Chapter 493: What Do Women Want

At about five o'clock in the morning on the ninth day of the Lunar New Year, Gangwan New Town, No. 81 Courtyard, was lit up everywhere, beaming with joy, and red was the main element, reflecting unity and happiness.

There are constantly vehicles coming in and out at the gate, and people are constantly coming and going at the door of the villa. Most of them are staff, and the rest are the woman's family, relatives, friends, etc.

In the room on the second floor, Zhang Xiaoyu sat on a comfortable chair, watching the makeup artist put on Zhai Ruonan's makeup, with a faint smile on her face. Hao Hao lay on her lap, looking at the makeup artist's makeup movements for a while, and looking at the aunt in the mirror for a while, quite interested.

"Sister, why don't you go and rest, I guess it will take a long time. Zhai Ruonan said.

Zhang Xiaoyu got up with them early, and then there were all kinds of preparations. Of course, she was not allowed to do anything, at most one month, it was due date, and she was determined not to do anything.

"It's okay, I went to bed early, and now I'm in good spirits. Zhang Xiaoyu said with a smile, "I'm watching here, and my heart is steady." ”

Zhai Ruonan was moved in his heart, changed the topic and said, "Sister, when you and your brother-in-law got married, why didn't you hold a wedding?"

Hao Hao interjected and said, "It's done." However, there are very few people, including grandfathers, grandfathers, grandmothers, uncles, uncles, aunts, and aunts...... There were many, many people, and five tables were set up. There was also a grandfather with a very long and white beard, I don't know what it was called. ”

Zhang Xiaoyu touched Haohao's head with a smile and said, "That's your grandfather's grandfather, you should be called Grandpa Zeng." ”

Obviously, what Hao Hao is talking about is Li Hongjun, who is already 90 years old -- Li Lu's grandfather and Li Mai's great-grandfather.

Saying that, Zhang Xiaoyu explained to Zhai Ruonan, "It's done, but it's just a gathering in Li Mai's family, all of them are from their family and my relatives, and nothing else is invited." The old man has an order, not to engage in extravagance and waste. ”

"Sister, then why did you and your brother-in-law hold such a big wedding for me. "Zhai Ruonan is a little unsure.

"That's why. Zhang Xiaoyu said with a smile, "So I have to watch you get married." ”

Zhai Ruonan understands that her wedding contains Li Mai and Zhang Xiaoyu's expectations for the wedding. Undoubtedly, in the hearts of Li Mai and his wife, her sister-in-law is very heavy. With another burst of emotion in her heart, she stabilized her mind and said, "I don't know why, I'm a little nervous." ”

"It's normal to be nervous. Zhang Xiaoyu said, "Starting today, you will live a new life and participate in the formation of a new family." It's normal to have nervous feelings. ”

Zhai Ruonan asked again: "Sister, what is life like after marriage? Is it different from when I fell in love? In the second half of Switzerland, I lived with Zhou Qi. Could it be that after we get married, the way he and I get along will change?"

Zhang Xiaoyu smiled more and more happily, as a person who came over, she clearly understood Zhai Ruonan's mood at this moment, she said slowly, "Ruonan, that kind of change mainly depends on your own experience, others are ineffable, even if they are from the past." Every person and every family is different, and the key is the premise that each other can have a family. For us women, we make our own choices, and we go on our own. ”

Zhai Ruonan thought for a moment and nodded slowly, because he was putting on makeup, the amplitude was very small, "Marry a chicken and marry a dog." ”

After a pause, she said with some emotion, "Sister, I feel that I can understand my mother now." ”

Zhang Xiaoyu smiled slightly, waiting for Zhai Ruonan to continue. Hao Hao didn't understand what the adults were saying, but he listened carefully. The big cat, the beast, has been staring at it in a daze since he received millions of New Year's money, either sleeping on his stomach or grinning when he sees people, but it has also scared many relatives and friends.

Sighing slightly, Zhai Ruonan said, "In the past, I always blamed my mother, blamed her for not caring about her sister, watching her daughter being treated unfairly, and living alone outside her, I felt that she was not a qualified mother. Now I understand that she also has no place to talk about her suffering. Marrying in such a big family, there is pressure everywhere and you need to take care of it everywhere, and it is not easy to be a good woman. ”

Nodding slightly, Zhang Xiaoyu said, "When you fall in love, all you see are advantages, they are all sweet, and when you get married, you will appear." No one is perfect, I don't know much about Zhou Qi, but judging from the situation you got from your brother-in-law, he will be a good man. I think you have spent the longest time with him, and you should know him best. ”

"From a woman's point of view, when you get married, you don't have the absolute dominance when you fall in love, and you will feel a little uncomfortable at first. Your brother-in-law and I are an exception, and we can basically say that we lack a complete stage of love, so after marriage, he basically obeys me. But if you think about it from another angle, the pressure on men is far greater than that of women. This is determined by innate attributes. All in all, he loves you enough and you understand him enough, which is the foundation of family harmony. ”

Zhai Ruonan smiled and said, "Sister, hearing you say this, I feel a lot more relaxed." Whether it's a woman or a man, it's going to come this far after all. You're right, it hurts me enough, I understand him enough, it's enough. ”

"The key is to have hope. The most important thing in life is life, and living a good life is the fundamental goal. Zhang Xiaoyu said, "You, don't think too much." No one can predict the future, live in the present, and look forward to the future. We can all see that you and Zhou Qi are a good match. ”

Zhai Ruonan's face turned red slightly, and said, "Sister, it's not that I praise him, he is indeed very good at taking care of people and knows how to hurt people." During my year in Switzerland, I felt this acutely. What the hell are we women trying to do, aren't they just men who love each other? ”

"So, you should understand why I treat your brother-in-law as always. He used to be poor, but now his career is booming, for me, those are all accessories, I want his people, not the added value he creates. Zhang Xiaoyu said with a smile.

"But now more and more women are looking for added value. Zhai Ruonan said with a smile.

"So the divorce rate is going up every year. Zhang Xiaoyu picked up the conversation.

The sisters looked at each other and laughed.

At this time, the sound of slight footsteps sounded, and Zhang Xiaoyu turned her head to look over, but she was a woman with an elegant temperament. Zhai Ruonan's mother, Gong Liping, walked in slowly, followed by a middle-aged man, but it was Zhai Ruonan's father, Zhai Yuanping.

The makeup artist drew the last stroke, and when he stepped aside, Zhai Ruonan felt the strangeness of the atmosphere, turned his head to look over, and saw his parents walking in......