Su Mu said a lot, which can be regarded as a feeling, she avoided the girl's confession, and only said the reason why she didn't want to fall in love.

After saying this, the girls present frowned, but the boys in the audience felt the same way.

On the campus of Jiang University, there are not a few people who fall in love, and among these couples who fall in love, most of the girls live a relatively nourishing life, while the boys are living in poverty.

This is innate, girls have been spoiled since they were young, whether it is their parents or the people around them, they will be more willing to spend money for girls.

And boys, from childhood to adulthood, are the existence of dogs, who would be willing to spend money for men.

To take the simplest example, when I was a child, I wanted pocket money, and the girl was coquettish with her father, and her voice was sweeter, and her father's wallet was obediently opened.

And the boy wants pocket money, and your father's backhand is a big pocket, if you want it, you want a hammer, you have no money!

For another example, when a girl grows up, what do you want to buy, and she is coquettish with her boyfriend, saying that she likes this, she likes that, can you not buy it?

Some girls may not ask for it directly, but casually mention it, for example, "My roommate bought a bag today, it looks good, and my girlfriend bought lipstick today, the color is so beautiful." ”

You say, as a boyfriend, do you buy it or not?

Don't buy it, she's not happy, buy it, do you have enough money in your own pocket?

And if the relationship is reversed, the boy says to his girlfriend, "Baby, pop some gold coins, I'll buy a pack of cigarettes." ”

Let's not talk about being a man, you are so embarrassed to ask your girlfriend for money, even if you really open your mouth, it is estimated that your girlfriend will blow up on the spot, "I want to die, I smoke again, I am not allowed to smoke." ”

Change it again, don't buy cigarettes, buy something else, like buy a pair of shoes, your girlfriend might buy them for you, but turn around and you're done.

A bunch of girlfriends will definitely attack you countless times after knowing about this.

"What kind of person, I'm embarrassed to ask a girl for money, I'm really thick-skinned!"

"Open your mouth to ask a woman for money, this is the first time I've seen this kind of man, and it's really eye-opening!"

"If you have hands and feet, won't you earn what you want? There are so many part-time jobs on weekends, he won't do it, he actually asks for a girlfriend, and he is really embarrassed! ”

After this bunch of words, your girlfriend's impression of you has definitely dropped, and you say, you can't finish it, right?

And not only that, all kinds of festivals, all kinds of special days, Valentine's Day, Goddess Day, 520, Tanabata, love full moon, 100 days, anniversaries, birthdays, boys have to spend money, girls have to receive gifts.

Now there are dozens of festivals a year, and almost all of them are about to become exclusive festivals for girls.

And what about the boys? Is there a festival in the world that exists for men?

Almost nothing, about the same as none.

So in the end, the man obviously earns a lot, and he doesn't spend much money himself, but he always has no money in his pocket.

Where did all the money go? It's all spent on girls and girlfriends.

In Jiangda, and even in the whole of China, countless men live frugally and use the money they save to buy various gifts for their girlfriends.

On the campus of Jiang University, there are many boys who eat instant noodles, work part-time, and rub roommate meals, just to save money to buy gifts for their girlfriends, which is commonly known as licking dogs.

After hearing Su Mu's words, they felt the same way, and some male reporters and teachers who were old, in their thirties and forties, had a deep understanding.

Those who are not married are worried about the bride price and the house, and those who are married have a high mortgage every month, and they are trying to make their wives and children live a better life.

So, what does falling in love and getting married bring to men?

I live a good life alone, with a salary of seven or eight thousand a month, and I can spend it as much as I want.

It's okay to go out with good buddies to rub it, play games on weekends, go to the bathing center to take a bath, sing and sing in KtV, free and comfortable, and life is boundless.

Why do you want to find a girlfriend and find an ancestor to support, not only to bear the financial pressure, but also to bear the other party's bad temper and small emotions, isn't that pure to find sin?

Of course, Su Mu didn't say that he wouldn't fall in love, he just said that when you don't have money, don't fall in love.

Boys in their early twenties are generally poor, except for the rich second generation who have a mine at home, how many can have money in their pockets?

College students take the living expenses given by their parents and the little salary they earn from part-time jobs, and you fall in love with a hammer.

The stunned young man who has just come out of society, he is a grandson to the boss every day, five or six thousand a month, you still have to pay rent, water and electricity, you can't afford to live anymore, you talk about a hammer in love.

At this age, finding a way to make money is king, and improving yourself is always the most important thing.

Grit your teeth and work hard for a few years, and when you are thirty years old, your job is stable, your side hustle is impressive, you have bought a car, and you have a few spare money in your pocket.

At that time, you can talk about it if you want, a large number of delicate girls are waiting for you to choose, as long as the kidney function can keep up, no one cares about you when you talk about ten or eight.

Again, if you bloom, butterflies will come.

Su Mu's words woke up a lot of people, and the atmosphere in the field seemed a little silent, the boys were thoughtful, and the girls looked like they wanted to refute, but they couldn't find a reason.

After a while, some reporters and media were the first to react, and a reporter raised his hand and asked:

"Hello Mr. Su, in the passage you just said, you mentioned one of the most critical issues, money.

So I want to ask, how can I make enough money? As far as I know, before you rose, you were just an ordinary college student.

How did you manage to make so much money in such a short period of time? Can you share with us the secret of your success? ”

This issue is more sensitive, but it is also the most concerned issue for everyone, speaking of which, everything in this world is related to money, and people are always looking for ways to make money.

Everyone present looked at Su Mu expectantly, wanting to find the answer from him.

emm, Su Mu was in his heart for a while, how did I make money, of course I was open.

Thinking so in his heart, but of course he couldn't say that on his face, Su Mu smiled and said:

"This question has been asked by many people, and not only me, Niu Yun, twist Huateng, the richest man from all walks of life, almost all have been asked this question.

These seniors can't say why, and in my opinion, the secret of making money is nothing more than one word - change!

Whatever you want to do, you need to start first, and starting means changing.

Whether it's good or bad, no matter what the outcome is, you have to start and change first.

Change may not be successful, but if you don't change, you will not succeed, this is not chicken soup, but reality.

Many people are dissatisfied with their current situation, but they are unwilling to change themselves, or rather, change, but it is only three minutes of heat.

Indirect complacency, continuous mixing and waiting for death, over time, you will be completely wasted.

For example, in the current era, traffic is king, everyone knows that short videos can make money, live broadcasts can make money, but who of you has tried?

You can shoot videos, shoot songs, and play games live, but have you done it?

Some people say that I play the game well, and no one watches the live broadcast at all. Put the handle into a box, hundreds of ways to die are outrageous, but do people make money? Earned.

Some people say that I don't have a complete tone, how embarrassing it is to sing, there are more people with incomplete five tones on the Internet, and those who rely on funny singing to get out of the circle, they have made money.

When you are still thinking about this, thinking about that, when you are still worrying and grinding, people have already made a lot of money.

To put it bluntly, you just can't let go of your face, you feel ashamed, you feel faceless, but you earn your face.

When you can put down your face to make money, it means that you have really changed, when you can buy back face with money, you have succeeded, and when you can make money with face, you are already a character.

Therefore, the secret to making money is to put down your mind and change yourself.

Lose face, be ridiculed, and you won't die, and you won't lose a piece of meat, so what are you afraid to do.

It doesn't matter if he succeeds or fails, doesn't care if he is thirty-seven twenty-one, do it first, and then talk about it, and act first.

Okay, enough for today, that's all for the talk, one last word.

In this world, some people are born in Rome, and some people are born as cattle and horses.

We can't choose whether we want to be Rome or not, but we can try to keep ourselves from being cows and horses.

That's the end of my speech, thank you. ”