"Why?" I asked curiously.

"Xiao Mengxin is not the same as a gold worshipper." Zen suddenly said: "You have to distinguish the difference between strong women and money worshippers, most of the money worshippers are juniors who like money, and they are nothing like waste, and they only think about enjoying their success every day, hoping that a man will give them money to maintain them, or sugar daddy and other behaviors." ”

"But Xiao Mengxin is a strong woman at first glance, with extremely high self-esteem, her family conditions are so good, and she herself has the ability to make money, it is impossible to be a sugar daddy like a gold worshipper and be a junior."

Zen explained to me in detail, "Xiao Mengxin values value is not money worship, but only high-value and excellent individuals will impress them, more precisely, what she values is the excellent essence of the other party." ”

"Isn't that high value a reflection of money? Doesn't Xiao Mengxin still like money? I said unconvinced.

"The two are fundamentally different." Chan continued: "The rich second-generation gentleman also has money, but Xiao Mengxin definitely doesn't look at this kind of garbage person, while the money worshipper only looks at money, and the gentleman is their target. ”

"On the contrary, Xiao Mengxin prefers the kind of man who achieves great things with his own efforts, and such people can enter their eyes."

When I heard this, my face changed and I pondered what Zen had said.

"If..."Zen Pan sat in the void and said: "If you start a business as a grassroots and finally build a business empire for yourself, then Xiao Mengxin will definitely be impressed by you, they like this kind of excellent people." ”

"However, when she met you this time, she fell in love with you uncontrollably, and even gave her body directly to you, a rural baby, out of control, which is incomprehensible in her opinion, her current worldview must be in a state of collapse and madness, so she pulls each other in the love of the soul and the judgment of the mind, and her heart must not be comfortable."

"Hmph." I said coldly: "To put it bluntly, don't you still dislike me for having no money and no power?" Besides, can she still be uncomfortable? That's well deserved. ”

When I got to the point, I felt like she was looking down on people.

"Perhaps, that's what her mind thinks, but the soul truly loves you, and that's how the soul longs to be reunited, and the ego judges the principle of separation." Zen stall said.

However, I couldn't listen to Zen's words at all, and the focus was all on Xiao Mengxin's abandonment of me, and this humiliation of being abandoned and looked down upon made me extremely angry.

I really had the heart to kill her.

I looked at Zen viciously and said, "You said that her soul still loves me, right, okay, then I will swear to find her, and then tie her to a stool, and maybe brainwash her..."

I want to point at Xiao Mengxin's nose and curse, you, a person who values value, your soul loves me, give up your mind and logical analysis, your soul loves me, you should be with me.

I'm going to brainwash her into an idealist like me.

"Don't do it." Zen hurriedly said, "If you try to chase her on a physical level and find her, then you will never see each other again." ”

"What does that mean?" I frowned and wondered.

"Remember, you are souls, not minds and minds, and henceforth you are like a broken magnet, positive and negative poles, and you cannot focus your attention on her."

Zen said with a serious expression: "As long as you are obsessed with thinking about her, this thought of thinking about her will push her away, resulting in her not thinking about you at all, and the final result is that she will completely forget you, and there is no trace of you in her mind, this is the wonder and weirdness of the twin flames." ”

"This, I can't think about her yet? But I found that I couldn't control my compulsive desire for her, and if I thought about her, I would run away from me? So how can I keep her from running away from me? I hurriedly asked, afraid that Xiao Mengxin would forget me.

"You are just the beginning, and you will suffer in the future, because of the relationship of energy connection with the same soul, you can never stop the compulsive behavior of thinking about her, you will always think about her, and in the days to come, you will always be in the mood of love and hate, miserable, and..."

I was curious to ask him didn't he just say that I think Xiao Mengxin would cause her to run away from me? So I can't control the idea of thinking about her, isn't this an unsolvable problem?

Zen suddenly stared at you and said again: "And if you want her to come back to you, you can't cling to the thoughts in your mind, you have to look at this thought of thinking about her, back and forth, don't be obsessed with this thought, after a long time, she will naturally return to you, ready to say, you have to give up her completely from the heart, not to be with her as a goal, but to focus on the spirit, so that you can be together and appear by your side." ”

"Paying attention to the thoughts going back and forth?" I asked curiously, "Isn't this the practice of the Four Meditations and Eight Determinations?" Also, why don't I think about her and give up on her so that she can be there for me? ”

Thinking about her will cause her to run away, and if you don't want her, she will come back to me, feeling so conflicted and puzzled.

"Because, you are not the mind, the mind is the idea, the judgment mind, as long as you cling to the idea of being with her, it means that there is a her, which means that you are not one, and thus you will push her farther and farther."

"But the soul is consciousness, not thoughts and minds, when you don't cling to your thoughts and focus on the improvement of your spiritual soul realm, it means that you are one, and then, Xiao Mengxin will start to think about you, if you focus on your soul consciousness and don't cling to your thoughts, she will naturally miss you."

"Because she is also your soul, if you focus on your soul, she will miss you, and the universe will send her to you, and appear to you in any incomprehensible and wonderful way, such as chance encounters and the like, do you understand?"

"This..."I frowned and pondered when I heard this, I couldn't understand it at first, but I soon knew what Zen meant.

The consciousness of Zen is that we are one soul in ourselves, that we have never been separated, that I am her, that she is me, that we are one.

But the thought of me thinking of her means that there is a presence of her, and since there is a presence of her, it means that we are not one, and thus she will flee from me, and it is the thought that causes our separation.

But when I stop thinking about her thoughts, go back to the inside, pay attention to the ascension of my soul, and don't judge any thoughts, it is equivalent to returning to my own soul.

I return to the soul, and without judgment, it means that we are one, because the soul is not a thought, it is consciousness, and consciousness has no judgment mind.

Coupled with the fact that Xiao Mengxin is my soul, if I focus on soul ascension, she will not run away from me, she will start to miss me, and finally return to me.

Because she is my soul, I pay attention to my soul upliftment, and her physical body will naturally return to me.

However, although I know this principle, my body and mind are always controlled by the emotions of my mind, and I still hate her very much.

Zen sensed my thoughts and said again, "Actually, you don't have to hate her, she loves you more than you love her, and she wants to be with her more than you want to be with her." ”

"Then why is she so ruthless? Is it because of the value that left me? Is it because I miss her that I pushed her away? I said angrily.