Chapter 353: The Great Sister of the Republic of China (83) Responsibility

  Mo Hongying looked at them with a calm gaze and said, "Yuan Zhen's first love is very famous, the heroes and heroines of "The Legend of the West Chamber" Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying know it!" ”

  "I know, the opera garden sings every day!" They nodded in unison.

  Mo Hongying's inky eyes looked at them and continued, "Then the prototype of this pair of talented and beautiful women is the story of Yuan Zhen and Shuangwen. Before Yuan Zhen got famous, he met a beautiful Shuangwen girl and fell in love. But his confession was not accepted by Shuangwen at first, Yuan Zhi went on a hunger strike to express his love, and finally Shuangwen was moved, and Yuan Zhen got what he wanted. For the sake of fame, the two got along for less than a year, and Yuan Zhi set off to catch the exam. Yuan Zhen was outstanding in literature, and soon after gaining fame, high-ranking officials were willing to take sons-in-law. For the sake of fame and fortune, Yuan Zhi abandoned his first love and married Wei Cong, the daughter of the new Jingzhao Yin Wei Xiaqing. After hearing the news, Shuangwen was grief-stricken and married another woman. Yuan Zhen was not only ashamed of himself, but even lost his gentlemanly demeanor and said smugly that I had possessed Shuangwen before others, which was not only ruthless, but even a little dirty. ”

  "This ...... Is it so despicable and shameless? Chen Shimei! Fan Erhu shouted.

  "Now you know! Affection can be written down, it's just the reader's touch. Nothing to do with the author. Mo Hongying looked at them lightly and said.

  "Can it still be like this?" Fan Erhu looked at her dumbfounded and said.

  "You can read the stories behind them, and you'll see that the filter is shattered." Mo Hongying looked at them with a smile and said, "Of course, we have to admit that our talent is unmatched." ”

  "Human things are normal." Guan Baode looked at her with cloudy eyes and said.

  A hint of surprise flashed in Mo Hongying's eyes, "Chromophobia, yes, but without emotion, it's no different from animal mating, it's just a beast in heat everywhere." The reason why man is called a man is that he restrains himself. Love is restraint and does not want to hurt one's lover. Then he added, "If wisdom and morality are lost because of love, this is not true love, it is the indulgence of lust, bestiality, and sexual desire!" ”

  "Love is very beautiful, it is the moon before the flowers, I and me, it is right to pursue love, because we are pursuing hope, and it is always a hope of life. Marriage is indeed the collision of pots and pans, the impregnation of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, quarrels and patience. Mo Hongying's bright eyes looked at them and said, "Your father, how do you call your mother Dad?" ”

  "Daddy, kid."

  "Dead ghosts."

  "Kill a thousand knives."

  "That enemy of mine!"

  "Huh...... Although it is called so, how should life be lived, and how should it be lived. Mo Hongying chuckled and said, "There is a lot of pain in marriage, which is misguided by romantic love. It's wrong to think that everything will be fine when you get married. Whether you live well or not lies endogenously, that is, self-improvement. Regardless of whether a man or woman expects more from their partner, the greater their disappointment in marriage. Then he added, "It's not that person that makes you miserable, but your expectations of that person, your attachment to your ideal partner, and it's a disaster in your marriage!" After all, no one is perfect. ”

  "As Rousseau said: Desire is the world you imagine, and your real situation is the real world. There are no boundaries in the world of desire, but there is a ceiling in the real world, and the difference between the two is what causes you all kinds of troubles and pains. Lin Hansheng looked at her with deep and bright eyes and said.

"That's right." Mo Hongying looked at them with a smile and said, "There is a heart-piercing truth in this world, that is, no matter who you marry, you will regret it." Because the essence of man is a burning mass of desires, when desires are satisfied, people feel bored, and when desires are not satisfied, people feel pain, and people oscillate between pain and boredom. ”

  "Ahh According to you, why are you still married? Chen asked in surprise.

  "Because when you reach the age, your parents think it's time for you to get married, start a family, and have offspring." Mo Hongying said honestly, "There is no perfect lover in this world, and there is no flawless marriage, contentment and happiness are the wise attitude." Those who are happily married are not looking for the right person, accepting each other from the bottom of their hearts, and seeing each other's strengths and advantages. A happy marriage is built on understanding and accepting each other's flaws. Only with a forgiving heart can the practice of a marriage be completed. There is no perfect partner in the world, only a heart that goes on firmly, true love, not an instantaneous touch, but a long-term commitment. Deciding to marry a person only takes a moment of courage to protect a marriage, but it requires a lifetime of dedication from both men and women. ”

  "When it comes to the divorce of celebrities in the newspapers, they are all middle-aged, and the men have become famous, abandoned their bad wives, and married women much younger than themselves." Mo Hongying's deep eyes looked at them and said, "Middle-aged couples, all rely on conscience, when passion fades, marriage has just begun, the essence of marriage is companionship and responsibility, and mature love depends on conscience, and the second half of life depends on responsibility." He looked at them firmly and said, "Love is so simple, and it is not simple that it is the continuation of love." Love is an art, an ability, and a responsibility. A mature marriage may be a marriage that is full of crises but still willing to protect the marriage with love. ”

  "Is it so hard?"

  "You think it's easy to get married! It's not that as soon as the wedding is held, everything will be fine, and the real cultivation has just begun. Mo Hongying's dark eyes looked at them and said.

  "Looks like we still have a lot to learn."

  "Whether it is a man or a woman, this smoking, gambling, and having someone else's outside, there is no need to live this day." Mo Hongying looked at them with deep eyes and said, "Of course, if you are willing to live this situation, then respect, bless, and don't go to others." Suddenly he remembered and said very harshly, "Don't hit a woman." ”

  "No, no, what am I doing beating a woman?" Shen Qingshan waved his hand and said.

  "It's hard to say, a man is a good man outside, everyone praises him, but when he comes home, he beats a woman. Or get frustrated outside and go home to beat a woman to get angry. Mo Hongying looked at them sternly and said, "Don't let me know, I'll beat you." ”

  "You beat us?" Zhang Linghai looked at her in disbelief and said, "Can it work?" ”

  "Territorial waters? Haven't you heard of Sister Aoi's name? Hu Tiewa looked at him in surprise and said, "That's a real knife and a real gun, and it's a hundred shots." ”

  Mo Hongying clenched her fists and coughed lightly twice, "Please ask Teacher Shen to give a lecture!" ”

  "Sister Kui's great achievements, I will tell you when we lie on the kang, study now, study." Hu Tiewa whispered.

  (End of chapter)