Lin Xi looked like I understood.

"Don't say it, our manager's wife often came to our company to check on her post before. It does look like that kind of woman who is particularly shrewd and capable.,Very strong.。 But I really don't understand, do you say that this kind of sister is not fragrant to do her own business? I have to waste my time on my pig-headed husband. ”

Gu Yan smiled, there are really a lot of such people.

"Do you think he doesn't want to put those things on himself? But once he was coaxed and deceived by a man, he entered the marriage and had children. It's hard for a woman to harden her heart. And the surrounding public opinion is not friendly enough to him. Men work to earn money, regardless of children. Everyone is normal, and no one will accuse him of anything.

But if you think about it, if a woman has a child, even if she has a decent job and a good future, if she neglects to educate the child, then everything else will immediately become an excuse to accuse her of being incompetent as a mother. Even the best female entrepreneurs at the top of the pyramid are asked how to balance career and family.

It is not easy to change people's perception and public opinion in society. And to be able to live your own life completely regardless of other people's opinions. It's not an easy task. So you don't have to worry about why she is like this, you can't change her, you have to respect her fate. ”

Lin Xi originally had some fried thoughts, because these words were suddenly silent.

Indeed, since she entered the workplace, although it was only an internship, the values passed to her around her have subverted her original perception of society.

"What you said makes sense, if it was before, I would definitely feel that right is right and wrong is wrong. Why do you have to stir up the middle ground? But now I know that adults should solve the problem, and that's the main thing.

Be less virgin and worry less, so that you can be more comfortable. Anyway, there is absolutely no problem with these PPTs that I made myself, and it is their problem to have problems. If you want to take this opportunity to wear down my will, then the soldiers will cover the water. ”

Gu Yan's face immediately showed a relieved expression that could be taught.

"Sometimes I can understand your feelings, if it were me, I wouldn't want to bear it, just flip the table and leave. But sometimes you do have to learn to take a detour and save the country. I really can't save it, and it's not too late to flip the table.

But I never got one thing out of my mind. Why did you have to choose a company here in the magic capital at that time? There are so many companies for you to choose, what is the reason why you want to come to this company? ”

Lin Xi lowered his eyes and bit his lip.

"Xiaoyan, I do have my own reasons, but I don't want to say it now, is that okay? Don't get me wrong, I don't want to have any secrets from you? Don't trust you, I'm just ......"

Gu Yan saw Lin Xi's sincere and frightened look, and immediately interrupted her explanation.

"I understand that you don't need to explain anything to me, you don't need to explain anything to me, when you want to say it, you want to explain, I'm always there. Lin Xi, sometimes you can be a little selfish. There's nothing wrong with pleasing yourself first and thinking about others later.

My mom told me one thing when I was a kid – she said you have to learn to love yourself in order to love others. Before, I just had a hazy concept. But after experiencing Qin Yijing, I understand, what does it mean to truly please yourself and love yourself?

What I find uncomfortable is the best reminder. So so do you. If it makes you feel burdened and makes you feel uncomfortable, that's not right for you.

There is no real right or wrong in this world, only a matter of position. Of course, the bottom line is not to break the law. ”

Lin Xi looked at Gu Yan with a grateful face.

This is the first time she has lived for 20 years that someone has told her that the premise of doing everything is to learn from herself first.

The environment in which she grew up was prompting her to be a grateful person, so she has habitually suppressed some real thoughts and desires in her heart.

Even after meeting Fu Mingye, she is still like this.

"Xiaoyan, thank you, really thank you so much for saying these things to me. There are some things that I may not be able to do yet, but you made me realize that I can do the same.

I will definitely slowly become a better person! And this, not for anyone, but for myself. ”

Gu Yan stretched out his hands and gently hugged the other party in his arms. The warm palm patted the other person's back.

"Okay, okay, I hope the bad mood is away from you before. I bought a high-speed rail ticket back to Beijing, how about staying with you for a few more hours? Am I funny enough? ”

Lin Xi raised his eyebrows: "What do you mean?" You're only staying with me for one night. No way? Huo Junlin, this hateful capitalist! ”

Gu Yan looked at Lin Xi with a smile and a reluctant look.

"Because I said I was going to take two days off, and I have to go to work early tomorrow morning, so I have to rush back tonight. Another reason is that I have a pet snake, and I have been gone for two days, and I don't know how it eats, how it sleeps, and I am still a little worried. ”

Got a pet snake?

Lin Xi immediately laughed sheepishly.

"Gu Yan, are you close to Zhu and black? Your boss raised a big python, and you followed it. What did you say before that you like cats and dogs? I didn't expect to have such a hot pet for the first time. ”

Gu Yan was said to be in his mind, and his face was slightly red.

"I admit that I have raised this little snake and really want to know more about the psychology of snake keepers. But the old version of the pet snake was lost inexplicably, and I don't know if it can be found?

Where's my little snake? It was an unexpected surprise that broke into my life. I told you before, because my dad is allergic to these pet coats, so he never had a furry child at home.

If only I had raised this snake and brought it home. Imagine my dad's expression when he saw this pet snake...... Surprise? ”

Lin Xi really couldn't stand the magical brain circuit of his best friend.

"Good fellow, I'm really convinced of you, if my uncle sees this snake, I'm not just surprised, I'm frightened. Of course, someone like my uncle who has seen the world will definitely not be like me. I really don't understand, how can anyone treat a snake as a pet? It's cool, and I still have business cards, hey, I get goosebumps when I think about it. ”

Gu Yan couldn't help but defend his baby snake a few words: "Actually, snakes are also very cute, they are cool and really comfortable, especially ......"

"Especially?"

Lin Xi looked at Gu Yan's appearance of wanting to speak and stopped, and couldn't help but be aroused.

At this time, Gu Yan's mind was full of the scene of himself being entangled by a snake's tail in the dream...... It's too ambiguous and sensational, how can she be embarrassed to tell Lin Xi.

(End of chapter)