Chapter 37: The Way of Life

"Why did you come back so late?"

Ji Yuanhai returned to the flower shop, and Lu Heling and Liu Xianglan couldn't help but ask in surprise.

Ji Yuanhai said what happened to Wang Zhuyun, and Lu Heling was startled, and her heart palpitated.

"I'm glad you went!"

Ji Yuanhai said: "To tell the truth, Wang Zhuyun ran very fast, if I don't go, she can run." ”

"I went, but those thieves couldn't escape."

Lu Heling shook her head and said, "What you said is light, what if Zhuyun finally falls on his foot once?" ”

"It's a good thing you went, otherwise no one would have dared to guarantee that she would be safe."

After Ji Yuanhai heard this, he thought that what Lu Heling said also made sense.

Today, it is better to protect Wang Zhuyun after all, than not to go.

When the two returned to Xiaoshantun, it was already dark, because today is the Chinese New Year's Eve, adults and children are not in a hurry to sleep, and there are fireworks and throwing cannons on the street.

The grandparents were waiting at the corner of the street, and when they saw Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling coming back, they hurriedly asked, "Why did you come back so late today?" ”

Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling didn't dare to worry the two old men, so they said that they met acquaintances, and they were eating and talking, delaying time.

Grandparents inevitably complained about this acquaintance, every family is busy during the Chinese New Year, how can they be so enthusiastic about entertaining guests at this time.

After watching fireworks on the street for a while, I went home to celebrate the New Year together.

On the first day of the new year, the whole family had a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner.

On the second day of the Lunar New Year, they began to visit relatives, and Ji Yuanhai and Ji Yuanshan did not rush to their relatives' houses for dinner, so they walked around their relatives in two days.

Chen Lou Village, a relative, neither of them went.

Ji Yuanhai's mother went to her mother's house once to visit her father, but because of Chen Xiaobao and Wang Jinhua, she didn't stay for dinner and came back.

Ji Yuanhai heard that the second aunt stayed to eat, and she got along well with Chen Lou Village.

There is no need for Ji Yuanhai to care about these things, with Ji Yuanshan and Ma Xiuping here, it is no longer possible for his mother to work and send things to Chen Xiaobao in Chenlou Village.

On the fourth and fifth days of the new year, Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling both went to the county seat.

One is that Ji Yuanhai and Liu Xianglan get together, and the other is that Ji Yuanhai gave Liu Xianglan 2,000 yuan and asked her to buy a house on the side of Unity Alley.

However, this is also just after the New Year, and it is really not easy to buy, and Ji Yuanhai just left the money and told Liu Xianglan that if the money is not enough, he can write a letter and ask for it again.

The sixth day of the first month.

Wang Zhuyun came to the flower shop with his luggage.

Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling had also finished saying goodbye to the Ji family and Liu Xianglan, and set off for the provincial capital with their luggage.

As the same era Hai expected, after returning home, family companionship is good, but the time at home will inevitably become long and slightly boring, which is not suitable for him, who is worried about increasing his capital.

"Zhuyun, listen to Yuanhai, you are in danger?"

Lu Heling asked Wang Zhuyun.

"Well, thanks to him, I wouldn't have been safe either." Wang Zhuyun said.

Lu Heling said: "Fortunately, nothing happened! ”

Wang Zhuyun didn't feel so scared that day, but now that he thinks about it, he still feels scared.

A group of three people lined up to buy train tickets, and took the train to the provincial capital on the same day.

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"Hey, Feng Xue! Let's go? ”

In an ice rink somewhere in the capital, several people stopped skating and shouted at Feng Xue.

Feng Xue turned her head and nodded to a few playmates with a smile: "Yes, this is back." ”

"You keep playing, I have something to do today."

A few playmates nodded, and continued to skate, giggling.

Feng Xue went to the place where she returned her skates, returned her skates, and glanced at them, feeling inexplicably funny.

It doesn't seem that difficult to make friends.

Riding a bicycle out of the skating rink, passing a few bus stops, Feng Xue returned to the compound.

After entering the courtyard, several people of about the same age were smiling and greeted her with a smile, Feng Xue nodded in response, stopped to talk to them, pedaled the bicycle again, and stopped in front of her house.

There was a car parked at the door, and the father apparently did not go to work.

Feng Xue entered the house with a smile: "Dad! I am back! ”

Feng Xue's father was looking down at the newspaper, and when he saw her coming back, he put the newspaper aside: "Are you back?" What's going on today? ”

"Very good!"

Feng Xue said: "I skated at the skating rink with those friends today, and then I said that I had other things to do today and came back early, and they were not unhappy. ”

"That way, they should really think of me as a friend."

"Dad, are you right?"

Feng Xue's father laughed when he heard this: "That's what friends mean? That's how friends come about? ”

"You still don't understand."

When Feng Xue heard this, she couldn't help wrinkling her nose, slightly squeamish: "Dad! ”

"I don't understand! I've been studying hard for more than half a vacation, can't you pass it here? ”

Feng Xue's father looked at his pampered daughter, but just smiled and said nothing.

He still remembers that when he was just on vacation, his daughter kept talking about things far away in the provincial university.

Most of the classmates are very boring, and there are only two classmates, so I get along with her quite well.

One is called Ji Yuanhai, and the other is called Lu Heling.

At the beginning, Feng Xue's father asked Feng Xue a question: Do these two classmates have few friends like you, or do they have many friends, including you?

Feng Xue's answer was that Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling each had some friends, especially Ji Yuanhai's many friends, the entire class of the Department of Political Science and Law was his friend, and even the counselor was friends with him.

Feng Xue's father was interested at that time.

The provincial university in this province is not an ordinary university, and its students of the Department of Political Science and Law will basically anchor a considerable number of young and middle-aged cadres in the next 20 years.

Is there such a young man who is friends with the whole class and with the counselor?

This is a very good social skill!

Therefore, Feng Xue's father inquired about Ji Yuanhai, and then found with some regret that this young man had not yet grown into a mature man, and he had already grown a crooked neck first.

Study steadfastly, work honestly, with your own education and ability, is it difficult to be promoted in the future? Still going into business? I don't know what to do.

Feng Xue's father attributed the reason for all this to the fact that this young man named Ji Yuanhai was from a lower background and had shallow eyelids; I didn't know that what is really useful in the world is far more than money can describe.

Even so, though, he has some merit.

For example, he is good at making friends, but his daughter is pampered and really not good at making friends.

Feng Xue's father also seized this opportunity and used Ji Yuanhai's classmate's matter to motivate Feng Xue, so that Feng Xue tried to hide her identity and make friends with strange peers.

Of course, it has to be a girl.

Feng Xue's father didn't want his daughter to go out to make friends, so he would go around and bring back a son-in-law who was not careful.

Feng Xue scoffed at this proposal at first.

In her words, what do I gain by making friends with them and taking care of their ideas other than that I feel uncomfortable?

Feng Xue's father told her: You can also harvest friends, hearts, and interpersonal relationships.

Feng Xue still didn't feel interested.

She doesn't need these things, this compound has her friends and relationships, as long as she goes out for a walk, too many people are willing to please her.

That's not interesting, is it?

Feng Xue's father asked her: Don't you want to surpass that classmate named Ji Yuanhai?

He can make so many friends, and so can you. He can be a squad leader, and so can you. If you try to really make some friends, you will definitely be able to surpass that era in the future.

Don't forget, the Anno Sea doesn't have your advantage after all; He has to pay a lot to make friends, and if you just get a little better, more people will make friends with you, and you can surpass him.

Her father's words completely moved Feng Xue.

The main thing is that Feng Xue thinks of Ji Yuanhai, although he no longer has a bad feeling for him, he still feels haunted by the defeat under his hands.

I just need to learn to make some friends, and then have a slightly better attitude, and wait until school starts - hmph, Ji Yuanhai, I think you are still my opponent?

Because of the thoughts and plans of the father and daughter, Feng Xue has been trying to hide her identity and make friends with girls of the same age in the past half of the holiday.

She tries not to lose her temper as much as possible, not to be self-righteous, and not to dictate to others.

Of course, I really couldn't help it at the beginning, and offended a group of "friends".

Fortunately, Feng Xue didn't really regard them as her friends in her heart, just as strangers who practiced her hands, and soon regrouped her mentality and continued to know her friends.

Up to now, Feng Xue has improved a lot.

For example, she has been able to endure some of her "friends'" stupid and ridiculous topics for a full day, or not make decisions for them.

She also realizes that there are places that she can go to for granted, and that for her "friends", they are mysterious and impossible to enter.

Feng Xue felt that she was already able to make friends, at least when she was with "friends", they treated themselves the same way as others.

I've already pretended to be not much different from a normal girl.

It's already a good way to make friends.

Unexpectedly, when I returned home today, my father said that she still didn't know how to make friends.

"Dad, tell me, what does it mean to make friends? Does my brother make friends? Feng Xue said.

Feng Xue's father shook his head slightly: "Your brother can make friends, but he can't trust any friends." ”

When Feng Xue heard this, she thought about it a little, but she also understood what was going on.

Don't look at her attitude towards ordinary classmates, but more importantly, because she largely thinks it's unnecessary, so she chooses to be more willful.

When it comes to other aspects, such as her brother making friends in the system, but he can't fully trust his friend's situation, Feng Xue can also understand.

It's like the friends in the compound, some want to marry her, some want to follow her to get some benefits, and she also knows some of this.

"Making friends, for you to say that, is getting more and more complicated." Feng Xue shook her head, turned on the TV, and said.

There aren't many programs on TV either, so let's be honest, it's better to go to the movies.

But it's enough to kill the boredom.

Feng Xue's father smiled: "Wait a while, I'll take you to see, the friend I made." ”

Feng Xue was surprised: "Dad, you are so old, and you are still like me, you want to make friends on purpose?" ”

When Feng Xue's father heard this, he inevitably felt that his heart was pricked for a while.

Hey, friend...... Some of my friends ...... You can't think about it.

Feng Xue watched TV for a while, and Feng Xue's father also read the newspaper for a while.

Feng Xue's father put down the newspaper: "Let's go, go see my friend." ”

The two changed into relatively ordinary clothes and left the compound.

One of the guards quietly followed a certain distance behind, silent.

Walking through a few small alleys, I came to a place where the sun was just right, and several old people were lazily basking in the sun.

Feng Xue's father laughed: "Yo, a few brothers, they're all here!" ”

"That's it, Old Feng!"

"We made a bet just now that you wouldn't come today!"

"What are you busy with all day? Can't even come over and bask in the sun? ”

Feng Xue's father laughed and said, "What are you busy with? The children in the family are not angry, I have to help and send another one! ”

"Lao Feng, you're wrong!" An old man grinned and laughed, "You have to worry about it, you won't be able to finish it in the future, and you won't be able to finish it if you're tired." ”

"It's a little help to these rabbit cubs, and there are more favors, which can exhaust Lao Tzu to death."

"Yes! These little bunnies don't make people worry. Feng Xue's father laughed and greeted Feng Xue, "You go back, I'll rest here, chat and go home." ”

"Huh?" Feng Xue exclaimed, and said in her heart, are you still here? So let me go back, what did I follow you to see?

Feng Xue's father smiled: "Ahhhhhhh Go, go, go! ”

Feng Xue turned her head sullenly, and said in her heart, what is this for me to see? Look at his good relationship with these old men?

Behind him, there was the sound of his father talking and laughing with the old people, Feng Xue turned around and looked at it twice.

Thinking back to his relationship with his "friends", and then looking at his father's relationship with his friends, he finally vaguely seemed to understand something.

What does the father mean...... Do you really want to get along with them?

Feng Xue returned to the compound, with this conclusion, waiting for her father to come back.

After her father came back, Feng Xue said her thoughts: "Dad, do you want me to make friends and make friends with others with sincerity and sincerity?" ”

Feng Xue's father smiled again.

"Yes and no...... All in all, you do the best you can on your own, and you will gradually understand it later. ”

Feng Xue was surprised: "Dad, don't you and those old people use sincerity?" You're getting along, but it's very good."

"I did, but I didn't quite use it." Feng Xue's father said, "Xiaoxue, sincerity is precious, there is no need to meet a so-called friend, just give it away." ”

"You are sincere in making friends with others, don't look down on others, and always put your thoughts on others, and that's enough."

"Part of the sincerity, coupled with the proper way of dealing with the world, this is the normal way of making friends. Those old friends and I are with each other, and it's good to say that we are all together, but if we are like each other, it is too far and too far apart. ”

"Xiaoxue, do you feel that your squad leader Ji Yuanhai seems to be able to make friends, are all friends similar to me?"

Feng Xue's father tried to combine facts, examples, and Feng Xue's own personal experience to make her understand how to make friends correctly.

Feng Xue thought about it and felt that the relationship between most of the classmates in the entire political science and law department and Ji Yuanhai should indeed be similar to the relationship between his father and the group of old people just now.

After telling her father about her observations, Feng Xue waited for her father's answer.

Feng Xue's father suddenly smiled slightly: "Look, as I said." ”

"That's why I'm telling you, it's not difficult for you to surpass the Epoch Sea. His so-called friends and so-called interpersonal relationships are nothing more than duckweed in the water, and they have no real foundation. ”

"If he can be obtained by making friends, you can also get it back by making friends."

Feng Xue added: "There are a few classmates who have a very different relationship with Ji Yuanhai. ”

"Zhao Youtian, Zhou Heng, Bai Chengzhi, a few of them."

"Oh?" Feng Xue's father was puzzled, "What's the difference between them?" ”

"They are very convinced by Ji Yuanhai, and they always feel that Ji Yuanhai can take them to fight together...... Feng Xue said.

When Feng Xue's father heard this, he laughed: "You don't understand this." Gay men spend a lot of time together, and as long as they don't look particularly unpleasant, they can fight and drink together. ”

"It's nothing, it doesn't prove anything."

All in all, Ji Yuanhai, a student, is a tree that has grown crooked.

It is enough to educate Feng Xue, there is no need to take a few more looks.

Feng Xue didn't say anything to her father, and she was indeed unsure about the relationship between Ji Yuanhai and her friends.

It's just that listening to my father's teaching of how to make friends and how to behave in the world, I feel that I have really learned a lot.

The next day, Feng Xue went to play with "friends" again, and continued to explore and test how to make friends just right.

It has to be said that she is not a stupid person.

When she let go of some self-righteous things, was led by an elder who understood people's feelings, and began to learn how to behave in the world, her progress was rapid.

Time passed little by little, and the holiday gradually drew to a close.

Feng Xue really has a friend.

Friends don't know her identity, and it's nice and fun to play with her.

She can also relax and play with her friends.

Seeing that the school is about to start and return to the provincial university, friends are a little reluctant, and Feng Xue also feels reluctant in her heart.

However, it doesn't affect what she's supposed to do at all.

She gradually understood what it was like to "make friends".

Ji Yuanhai, you are just a little more mature than me, and I already know everything you do in the class!

When it comes to the new semester, I will definitely beat you and become the new class president! This time, you need to know how good I am!

Feng Xue was full of confidence and stepped on the train to the provincial university.

(End of chapter)