Chapter 51: Human Relations

"Yuan Hai, you ...... You're not in a hurry to move out, are you? ”

The father frowned slightly and spoke.

He was genuinely willing to keep it.

Ji Yuanhai, the child, said that if you divide your family, you will break up; Originally, it was not obvious to build a house, but now that I really want to divide it, I will inevitably be reluctant to do so.

The child who grew up in front of him really wants to leave home.

Ji Yuanhai replied seriously: "Dad, the house has been built, and I originally wanted to move out as soon as possible." ”

"There will be no delay."

Dad was a little silent, and grandparents didn't speak for a while.

Even the mother who was glaring at Ji Yuanhai just now inevitably softened her heart at this time.

"Yuan Hai, you kid...... You're not angry with me, are you? ”

Ji Yuanhai replied: "Mother, I already said that I want to move out as soon as possible, this is not to be angry with you." ”

Mother didn't believe Ji Yuanhai's words a little, and exhaled: "You grow up, I can't control you......"

"Whether you're angry or not, move out if you want to."

"But there is one thing, your grandfather's family is a relative, and he can't stop interacting in the future."

After the mother finished speaking, the father spoke: "Yuan Hai, your mother's words are also reasonable, but you can't break off the relationship." ”

The voice changed again: "However, this time, Yuan Hai's gift money should not be given." ”

The mother frowned suddenly, not very happy.

Father said to her: "Don't be unhappy about this, Yuan Hai and He Ling got married before." ”

"When we got married, our family didn't do it, and your relatives and Yuan Haigu's family didn't call them out, and there were no relatives to invite from Heling."

Grandpa was worried that Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling were thinking crookedly, so he helped his father explain: "It's not that our family treats Yuanhai and Heling harshly, now there are really few ordinary families in ten miles and eight towns, and there are really few marriages; In previous years, the commune also did not advocate large-scale weddings and funerals. ”

"We are relatively poor in this commune, and our family's living conditions are not well-off, and we have not organized a wedding banquet in the past ten years."

Ji Yuanhai nodded in understanding.

Neither he nor Lu Heling are people who particularly care about such small details.

Is it really important to have a group of relatives and friends to congratulate you?

Some people may feel that it is an important face, Ji Yuanhai really doesn't feel much, Lu Heling is not familiar with life, and he has no thoughts about this.

"Your mother's family is going to get married now, you want to invite relatives, and you have to give gifts, which is really rare in a few villages near us."

"I also specially invited Liu Yishou to come, and I really want to handle the marriage and save face."

The father continued to say to the mother: "Our family should indeed give this gift. ”

"But Yuan Hai got married just a month ago, if your mother's family had already had this intention, even if you sent two eggs before, Yuan Hai could also give gifts to people."

"Now there is no such favor, so that our newly married children have not received favors, so they will show favors first...... It's a little hard for our children. ”

The mother was a little embarrassed when she heard this, and after thinking about it, she said: "This is also the beginning, and it will be done in the future, so isn't it just a matter of human affection?" ”

"If you think about it, you can't lose it."

"For example, if the Yuanhai family gives birth to a child, my brother will definitely come to the ceremony."

Ji Yuanhaixin said: Wang Jinhua and uncle, one is more heartless than the other, and they still expect them to have personal contacts?

"Dad, mother, I will give birth to children in the future, and I will not hold banquets."

His mother glared at him, and she couldn't say anything.

The father went around in a circle, and then turned the words back: "However, Yuanhai, your grandfather and your brother-in-law have to handle it, and they have to handle it well, and our family, as relatives, can't help but give foil and face." ”

"Yuan Hai, I helped you out of your share of gifts, and let your mother bring it to your brother-in-law."

Without waiting for Ji Yuanhai to open his mouth to refuse, his father seriously warned Ji Yuanhai: "But in the future, if you move out and don't have any contact with your relatives, it's your own decision, and I can't control you." ”

"If you really don't interact with your relatives, if you encounter something in the future, no one will help you, and you can't complain about others."

"You know what?"

Ji Yuanhai nodded: "Dad, I know." But I don't need you to pay for that gift—"

"It's good to know!"

His father interrupted him and said, "You don't have to worry about your brother-in-law's marriage, just do it!" ”

"Next, I'll give you a share of the property."

Ji Yuanhai wanted to speak, and his grandfather said: "The face of the in-laws, we have to help us, so be it." ”

Mother also felt that Ji Yuanhai's stubborn donkey would definitely not be obedient, which was already very good.

"That's it!"

Ji Yuanhai sighed in his heart - the face of this countryside, helping each other and tolerating each other, is also not used to it.

However, did my father just now make up his mind to help Ji Yuanhai give gift money, and he deliberately explained the truth to his mother?

Why did he go around in such a circle?

Thinking about it this way, my father usually doesn't talk much, but he really thinks a lot......

Next, Ji Yuanhai's father began to split up.

The things of grandparents and halls cannot be divided, and the things that are divided are all the things of Ji Yuanhai's parents' house.

"Yuan Hai, I can't give you the pot, you bought one yourself before." The father said, "You have the bowl, the basin, and the kettle." ”

"A bed for you, a square cabinet for you, put some clothes and bedding or something."

"And a table for you, and a stool for you for four......"

The father continued to speak, and the grandparents, mother, Ji Yuanshan, Ji Yuanhai, and Lu Heling all listened.

My father had obviously thought about the division of property before, and when he spoke, he didn't get stuck at all.

After all, when Ji Yuanhai proposed to build a house, he was already destined to split the family, and at that time, his father had already thought about the distribution of many things.

However, as he spoke, Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling's expressions were a little unbearable.

The father said, "We will also give you two burdens of dung that our family has saved." ”

"When the time comes, the self-reserved land in front of the house and behind the house will be used for fertile land."

Big feces are also divided? That's fair too!

Ji Yuanhai hurriedly refused: "Dad, there's no need for it!" Let's keep it for ourselves! ”

"This is a division of things, you say don't want it, but there is no more." Father said.

"Dad, I don't want this." Ji Yuanhai said.

The father didn't say anything and continued to distribute.

Divide all the small things, even the shovel for work is given to Ji Yuanhai.

In the end, grandpa said two words, telling Ji Yuanhai to work hard in logistics, have less right and wrong, live a good life, and never be like the second uncle Ji Baoguo.

At this time, the era sea is officially "separated".

Tomorrow he can take these things and move out.

From the hall to "dissolve", Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling walked out of the hall, and the voice of Ji Yuanshan came from behind them.

"Yuan Hai...... Are you leaving? ”

"Tomorrow, I'll move something." Ji Yuanhai said, "Brother, you can go back to Westinghouse again." ”

Ji Yuanshan agreed sullenly, stood at the door of the hall, and did not speak,