Chapter 80 Giving birth to children is the same
Lin Guan's worry made Jiang Nian slightly stunned, and immediately smiled and took her into his arms.
"Silly girl, you are different from Tang Wanying, you have a man, I won't ignore you, what are you afraid of?"
Jiang Nian's words made Lin Guan feel an unprecedented sense of security.
Feeling the warmth of Jiang Nian's chest, at this moment, Lin Guan seemed to be not afraid of any difficulties, this man was her most solid backing, making her fearless and moving forward bravely.
"I know you'll always be there for me." Clung to Jiang Nian's chest and feeling Jiang Nian's heartbeat, Lin Guan said.
Jiang Nian stroked her hair, wisps of fragrance wafting from his fingertips, making him extremely gentle:
"Of course, we haven't officially gotten married yet, and letting people know that you're pregnant is indispensable to say some gossip, so this matter has to be hidden, and when we get married, it will be justified."
Hearing this, Lin Wan nodded lightly.
Jiang Nian himself was not afraid of any gossip, but he was afraid that Lin Wan would not be able to stand it.
After all, Lin Guan is everyone's best girl, knowledgeable and courteous, and his self-esteem will inevitably be very strong, if he is pointed at behind his back every day, he will definitely not be able to accept it.
For pregnant women, mood is very important.
If you are in a good mood, it is good for the child in the womb, if you are in a bad mood, the child is prone to dystocia, and it is also possible to make the child in the womb deformed, no matter from which point of view, you can't let others know that Lin Guan is pregnant for the time being.
"Since you're pregnant, then you can just move in here, and I can take care of you when I have time." After thinking about it, Jiang Nian proposed.
However, Lin Guan directly refused.
"That's not good, we haven't had a wedding yet, and if we move in, the people in the village will gossip. Besides, it's just pregnant, and the body is so expensive, I live here, you have to go out to set up a stall every day, and the trouble is my aunt, I don't want to go. ”
"What's wrong with this, is it possible that the child is born, can I not let my mother take care of it?" Jiang Nian smiled: "If you give her a grandson, she can offer you as an ancestor." ”
"What if I give birth to a daughter?" Lin Wan suddenly broke away from Jiang Nian's arms and stared at Jiang Nian seriously and asked.
In this era, patriarchal matters are very serious.
Every family puts having a son in the first place, and no matter what, a son must be taken over the household registration book, and if there is no son, then until the son is born, even the family planning policy cannot be controlled.
This is unacceptable to Lin Guan, who has read books and knows the truth.
Grandpa Mao has said that women can hold up half the sky, why do they still have the idea of patriarchy now?
Looking at Lin Guan's solemn expression, Jiang Nian suddenly smiled, gently stroked her cheek, and said, "I said it all, you are pregnant with a dragon and phoenix fetus!" ”
"I mean, what if, if I give birth to a daughter? Just a daughter! ”
"It's good to have a daughter, it's the same to have a son and a daughter, it's all my child, and I like it all the same." Jiang Nian replied without thinking.
That's what he really said.
Relive a lifetime, what else can't you understand?
It is said that raising children to prevent old age, it depends on what kind of son is raised.
Drinking, gambling, hanging rice ...... sons, if you expect them to provide for the elderly, it is not necessary to throw them into the ditch when they are old.
On the contrary, the daughter is well raised, that is, the little padded jacket of the parents.
So, boys and girls really don't matter.
Hearing Jiang Nian's answer, Lin Wan suddenly breathed a sigh of relief, returned to Jiang Nian's arms, and then said: "I'm relieved to hear you say this, you don't know, I have an aunt and cousin, she didn't have a son after she got married, her mother-in-law didn't look like a nose to her, her face didn't look like a face, she scolded Sang all day long, she couldn't raise her head in the eyes of her mother-in-law's family, I was really afraid that I would be like her." ”
Jiang Nian suddenly smiled.
Brushing the hair on her cheeks, she quipped: "Then their family must have hundreds of millions of family fortunes to inherit, and our family doesn't have so much money, so we don't have to be a son." ”
With these words, the amusing Lin Guan almost laughed.
"What a billionaire family of wealth, the poor are almost unable to open the pot, her man is very lazy, she is really blind My aunt and cousin are so good alone."
"That's being poor." Jiang Nian pursed his lips, "Anyway, I don't have the idea of patriarchy, my parents you know, maybe my mother hopes to have a grandson in her heart, but if not, she won't be the evil mother-in-law." ”
"Okay, blame me, don't think about it." Lin Wan covered his mouth and snickered: "But this patriarchal thinking is universal, and I don't know when people will be able to abandon this feudal thinking." ”
"Take your time, it's not a matter of one or two generations, but the country is getting better and better, and people's ideology and culture will get higher and higher, and this kind of thinking will be slowly abandoned." Jiang Nian said.
Lin Wan nodded and snuggled in Jiang Nian's arms.
She didn't expect that Jiang Nian had never read a book, and she could have such a civilized mind, and there was no obstacle to communication between the two of them, which made her more confident in their future marriage.
"Yo, Lin Wan is here."
At this moment, the happy voice of her mother Wang Hong came.
Seeing the two of them hugging each other, like glue and paint, Wang Hong smiled from ear to ear.
With Tomie and the mountains behind him, he put the hoe on his shoulder in the corner of the wall, and then went to the well to fetch water to wash his face.
Mother Wang Hong's eyes were sharp, and she saw the vomit at a glance, and asked with a surprised face: "What's the matter, which of you two vomited?" It doesn't matter! ”
At this time, Jiang Nian and Lin Guan had already separated.
Lin Wan was a little embarrassed to sort out his clothes, while Jiang Nian walked over with a smile and whispered a few words next to his mother Wang Hong's ear, and his mother Wang Hong's smile gradually enlarged, and it could even be said to be a little exaggerated.
She hurriedly wiped her hands with a headscarf, and came to Lin Guan's side excitedly.
"Oh, it's so good, Xiaoguan, what do you want to eat, my aunt will make it for you tonight." Come into the house, the sun is still big outside, your body is now golden, and in the future, you will simply live at your aunt's house, and your aunt will cook whatever you want. ”
Mother Wang Hong's outrageous performance surprised his father Jiang Dashan.
"What did you say to your mother, your mother is happy to be like this!" Seeing his mother Wang Hong take Lin Wan into the roof, his father Jiang Dashan asked.
"Lin Guan is pregnant!"
Jiang Nian's answer made Jiang Dashan stunned for two seconds.
"Are you sure?"
"Eight or nine is not far from ten, I plan to take her to the hospital tomorrow to make sure."
"Yes, you should be sure." Jiang Dashan thought for a moment, and then said: "Since we are pregnant, should we advance the wedding and get married early, so as not to be known and poke the backbone." Our Lao Jiang family is nothing, but we can't wronged Lin Guan! ”
Father Jiang Dashan's meaning, Jiang Nian can understand.
But weddings are not something that can be changed.
Jiang Nian shook his head and said: "Marriage is a day set by the two families, and if you want to change it suddenly, you have to talk about the consent of Lin Guan's family, if we come to the door and tell people that Lin Guan is pregnant, what should Lin Guan's family think of our family?" Even if her parents can accept it, how can the relatives over there explain it? I'm afraid that the wedding invitations have already been sent out. ”
Hearing this, Jiang Dashan was thoughtful.
"If it doesn't work, just pull the certificate first, and the wedding can be held whenever it is."
Jiang Nian's eyes suddenly lit up.
"It's a great idea."
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