"Making friends is not only about adapting yourself to your surroundings, but also about listening to your surroundings."

"If you live in praise and praise from others all the time, you will unconsciously lose a lot of things, such as the bottom line of morality, the concept of right and wrong, and the basic conscience...... No matter what you do, if someone praises it, it is actually a kind of swamp that is getting easier and easier to fall into. ”

"This kind of thing can be called a cognitive obstacle."

In the school office on Sunday morning, Feng Xue held the phone and first talked about what happened to Ma Qianqian on Saturday, and then couldn't wait to tell her father a lot of her realizations.

These words have been held in her stomach since yesterday, and now she really can't help it, and told her father Feng Xinsong everything.

When she finished speaking in one breath, there was silence on the other end of the phone.

Feng Xue was a little surprised: "Dad, are you listening?" Do you think I'm right? ”

Feng Xinsong's voice came from the other end of the phone, with a smile: "I'm listening." ”

"Xiaoxue, you have been able to have such an understanding in just one year, and I feel happy and proud of you from the bottom of my heart."

"From now on, as long as you remember what you said today, at least you will not be a foolish mediocrity, and you will not be easily fooled by the people below, this is a great progress."

Feng Xue couldn't help but grab the phone excitedly, nodding her head again and again, wishing that her father was praising herself in front of her.

Feng Xinsong continued: "The matter of Ma Qianqian you mentioned is a big problem today, and it is also a big problem in the future. ”

It can even be said that this is a problem that all incumbents need to face throughout the ages, in ancient and modern times, in China and abroad. We have to be cautious and walk on thin ice, and even so, we can only keep extinguishing the fire, and it is always difficult to eradicate it. ”

Feng Xue could hear her father's words, not only about her own teachings, but also an indescribable feeling of exhaustion, and hurriedly cared about the greetings: "Dad, are you okay?" But you must pay attention to rest, the body is the capital, this is what you often say. ”

"Haha, what can I do?" Feng Xinsong said with a smile, "I can't talk too much with outsiders, but with you and your brother, I can talk freely." ”

"It's hard and hard to really do things; It's easy not to do something. ”

After a change of voice, he asked Feng Xue: "By the way, Xiaoxue, who helped you analyze so much?" ”

"Is it Professor Zhu who pleases you and intends to go to the system? If it's him, it's really good, it's more transparent, he already has the potential to do something, but he might as well give him a chance to give it a try. ”

Feng Xue replied: "Of course not, Professor Zhu and his daughter Zhu Fangfang, after all, are also people who surround me and say good things like that, they don't have the courage to analyze these things with me." ”

"Besides, I can't talk to them that deeply."

Feng Xinsong asked curiously, "Then who told you this?" ”

"My classmate Ji Yuanhai." Feng Xue said.

Feng Xinsong asked: "Did he say the word 'cognitive impairment'?" ”

"Yes, he said it." Feng Xue said, "Ji Yuanhai also said that Ma Xiangqian's parents also have obstacles formed by parental love for Ma Xiangqian, so that they can't correctly understand their children. ”

Feng Xue basically told Feng Xinsong what Ji Yuanhai said before.

Feng Xinsong on the other end of the phone was silent.

Feng Xue was puzzled: "Dad? Are you listening? ”

Feng Xinsong responded: "I heard it all. ”

"I feel...... This classmate of yours is a little weird. ”

"What's weird?" Feng Xue asked.

"Are you sure he is in his early twenties this year, born in a rural commune, and came to the provincial capital because he was admitted to the provincial university?" Feng Xinsong asked.

"yes." Feng Xue said.

Feng Xinsong said: "My feeling is that those who can say this kind of thing should be forty or fifty years old, have a lot of knowledge of interpersonal relationships in the world, and have extensive knowledge. ”

"Middle-aged and elderly cadres or professors, take the time to taste some things, in order to have this kind of experience and insight, and then a sentence educates you and wakes you up. It shouldn't have been said by a classmate in his twenties from a rural background. ”

"Xiaoxue, are you sure that he said this, not that he relayed it after asking others?"

Feng Xue denied: "That's definitely not, because after the horse walked forward, we chatted, and when we talked about this topic, he said this." ”

Feng Xinsong muttered to himself: "That is to say, he thought of it himself?" Or where did he see it before? ”

Then he laughed and said to Feng Xue: "No matter what, Xiaoxue, your classmate will not be a thing in the pool in the future, no matter which way you go, with the ability he has shown, it is enough to surpass more than ninety percent of people in the world." ”

Feng Xue let out an "oh", and said in her heart that Ji Yuanhai is hateful, but it is indeed so good that ordinary people can hardly hide their light.

Feng Xue also admitted this in her heart.

If Ji Yuanhai's ability was mediocre and ordinary, and there was nothing outstanding, Feng Xue would not have the patience to get along with him, and they would have been strangers to each other a long time ago.

"Dad, similar to Ma Xiangqian's kind of people - I don't want to make friends, they have bad character and are self-righteous, it's disgusting." Feng Xue complained to Feng Xinsong.

Feng Xinsong's tone was relaxed: "If you don't want to make friends, you won't make friends, the entire Heshan Province can only be seen by me, but there are only a few people such as Yue Lao; Ma Yue's kind of person who stands up for himself with Hua Lao, I wasn't ready to make friends. ”

"Besides, my Feng Xinsong's daughter, if you can't think of them, you won't see them."

"They don't have the face, so we have to make friends."

"Well, Dad, with your words, I know what to do!" Feng Xue said with a smile, "In the future, I won't see any of them, and I won't be annoyed when I see them!" ”

Hanging up the phone, Feng Xue was in a very happy mood, walking on the campus road of the provincial university, feeling physically and mentally light.

I was very happy to be praised by my father; I am also very happy to be allowed to not have to follow people like Ma Xiangqian and this kind of family to be false and wronged.

Thinking that his father also praised Ji Yuanhai, Feng Xue couldn't help but laugh.

No, you can't tell Ji Yuanhai about this.

Otherwise, his tail would not have been lifted to the sky?

He didn't have much respect for me, so I had to suppress his arrogance.

How did Dad teach me: the more you have to use a person, the more you have to sharpen his minions...... Hmph, I'm going to grind off Ji Yuanhai's dog claws and teeth, and let him be a good dog for me.

Thinking of this, Feng Xue couldn't help but feel a lot happier again.

But this good mood came to an abrupt end when she returned to the dormitory.

It's not that someone offends her, but she sees her classmates who are studying hard to revise, they are preparing for the final exam, and they are doing revision.

Originally, there was nothing to review for the final exam, but Feng Xue happened to think about Ji Yuanhai, and suddenly thought of another thing in her heart - at the beginning of this semester, she was full of energy, using her newly learned skills to make friends, making friends, and then driving Ji Yuanhai from the position of class president, avenging the revenge of the first time when she first entered school last year.

Now, a whole semester has passed, and it has entered the review stage.

Her snatching of the squad leader has become completely impossible!

Too careless!

didn't pay attention, and actually let Ji Yuanhai's guy stay in the position of class president for another whole semester.

Feng Xue took the book to study and review, and this thought could be regarded as pressing to the bottom of her heart.

It wasn't until the next day when class was in class that Feng Xue saw Ji Yuanhai enter the classroom and walked over directly.

Bai Chengzhi, Zhou Heng, Zhao Youtian and others all knew that she was willing to rely on Ji Yuanhai, and the teachers were also biased towards her, so they simply took the initiative to go to the front row, and the back row was left for her to sit with Ji Yuanhai.

Feng Xue sat beside Ji Yuanhai angrily.

"It's too cheap for you!"

Ji Yuanhai was surprised: "What is cheap for me?" I didn't take advantage of you, did I? ”

Feng Xue snorted: "You have to dare." ”

Then, without waiting for Ji Yuanhai to continue, she explained herself: "I got along well with my classmates this year, and I originally planned to overthrow you, and I will be the class president." ”

"As a result, there was an oversight, and at the end of the semester, you were still the class president."

"It's really a big bargain for you, and you will be the class president for another semester."

Ji Yuanhai looked at her funny: "Feng Xue, are you serious?" ”

Feng Xue was stunned for a moment, she was in an unhappy mood from yesterday to today, and with a few complaints, she had long since disappeared.

Maybe if you say a few words to Ji Yuanhai earlier, your mood will already be better.

As for saying that he is serious about competing for the position of squad leader with Ji Yuanhai, how can it be possible? She has long regarded Ji Yuanhai as one of her best friends in her heart.

If Ji Yuanhai gets serious and asks her to help, she will definitely help.

A small squad leader position, in addition to contacting her and Ji Yuanhai's previous past, is actually really not important to Feng Xue at all.

Of course, if Feng Xue wants to say these words from her heart, it is better to die directly against the wall.

Therefore, Ji Yuanhai asked her if she seriously wanted the position of squad leader, and Feng Xue muttered: "When I am really rare?" ”

Then I changed the subject and didn't talk about it.

Ji Yuanhai could only sigh that her face was cloudy for a while and sunny for a while.

Tell Feng Xue about Yue Feng and Ma Xiangqian's family going to Fangcao Xuan on Sunday, and Ji Yuanhai has also completed the task of spreading the word.

Feng Xue couldn't let him be idle, grabbed his arm and shook it, and analyzed it with him.

"I can't owe Yue Feng this favor, and there's no need to ......"

"I'm not going to see Ma Xiangqian's family, if their family goes to Fangcao Xuan this weekend, you will directly help me refuse, saying that I am concentrating on reviewing and preparing for the exam, and I can't see them."

"I was a little prescient to talk about this matter, I told my dad yesterday, and my dad also made it clear to me, like the provincial city of Ma Xiang's family, if you don't see it, you won't see it, so there's no need to deal with them."

Feng Xue whispered to Ji Yuanhai, and Professor Zhu, who was lecturing above, didn't seem to notice it at all, although he was usually sharp-eyed, but at this time he couldn't see it again.

Ji Yuanhai couldn't help but sigh when he heard Feng Xue's words.

What is confidence? Feng Xue is called confident.

You can directly refuse.

"Hey, Ji Yuanhai, your eyes are also very good, do you see that yesterday, Ma Xiangxiang and their family were sincere enough to apologize?" Feng Xue asked.

Ji Yuanhai shook his head slightly.

Feng Xue was surprised: "Their sincerity is very poor? ”

"The family is not prepared to apologize." Ji Yuanhai said.

Feng Xue's eyes widened in disbelief: "What? ”

This voice was obviously a bit loud, and Professor Zhu's lecture couldn't help but pause.

After glancing at the positions of Ji Yuanhai and Feng Xue, Professor Zhu continued to lecture as if nothing had happened.

Feng Xue lowered her voice at this time: "Ji Yuanhai, Ma Xiangqian and their family are unwilling to apologize?" What are they here for? ”

"What they mean is that on Saturday, you and Ma Qianqian had some misunderstanding, and they came over to explain it, solve the misunderstanding, and then you can make friends." Ji Yuanhai said, "That's what it means. ”

"The face is really not small!"

Feng Xue sneered: "Do they think they are my elders?" Let me listen to them explain the misunderstanding, and I have to accept their explanation? ”

"Speaking of which, their family just doesn't think Ma Qianqian is wrong, right?"

Ji Yuanhai nodded: "Of course that's what it means." ”

"Of course, there are other things; For example, after all, you Feng Xue only came to school in the capital, and they may feel that it is enough to give you face by doing this, if your father comes here in person, they may apologize and admit their mistake in a neat manner. ”

Feng Xue sneered again and again: "Ji Yuanhai, what you said is really not wrong at all. ”

"Their family is really in a cognitive obstacle, they have been in this provincial city for too long, and they don't know what is right and wrong."

Tsushima Xiangqian's family, Ji Yuanhai and Feng Xue talked about it here.

After all, the more this family talked, the more annoying it became, but it was just selfish and self-righteous, unless someone like Feng Xue's father directly shattered their dreams, it would be difficult for other people to wake them up.

They don't say it, but it doesn't mean that Ma Xiangqian's family doesn't do anything.

On Tuesday, a school leader approached Feng Xue and asked if she wanted to see Ma Xiangqian's family.

Feng Xue refused directly with a cold face, and said that she would not see outsiders during her school days.

Finally, I added that this is also what the father meant.

The school also understood what to do and relayed these words back.

By Saturday, Ji Yuanhai went to Fangcao Xuan to open his doors.

Just as he expected, Ma Xiangqian's family came again and asked Feng Xue what he meant.

After Ji Yuanhai conveyed Feng Xue's words, Ma Xiangqian's family's faces were ugly.

Fortunately, they hadn't lost their minds yet, and they spoke ill of Feng Xue's classmates, but they just hurried away with a straight face.

Yue Feng also came once, and when he learned about the situation of Ma Xiangqian's family, he didn't hide it directly, and laughed.

I have to say that Ma Xiangqian suddenly pretended to be crazy and stupid and touched Fangcao Xuan, which caught Yue Feng off guard.

Yue Feng almost couldn't explain it in front of Feng Xue.

But the good thing about this matter is that although Ma Xiangqian is clever, he is an indisputable thing after all-Yue Feng didn't have time to target him, and he was completely exposed in front of Feng Xue.

The next week was another week, and the turmoil imagined by Ji Yuanhai did not appear in Fangcao Xuan.

Ma Xiangqian did not come to Fangcao Xuan with his fox friends and dog friends.

The Yerba Green Pavilion in the Epoch Sea is still open on weekends, and with its excellent reputation, it still maintains an income of more than 1,000 days off for two days a week.

Ji Yuanhai's Strange Things Xuan is open every day under the control of Xiao Hongyi, and the business is not bad, and he can earn about twenty or thirty yuan a day, which is already good.

After all, there is only one flower and bird street on the entire flower and bird street, like Ji Yuanhai, which sells extraordinary flowers, and the quality that cannot be imitated in the entire provincial city.

Before you know it, it's time for the final exam.

Long before the final exam, Ji Yuanhai had already written to the Ji family and Liu Xianglan that just like during the Chinese New Year, Ji Yuanhai would still be in the provincial capital for a period of time after the holiday, and then go home.

When the final exams were over, Feng Xue would of course return to the capital.

Ji Yuanhai, Lu Heling, and Wang Zhuyun left the school and moved to the small courtyard with their luggage, and Ji Yuanhai also ran Fangcao Xuan.

In this continuous operation, the flowers and plants sold on the entire flower and bird street were all dumb and couldn't tell if they were bitter.

Boss Xiao Ji's daily business is too powerful, and their business is visibly low.

But to find a way to deal with Boss Xiaoji?

I'm sorry, I really don't dare - Deputy Director Cao of the Nanshi Street Street Office has come to walk around Flower and Bird Street more than once, and when he sees Boss Xiao Ji, he smiles and calls him a brother.

With such a person in charge to support his waist, who dares to play any tricks with Boss Xiao Ji and what kind of tricks to play? That's really not daring.

Fortunately, everyone has a hope, that is, Ji Yuanhai made it clear that he would open for a month, and then he would wait for him to open every weekend after he started school.

Boss Xiao Ji is still a kind person after all!

Bear with me, and you'll be fine in a month!

Ji Yuanhai is busy making money, and the deposit has reached 30,000 unconsciously, and Lu Heling and Wang Zhuyun's writing is still continuing.

When Lu Heling's fourth work was published, Wang Zhuyun's third story was finally published in "Children's Literature" after being rejected and revised and resubmitted.

On this day, Lu Heling went to Lu Yuan to accompany her grandfather and prepared to go to Lu Yuan to live for a few days.

Ji Yuanhai and Wang Zhuyun are doing flower and plant business in Fangcao Xuan.

Wang Zhuyun feels that such a leisurely life, with an income of a few hundred yuan a day, and the ability to write freely is very beautiful.

"Yuan Hai, it would be nice if such days could go on forever."

Ji Yuanhai smiled and replied, "Zhuyun, you will have to be assigned a job when you graduate next year, and you won't think so when the time comes." ”

Wang Zhuyun smiled: "Don't worry, I've already thought about this." ”

Ji Yuanhai was surprised: "Oh? Have you already thought about it? ”

"yes, I've thought about it, it's-"

Before he finished speaking, a person broke into Fangcao Xuan: "Feng Xue is not here!" I'm going to the capital! ”

Ji Yuanhai and Wang Zhuyun looked at the person who broke into Fangcao Xuan.

is beautiful and dignified, it is the Gong Lin who graduated from medical school.

At the moment, she was looking anxious, out of breath, with beads of sweat on her forehead.

(End of chapter)