"First brother Shi, this is my second sister Yufang." Lili first introduced the ...... who appeared later

"Hello...... Sister. "I said busily.

"This is my cousin Xiuyi." Lili introduced the previous one.

"Hello sister." I say.

"That's right, let's be casual. Xiuyi, Lili, you come to help me, (supper) will be fine soon. Sister Yufang said happily.

Lingling asked me if I wanted to drink water or tea, and I said just drink water.

She poured me a glass of water and sat down next to me. She smiled and whispered to me: "Brother Shiyi, don't be nervous, my cousin just came here, and the etiquette of our family is a bit too much......"

I thought I probably understood what Lingling meant, so I hurriedly said, "It's okay, it's okay......"

Their home is about 80 square meters, three bedrooms, and the living room is very large, like the living room and dining hall are connected together, so I don't know whether it is one hall or two living rooms, and of course I won't ask...... The house is very clean and tidy, there is no smell, the air is smooth and pleasant......

The TV was on, but the sound was minimized...... Lingling has no intention of turning up the volume...... She spoke softly to me......

After a while, Lili came over and said to Lingling, "Lingling, it's your turn." Lingling hurriedly got up and said to Lili: "Okay, I'll go, you can sit with Brother Shiyi." Then he said to me, "Brother Shiyi, let Sister Lili sit with you for a while, and I'll cook two dishes for you." ”

"Lingling, no need......" I said busily.

"Brother Shiyi, it's okay, how can you not taste her craftsmanship......" Lili smiled.

"I ...... Won't it be too much trouble for you. I said.

"There are a lot of people, so of course we have to cook a few more dishes." Lili laughed again.

"Lili, how many siblings do you have?" I say.

"Two sisters, one brother." She said.

"Why aren't your eldest sister and your younger brother at home?" I say.

"The eldest sister is married and lives in another city with her brother-in-law...... My brother will come back later, and he will go to the teacher's house tonight to catch up on his homework. Lili said.

It seems to be another patriarchal family......

"Brother Shiyi, my brother is very well-behaved, very obedient, and listens to us, he is studying in general high school, this year in the first year of high school, in the third middle school, he also studied very hard, he was in junior high school in the seventh middle school, now I feel a little difficult, so I found a teacher to tutor him, we think that let him go to the teacher can be more attentive......" Maybe the pity in my eyes was understood by Lili.

"Also, he adores you." My sister laughed again.

"Me?" I didn't understand Lili's words at all...... However, I still feel something unusual - at least on Lili's side, the brothers and sisters will be there (the eldest sister who is married away is another matter).

(To be continued)

China is a country of etiquette, and the specific etiquette forms and cultures of each region of China with the general style of Chinese etiquette as the general guidance and norm have their own personalities.

Many Lingnan families will have some etiquette that family members should or must pay attention to and abide by since childhood, and some of them attach importance to family personalized etiquette in addition to Lingnan common etiquette.

Lili and Lingling do have a lot of etiquette in their family, although it is not difficult to understand, but at first I felt involuntarily restrained because I was a little unaccustomed to it - one of the key reasons was naturally that I also cared about Lingling...... However, in their family, most etiquette and easy-going etiquette do not conflict with each other, especially before the advanced stage or during the early run-in period, they will take special care not to let their own etiquette "frighten" others, especially those who make them feel good and even make them look forward to becoming future aunts.

However, the poignant injustice is that such a family is not as tolerant as the future young lady is not as tolerant as the future uncle.