every month, even so, every time she came home from vacation, she would buy gifts for the whole family, even good brands."

"My son, 5,000 a month is not enough for living expenses, but he often gets into trouble, I don't know how much I have lost for the glass of the school, and I have given tens of thousands of dollars for the medical expenses of the person who injured him."

"In order not to worry us, my daughter also chose a local university to study."

"I felt very happy to have such a caring daughter, and I felt that I could have hope when I was old in the future."

"But when my daughter was a senior in college this year, she told me that she had a boyfriend and was already living with him outside. That person is from Qingcheng, Qingcheng is too far away from Nancheng, and it is across provinces, if she marries far away, I will never have a chance to see her a few times in my life. ”

[There is no patriarchy in this person's mouth, but the actual actions are all patriarchal. 】

[That's right, I give my daughter 500 living expenses a month and 5,000 to my son, which is ten times worse, which is too partial. 】

[That's right, it's the same holiday, the son can play with friends everywhere, and the daughter has to help in the store, and after a long time, she will definitely be disappointed in her parents. 】

[What did they say in order not to worry her, they chose a local university to study, didn't they talk in front of their daughter, if they studied locally, they could be more relaxed, save living expenses, and don't have to spend too much money on travel expenses every time. 】

[That's right, such a good daughter, they have spent more than twenty years making her farther and farther away from them. 】

Mother of two: "That's what my daughter asked for, her father and I didn't force her, if she didn't want to, we wouldn't say anything." ”

[Really won't say anything?] You may have inadvertently said that she didn't help and didn't know how to reduce the burden on the family, so she didn't dare to say it, but she would be scolded if she did? 】

The mother of two children was stunned and immediately fell silent.

It's as if she had said something like that.

Qiao Ningxun pinched her fingers and said, "If you want your daughter to be as caring as before, then you have to change yourself." ”

The mother of two came back to her senses and asked, "How do we change?" ”

Qiao Ningxun: "What the sailors said just now is right, every word you say, you feel that you are not patriarchal, but in life, you are patriarchal everywhere." ”

The mother of two quickly denied: "I didn't." ”

Qiao Ningxun: "You have, I've figured it out, I'll just talk about a few things." ”

"During the summer vacation after her college entrance examination, she originally wanted to make an appointment with her classmates to travel together, and they found a tour group, which is very discounted, and you can go to more than a dozen cities for a few thousand yuan."

"She asked your husband and wife for money, and you didn't refuse at first, but once when you spoke, you didn't notice that she was also beside you, and I heard you say that after the college entrance examination of other people's daughters, they all began to make money for the family, but your daughter has to spend thousands to travel, which is really a loser."

"Since that day, she hasn't thought about traveling, and she has found a job on her own."

"The second thing, when she was a sophomore, she was unwell for a period of time, and she didn't earn enough money for next month's living expenses, just relying on the five hundred yuan you gave, not even enough money for medicine, asking you for money, do you remember what you said? said that how could your daughter be sick at a young age, she must have learned to be generous, let your daughter save money, and you have no money in your own hands for the time being. ”

"But on the same day, your freshman son called you and said that the living expenses were not enough, and without saying a word, you gave him 3,000 yuan, and told him not to save, and to buy whatever he likes."

"What you don't know is that your son asked for the money for your daughter, and as soon as the 3,000 yuan arrived, he transferred it to his sister, and your daughter immediately took the money to buy medicine."

[This brother is not bad. 】

[Generally speaking, the younger brother will take good care of the elder sister, and of course there is also the vampire younger brother. 】

[This brother is really good. 】

[The mother of two children also said that she was not patriarchal, but now it's okay, and the anchor has shaken it out for her. 】

The mother of two hurriedly explained: "At that time, I just casually told my husband, I really didn't know she heard it." There is also the fact that she wants living expenses, I really think she has learned to be generous, after all, she didn't take the initiative to ask us for money before, I really didn't know she was sick. Because the children around me are all healthy, I thought she was healthy too. ”

[You think your daughter jumped out of the stone, and you say you don't know about being sick.] 】

[That's right, as long as you are human, you will get sick, and you are reluctant to spend money on your daughter. 】

[That's right, your daughter must have struggled for a long time at that time before she mustered up the courage to ask you for money, but she didn't expect to be rejected by the person closest to her, if I were your daughter, I asked my brother for money at that time, and my brother didn't give it, I would definitely die. 】

The mother of two was in tears.

She really didn't know that what she did hurt her daughter's heart so much.

Qiao Ningxun didn't intend to let her go like this, and continued: "The reason why your daughter chose the local school is indeed to save money for the family. Once, she didn't find a part-time job for a long time, but her major had to buy a computer with good performance, and asked you for money to buy a computer, what do you say about her? said that such an expensive computer, you have to earn it for a long time, let her borrow it from a classmate. ”

"After that, she really didn't buy a computer, and every time she did her homework, she asked her classmates to borrow it."

"But classmates also have to do homework, and if she wants to borrow it, she will delay her classmates' homework time, and she will suffer a lot of white eyes from them."