Chapter 571: Four Stages of Love
I haven't seen him for four or five days, and Xie Mu is like a different person.
He walked into the door of the apartment with his bag and kept smiling, wearing a gray and white home clothes, black bangs obediently neatly above his eyebrows, and his eyes were very clear.
Although he looks no different from him before on the surface, now, Xie Mu is like a newborn beast, revealing his most well-behaved side to those close to him.
It's like a dandelion seed floating in the wind suddenly has a foothold, and it begins to absorb nutrients to meet the sun, completely changing its mental outlook.
"I test, does falling in love have such a big impact?"
Several people, including Pu Tong, were shocked, this kid hadn't seen him for a few days, not only became confident, but even became a little amiable.
"Master, master, uncle, uncle, and who else, I haven't seen you for a long time!"
Xie Mu bowed to a few people very formally, and everyone naturally understands who the master and master call out, so there is no need to say more.
As for the uncle and uncle, the specific title is not gender-specific, and the female master does not call the master the same? It must be Lin Yuxi, who has a good relationship with Putong, and weaves Xue Nai......
"What do you call that who?"
Tang Luocheng gritted his teeth, it's not that they don't know each other, is it necessary to be so different?
Although she did have scandals with Xie Mu before, it was all in the past, it was all marketing and there was no hatred.
Young and ignorant, didn't they all pay the price for their recklessness after that?
She is indeed deeply sorry for the fact that she and Chen Siqing cp had blackened Xie Mu at that time, but she has apologized seriously many times, and everyone has reconciled.
What's more, they have been working in the same crew for so long, and they have long been close friends.
Now that she knows that Xie Mu has a girl she really likes, she will also be happy for her friends from the bottom of her heart.
"I'm sorry, I don't know how to call ...... by the word teacher for a while"
Xie Mu scratched his head, it was really not that he held a grudge, the main thing was that he just ran out of titles and was wronged.
In fact, he can also call Tang Luocheng Uncle and Mother, after all, Chen Siqing and Pu Tong are also friends, and the relationship between the two of them is obviously only one step away from the door, so it seems that it can really be called.
But if he calls him that, wouldn't he default to being a generation lower than Chen Siqing? He certainly wouldn't allow that to happen.
"How's Ling Ling?"
Pu Tong asked casually, and it didn't feel appropriate, why did I meet a good buddy and ask someone's girlfriend in the first sentence, it's so strange.
He scratched his head, after all, Ding Lingling's poor health would indeed make everyone worry, and he couldn't help it, in fact, Yu Lingling and the others also wanted to ask about Ding Lingling.
"It's good, although she was obviously a little anxious when we first met, but after a few days with her, she was in a much better mood."
If Xie Mu really ruined her future because she was with her, she would be a complete bad person, could Ding Lingling not be anxious?
But it seems that this kid has coaxed people, he is so responsible, it is not difficult to find a way to make Ling Ling stabilize her mentality.
"I only now understand what you meant by the "Josie's Tiger and Fish" comic at that time, Master, so you ordered me!"
Xie Mu couldn't help but laugh a little, to be honest, Pu Tong had really clicked on him many times before, intentionally or unintentionally, but he was a stupid guy who just didn't think about it.
He didn't blame the master for not saying it clearly, their mood to take care of Ling Ling was not simply biased towards himself, which was a sign of true respect for the two of them.
When talking about Pu Tong, Xie Mu and Ding Lingling's tones were full of gratitude, without him, there would definitely be no them now.
"And me!" Iori Yukino hugged her arm, "I've also put a lot of effort into the comics, okay, I also have credit." ”
She doesn't mean anything else when she invites credit, remember to let her sit as the chief when these two get married in the future! The kind that doesn't pay for it.
"Okay, well, thank you uncle, uncle, and mother."
Xie Mu also heard Pu Tong say after the online dating appeared, Yu Yunjun and Yi Zhixue are both insiders and have made outstanding contributions, Lin Yuxi guessed eight or nine by himself but never asked, and he remembered everyone's kindness.
Tang Luocheng on the side became more and more embarrassed the more he listened, obviously there were six people present, why did she look like an outsider so much.
She wanted to point to herself and ask, what about me, what about me? But in the end, she just shrunk her neck and didn't say anything.
I don't know if it was an appointment or other reasons, after Xie Mu arrived at the boys' apartment at noon, Chen Siqing also rushed back with Gan Hengxu when it was close to evening.
After the last dinner of the summer vacation, the eight-member team finally got together again.
Compared with others, Gan Hengxu's change is the biggest, after all, I haven't seen him for half a year, this guy is tall and long, and he has surpassed Putong to become the "first peak" among everyone.
Iori Yukino looks at envy, jealousy and hatred, how can the big guys jump violently, only he is not long at all......
When she stole Lin Yuxi's clothes yesterday, she found a cruel reality, this guy's well-fitting sweater can already cover half of her thighs.
That's what it looks like to wear adult clothes.
It is rare for several people to get together, of course, they have to take advantage of the winter to rectify the hot pot, beer or something, and the audition is about to rehearse.
Tonight in Kyoto, it seems that a cold snap has swept in, and the sky is full of snowflakes, and they all blow up one after another, and the streets are instantly white.
But a few people in the room didn't feel cold, they sat around eating hot pot and chatting, so they didn't get along.
"You eat."
Chen Siqing quietly sandwiched a piece of tofu for Tang Luocheng, he still knew what this girl liked to eat after knowing him for so long.
"Oops......"
Several people coaxed one after another, why didn't Pu Tong and Yu Su sprinkle dog food now, and these two people suddenly started again.
Forget about eating and eating vegetables, eating hot pot with vegetables, who is going to be sweet?
Tang Luocheng hurriedly pressed the whole piece of tofu into the plate and held it with chopsticks, as if everyone couldn't see it.
Although she also understands this guy's thoughts, the two of them were still deliberately avoiding them in crowded places before, why are they so active today?
She looked up and immediately understood what the problem was.
The reason is Xie Mu, he is still smiling and typing while eating, obviously sending things to Ding Lingling.
Chen Siqing originally liked to compete with Xie Mu secretly, this is to see that people already have lovers and eventually become dependents, so I'm in a hurry!
Tang Luocheng sighed, she was either hanging on to others, or she felt that the relationship between the two of them had reached a bottleneck, and it had not yet reached the point where they could officially be together.
Except for Iori Yukino, the others also clearly saw that something was wrong with the two of them, and the dinner table fell into embarrassment for a while, leaving only the sound of Sakura Girl chirping and chirping.
"In fact, the relationship between men and women can be roughly divided into four stages."
Pu Tong took the lead in breaking the deadlock, with a posture that the "Love Saint" was about to start class, and several other people were also suddenly interested and began to listen attentively.
"The first stage between men and women is called the moon halo period, the moment you see each other, you feel that there are only two people in the whole world."
"At this stage, the other party is perfect in your eyes, and there seems to be a halo around your body, which is the phenomenon of moon halo."
Pu Tong suddenly changed his words, "Gan Hengxu and Sun Yilin are at this stage, the two of you are not even together, but you are attracted by each other's advantages, just like the moon halo, you can't see the essence of the light source body." ”
Gan Hengxu was embarrassed when he heard this, but he didn't expect Pu Tong to suddenly go around to himself when he was talking, and he used his own situation as an example, and there was no one.
A few people laughed, and with the material, the relationship between men and women in the first stage was much clearer.
"The second stage is called the period of disillusionment." Pu Tong continued, "When two people get to know each other more and more, and the more they understand each other, they will find that the person in front of them not only has the advantages and disadvantages that they have seen before. ”
"The phenomenon of the moon halo makes us attracted by the unreal brilliance of the other party, but there will always be a day when illusions will be shattered."
"Two people in the disillusioned period are particularly prone to enter a misunderstanding, that is, they want to change each other, hope that the other party will follow their wishes, and the two pull each other ......"
He glanced at Tang Luocheng and Gan Hengxu, and the meaning he wanted to express was very obvious, which was also the main purpose of Pu Tong's speech.
The current stage of the two of them is the manifestation of the disillusionment period, no one can convince anyone, and everyone has concerns about this relationship.
The two of them glanced at each other, and their heartbeats accelerated a lot...... I was really hit by Pu Tong!
"The third stage, the introspection period, if men and women go through the stage of mutual concern, then they will start to self-reflect, could it be that I am not good enough?"
"Although too much self-doubt is not good, when two people can empathize and find ways to communicate and get along, they can be regarded as keeping the clouds open and seeing the moon."
Pu Tong took a sip of orange juice and cleared his throat, and said lightly: "Xie Mu and Ding Lingling are at this stage, although there are still some external contradictions between the two of you, as long as you have each other in your heart and are willing to think about each other, you will have a bright future." ”
Xie Mu scratched his head in embarrassment when he heard this, he didn't expect that he had secretly walked in the forefront, he was really embarrassed to pinch.
When a few people heard this, they finally understood, and Pu Tong was ordering them from the perspective of class.
However, listening to his example, everyone can indeed understand, and if you think about it carefully, it is indeed the case, the four stages are nothing more than the relationship between two people from shallow to deep, from one person to gradually accept the change of two people.
"Wait, isn't there four stages, but what about the last one?"
The seven of them looked at Pu Tong in unison, wanting to hear him finish the lesson.
"Phase 4...... That's a soul mate, of course. Pu Tong pointed at himself, and then pointed at Yu Su.
Who is the sweetest couple, but more needs to be said?
"At this stage, both people in the relationship are able to recognize themselves and each other and accept each other as they really are."
"When two people understand each other's boundaries and form a win-win situation, they become soul mates."
It's really not that he is embarrassed, if the current tacit understanding between himself and Yu Sujun can't reach the realm of soul mates, then even not many people can reach it.
The seven of them clenched their fists at him in unison.
"Taught!"
(End of chapter)