Chapter 160: Hiring a Concubine, She Doesn't Love Me
After a hard time.
On the bed, Yu Yourong's voice became even weaker.
"Xiao Lang...... You, people haven't finished talking yet! ”
Xiao Fan said refreshedly: "It's not too late to say now. ”
"That ......"
"I forgot what I was going to say!"
"Forget it."
"I remembered......"
Yu Yourong pillowed Xiao Fan's arm and said, "Xiao Lang, Miss Sun Tong likes you." ”
"What?"
Xiao Fan hurriedly scratched his ears: "You say it again?" ”
"You heard me!" Yu Yourong muttered.
"Your husband and I are men who stand up to the sky, and they have a basket of advantages, and the women who like me can line up to the border from here."
Xiao Fan said narcissistically: "Is there anything worth saying? ”
“……”
Yu Yourong rolled her eyes, she knew that Xiao Fan liked to be funny, and at this time she was clearly changing the topic.
"Xiao Lang, don't you understand what I mean?"
Xiao Fan: "I said lady, I'm not a roundworm in your stomach, how do you know what you're thinking?" ”
"If you hire Miss Sun as a concubine, what does Xiao Lang think?" Yu Yourong sat up, looked into Xiao Fan's eyes, and asked.
Xiao Fan rolled his eyes.
How dare you think about it!
"Miss Sun is the apprentice of the Medicine Saint, what are you thinking about when you hire her as a concubine?"
Xiao Fan said speechlessly: "Don't say that I don't want to take a concubine, how can I deign to be a concubine?" ”
The wife is the wife and the son, and the concubine is just a person in the backyard, which is considered the property of the husband's family, and the children born in the future have no first inheritance.
"I said yes, I hired a good concubine, not a concubine." Yu Yourong carefully distinguished.
There are also two types of concubines.
One is a good concubine, and the other is a cheap concubine.
A good concubine, that is, a woman from a good family, can generally be a main room in another family. Even if such a woman becomes a concubine, she cannot be disposed of at will by her husband's family as property.
Although the status is lower than that of a wife, a good concubine is still a human being compared to a cheap concubine.
And the cheap concubine is a lowly woman who is sold into her husband's house and is used as a tool to spread the leaves.
This kind of concubine is very lowly, and even the children who have not been born have a high status in the husband's family.
They are the private property of the husband's family, and they can be beaten, scolded, and sold at will, and even if they commit a crime, they can be executed by the husband's family.
Cheap concubines have no human rights at all, so they can only pray that their husbands' families have a conscience, otherwise they will definitely have a bad life.
And there is another difference between good concubines and cheap concubines.
When a good concubine is hired, the husband's family gives a dowry, and the good concubine also comes with a dowry.
accepts cheap concubines, and the husband's family gives a bride price.
The bride price is equivalent to a buyout, and it has nothing to do with the mother's family from now on.
Generally, the concubines of famous families are good concubines.
"Regardless of whether it is a good concubine or a cheap concubine, the grandchildren of other families are dignified, how can they be concubines with you?"
Xiao Fan shook his head and said, "Don't insult the reputation of other girls like this!" ”
"That's not what I meant."
Yu Yourong said:
"The concubine just thinks that Xiao Lang is very hard, but I have to serve alone, if I am pregnant in the future, I will have to take a concubine sooner or later. Why don't you take this opportunity to ......"
"Also, Miss Sun looks at you, I know what it means. I look at her look, even if she is a concubine, she is not necessarily unhappy......"
Xiao Fan shook his head when he heard this.
This is the difference between the three views.
In Xiao Fan's opinion, how could it be possible to ask a serious woman to be a concubine, this is simply an insult to other people's personalities.
You're going to get a mouthful, right?!
But in Yu Yourong's opinion, this is a very normal thing, as a lady in the main house, it is very appropriate to find a good concubine for her husband.
Not only is it in line with the current social atmosphere, but it can also show her generosity as a lady in the main room.
A woman who does not seek a concubine for her husband will be said to be domineering and jealous, inconsiderate and unvirtuous.
Very grassy facts!
"What do you mean, you were going to give me a concubine?"
Xiao Fan said incredulously: "This is how it should be?" ”
Yu Yourong nodded: "Yes?" ”
"If the concubine is pregnant, she will be pregnant with a big belly in the future, and she will naturally not be able to serve her husband, so of course she will find a concubine for you at that time?"
Xiao Fan almost forgot that this was an evil feudal society.
No, this has nothing to do with feudalism.
In Xiao Fan's time, it was also like this.
Many people will cheat on their daughters-in-law when they are pregnant, and it is said that they cannot be released, which is due to nature.
In this feudal era, this kind of shameless rhetoric is even more popular, and even women approve of it!
Yu Yourong's education is like this.
She has been taught since she was a child how to be a big lady in the house.
Be virtuous, generous, kind, and considerate of all the difficulties of your husband......
Anyway, it's all kinds of spiritual and moral kidnapping.
The morality in it is not necessarily very moral.
Even in many high-ranking families, the eldest lady is pregnant, and she has to take the initiative to take a concubine for her husband.
Otherwise, during this period, I can't serve my husband, how can I make it?
When the husband finds a concubine by himself, he will be said to be jealous and unreasonable.
The husband is as big as the sky, which is a direct explanation.
Therefore, in Yu Yourong's cognition, it was originally intended to be a concubine for Xiao Fan.
In that case, why not take the opportunity to find a suitable concubine?
Sun Tong was immediately attracted by Yu Yourong, she felt that this girl was very easy to get along with, and it would be a comfort if she entered a family.
It's better than those cheap concubines of unknown origin.
"You ......"
Xiao Fan looked at Yu Yourong's serious face, and knew that she was not tempted, but really happy and found a good concubine who was very suitable.
Xiao Fan wanted to be angry, but when he saw her face, he suddenly felt a little distressed.
"Silly girl, what should this be?"
Xiao Fan picked up Yu Yourong's face, and said with a straight face: "You gave birth to children for me, if I can't even endure you for more than ten months when you are pregnant, are you still worthy of being your husband and the father of the child?" ”
"Aang?" Yu Yourong was extremely surprised.
She hurriedly whispered, "Xiao Lang, stop talking!" If it spreads, people outside will only think that I am speaking to you! ”
"They will say that I am not virtuous, that I am jealous and domineering, that I am rebellious and unruly to restrain my husband......"
Yu Yourong was a little anxious, she was obviously really worried about this.
"Who dares to say, I'll give him a mouthful!" Xiao Fan said with a smile.
Yu Yourong's head shook like a bell: "No, no!" ”
"Why not?"
Xiao Fan Zhengse: "Don't you believe it, I'm willing to look for two colors for you?" ”
Yu Yourong said suspiciously:
"Why don't you want to hire a concubine?"
"Why do I have to be willing?" Xiao Fan sighed.
"Men are already a group of wives and concubines, and the more concubines they have, the more powerful they seem." Jade has a tolerant way.
Xiao Fan looked weird:
"Don't you mind if I have a concubine?"
"Why should I mind?"
Yu Yourong said: "As a wife, I should have hired a concubine for my husband, and I should have opened up a lot of branches for the Xiao family?" ”
Suddenly, Xiao Fan realized something.
"You, not jealous?" Xiao Fan squinted his eyes and asked.
Yu Yourong looked puzzled: "Why should I be jealous?" ”
Xiao Fan looked at her face and suddenly fell silent.
I see......
This woman, she doesn't love me!
Xiao Fan suddenly realized this.
The wife who has been with him for several months day and night does not love himself, which is a little uncomfortable for a man.
Especially, it is a man like Xiao Fan who likes sincere emotions.
originally thought that Yu Yourong loved himself, but today, Xiao Fan realized it.
All the things she did for herself were just because she was her wife.
It's not because she loves me.
It's not because she likes me so much.
It's just because she feels that it is something she should do well as a wife, and it is not something she does from the heart.
Just like this time, Yu Yourong was in a hurry to hire a concubine for himself.
If she loved me, she wouldn't do it, and some women would drive away when they came close.
To love someone must be selfish and want to have it alone.
If there is no such jealous emotion, it means that you don't love, and it means that the relationship has not yet reached that point.
Even if the current mainstream idea is to let the main room take a concubine for the husband, it is rare to see someone who is so happy.
Which eldest lady doesn't compete with the concubine for favor?
Why did you push your husband out?
"Xiao Lang?"
Yu Yourong saw that Xiao Fan's face changed, and said, "Am I not right?" ”
"You ......"
Xiao Fan wanted to speak and stopped.
He wanted to see her jealous, but he couldn't say it directly.
If she says it directly, Yu Yourong will do it, but it still doesn't come from her heart, she is still following her husband's wishes.
"Nothing, go to sleep." Xiao Fan turned his head and sulked.
Yu Yourong: "What about Miss Sun Tong?" ”
"If you have the ability, you just go and say, I don't care!" Xiao Fan said coldly.
"Shall I talk about it?" Yu Yourong laughed happily.
Xiao Fan, who had his back to Yu Yourong, his face was even more ugly, and his heart was extremely angry.