Fear of marriage and childbearing
"It's also that Xia Xia is too young now...... Otherwise, find a partner to get a marriage certificate! I've never heard of those who are married, and they have to be educated youths!" Aunt Ye's thoughts are much more straightforward!
"Nonsense again...... Now where are you busy and in a hurry to find a gay man who knows the roots...... Besides, I'd rather let Xia Xia be an educated youth. can't trick her into marrying someone she doesn't know at all for the rest of her life!"
Ye Qingsong immediately rejected the proposal.
Aunt Ye pursed her lips, and the nasolabial folds at the corners of her mouth increased and deepened a lot.
"How old is Xia Xia this year?" Fang Zhi'an, who had been silent, suddenly opened his mouth.
"Seventeen years old a few days ago, what's wrong?" Ye Guyu actually already had some ideas in his heart, but he knew that he would definitely be scolded if he opened his mouth rashly.
"That's it! My opinion is to let Xia Xia sign up to go to the Great Northern Wilderness...... My hometown is from Jilin, and there are also many old comrades-in-arms of the 54th Army who retired and reclaimed the famine...... With acquaintances to take care of, at least you won't be bullied. And it starts to snow in September and October, so there's basically no work to do in the fields! Besides, there are many farms over there that have already achieved mechanized operations, so it shouldn't be too hard. And there are salaries that can be ......" Fang Zhi'an thought about it, and then roughly analyzed some of the situation and told Ye Qingsong.
It can be seen that the person who can make decisions in this family should be Ye Qingsong.
Recklessly losing a place where people are unfamiliar with their birthplace, most of them are resistant and helpless in their hearts.
Taking advantage of everyone's lack of news, go to sign up for the Great Northern Wilderness now, and the success rate should be very large.
"Instructor ......" Ye Guyu was a little moved and a little guilty.
He hates himself very much now, why didn't he try harder and be able to do it earlier.
If you fight for the position of becoming a battalion commander, you can have indicators for accompanying the army!
Ye Guyu was once recommended to study in a military academy for two years, and he is a key officer talent for training.
"That'...... Girl, why don't we go to the Great Northern Wilderness?"
Ye Qingsong was also a little moved, especially when Fang Zhi'an said that there were months in a year when he didn't have to work in the field.
It's snowing, and it's not like it's snowing in Rongcheng.
I really can't make the padded jacket thicker for my daughter.
Mechanized work does not need to go into the ground......
Ye Qingsong's mind turned around a thousand times, and finally decided to let Ye Xia Zhi go to the Great Northern Wilderness.
However, Ye Qingsong's legs and feet are inconvenient now, and this matter can only be handled by Ye Guyu to run to the educated youth.
Then everyone discussed Ye's mother's funeral again, and Ye's mother's maiden home was in Luzhou.
It seems that you can only find a mountain place to bury at the location of the Ye family's old house.
Ye Xia Zhi and Ye Ma have never met, so they don't talk much.
Although she had been to Rongcheng in her previous life, she had never lived here, and she didn't know much about the afterlife.
She didn't have any plans in her life to be admitted to Qingdao University and Peking University, and she casually went to Beijing to stock up on courtyard houses. I just want to be able to live a peaceful, healthy and healthy life, and live a leisurely life like an idle fish.
Aunt Ye has already gone to the public kitchen to prepare lunch!
Aunt Ye also went to fight!
When the Ye family came back just now, she happened to carry some vegetables and waited in the family yard.
used tomatoes and eggs to exchange two catties of rice and two catties of corn ballast with other people's families.
So eat drained rice at noon today.
Yesterday, I also brought leeks and cucumbers, and I plan to make fried leeks with dried tofu at noon, and then shoot cold cucumbers and fried eggs and tomatoes.
Give Ye Qingsong steamed egg custard, it should be enough to eat!
Ye Xia Zhi returned to his small room and put the hidden cash and savings slips in a cloth pocket.
Seeing that when there was no one around Dad Ye, he quietly stuffed it into the quilt.
"There are a lot of people in the family these days, so I'll put it there for you first!"
"Dad!"
"Your mom is gone...... I'm an old man who hasn't paid attention to the house, and I don't know what to do in the future!"
Ye Qingsong lowered his eyes to hide his weakness.
Ask what is the situation in the world, and the straight teach people to live and die!
Ye Xiazhi's mother has been single so far, not to mention having a boyfriend, or even having a crush.
The main thing is that there is too much misfortune to see the fear of marriage and childbirth.
For example, Ye Xiazhi's best friend Huanhuan from childhood to adulthood, did not listen to his parents' advice in high school, and insisted on getting involved with a gangster.
Everyone was admitted to the school as they liked or did their best.
Ye Xia Zhi's good friend Huanhuan but happily sent candy everywhere, it turned out that she was pregnant and wanted to get married!
When the son got married, the parents had no choice but to agree to the marriage.
As a result, there was another big fuss about the bride price, and the woman's family originally only planned to ask for 60,000 meanings.
At first, they all agreed well, but they waited until the day their parents met. The man's family insisted that he would only pay 16,000, and the reason was that the woman was pregnant!
It means that my son can afford to wait anyway, and as for you, love is not born.
Don't pull down raw......
The woman's parents were directly angry, and Huanhuan's father had to pull Huanhuan out of the hotel and take her to the hospital for a surgical abortion.
Where is Huanhuan willing to go, crying and making trouble when he goes home, and even crying so much that he is almost about to convuls, and he is on a hunger strike without eating or drinking at home.
After being hungry for three days, the old father softened his heart, but he told Huanhuan what he planted and what he reaped.
From now on, you will no longer be our daughter, and you will eat bran vegetables or delicacies from the mountains and seas in the future.
It's up to you to make it to yourself!
Ye Xiazhi also said at the time that Huanhuan said that it was not worth it to give up his great future to gamble on an invisible future.
It's better to take the child as soon as possible and stop the loss in time.
Then go back and repeat the year and then retake the university exam.
But Huanhuan didn't know why she was confused, so she was washed and believed in the pie drawn by the other party.
cut off the relationship with his parents without hesitation, and married his boyfriend without even asking for a penny of bride price.
I'm still silly and happy every day, and I forgot to sprinkle dog food even when I sent WeChat to Ye Xiazhi, and the voice I sent at every turn is a treasure: So happy and happy, he brought me skewers back today.
Hey, a few dollars of skewers bought you?
It's a bit of a show!
Or is it; Baby, he helped me buy my favorite crayfish today, my parents didn't allow me to eat it before, it was dirty......
What to do, I love him now!
The sour smell of love caused Ye Xiazhi, a single dog, to almost drag Huanhuan to the small black room and lock him up.
Huanhuan eats and drinks well in his hometown, but Ye Xiazhi has to deal with a new school, new classmates, and new knowledge.
Even every day, I swiped the Baidu news on my mobile phone to see if there was any new news about Guanguan.
At one point, I even wondered if the end of the world was really coming!
Naturally, there is not much thought to contact Huanhuan, so the two good friends who used to talk about everything have become drifting apart and have no books.
Later, in the second semester, Ye Xiazhi stayed in the school for half a year because of school control.
I can't go out of the campus, I can't go outside to play, I can only follow my classmates to study English hard to prepare for the fourth and sixth grades, and at the same time, I also took a Pilates instructor certificate.
During the period, I also met the second love brain in the same dormitory, which is even more speechless.
Because her boyfriend didn't like her education too high, she had already received the information that she had succeeded in taking the TOEFL, and she actually gave up not going abroad to study for graduate school, but wanted to go to the city where her boyfriend was located to find a job.
Ye Xia Zhi really wanted to ask her, who will raise you in the future,
Does your family have a mine, or do you have a million?
It is not Tsinghua University and Peking University, nor is it a 985,211 key university.
It's just a small second-class college, and it's still a major that I've never heard of.
If you don't go abroad and don't go to graduate school, then you want to go to work.
It will not succeed in a lifetime.
If it weren't for the mask incident that restricted that senior sister's movements, it would probably have been put into action.
In this way, Lai Lai chirped for more than a year or two, and he survived to the fourth or sixth level, and he also got the Pilates instructor certificate.
It wasn't until Ye Xiazhi returned to his hometown from school last summer that he finally learned the latest news of his best friend Huanhuan from his parents.
I learned that more than a year ago, Huanhuan was instigated by her mother-in-law and let her husband slap her husband a few times.
On the same night, she was taken to the hospital by ambulance and gave birth to a daughter by caesarean section.
When the mother-in-law and her husband came to the hospital, they heard that they had given birth to a daughter, and the patriarchal mother-in-law scolded Huanhuan for being a hen that couldn't lay eggs, regardless of her face.
even said that she told others that she was just a rag that came to the door.
After three days of staying, I was urged to go through the discharge procedures.
After Huanhuan gave birth to a child, she took care of her premature daughter almost day and night, dragging her weak body and unable to rest well every day, and her nutrition could not keep up.
I also have to be disgusted by my husband every day until he rests, and he can't sleep well at all.
I heard that I have recently moved out of my in-law's house, and I am alone with my little daughter who is waiting to be fed, and I am working in a small restaurant that is willing to take her in.
and used to spoil Huanhuan's parents in every way, but he sold his two houses at home last year and moved to other cities for retirement.
It is said that the daughter who has worked so hard to raise is unreliable, they might as well go out on a trip, and wherever they go, there is no news at all.
Ye Xia Zhi had to secretly congratulate himself that he had kept the world sober and did not choose to fall in love at an age when he should study hard.
When parents are willing to help themselves, they choose to push their parents' hands away, and they chill their hearts at the cost of hurting them.