Cheng Xiaosi's topic was not very happy, which made Yuan Si sigh for a long time, telling her that from the princess to the ordinary woman, who can really be her own master?

"The eldest son of the Tao family, who is extremely outstanding in literature and martial arts, married the third girl of the Cui family, everyone knows that the third girl Cui will not live this year, but the Tao family needs to rely on the Cui family to ask for protection, not to mention that they can live for a few months, even if they have only one breath left, they still have to marry."

"The eldest girl in General Shi's mansion is not married to the younger brother of the military department as a stepmother, and she is the mother of two children when she is married, who let Zhang Shilang manage the allocation of military supplies?"

Yuan Sijin gave several examples in a row, all of which were telling Cheng Xiaosi not to have too many illusions about marriage, and in marriage matters, whether it is a man or a woman, he must pave the way for the future of the family.

Cheng Xiaosi shook his head and raised his eyes to look at the sky, "In this way, a person like me who does not learn and has no skills, has no ink on his chest, and has thick branches and leaves but is strong and strong, there is still merit." ”

She just said, she can be looked down on, it doesn't make sense!

If you want to say that she doesn't dare to steal the masterpieces of the sages at will, the animal protection she learned before is not used here at all, and there are no rules and etiquette, so she can only deal with it superficially, and she can't do anything about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.

Anyway, I can't roll it, and it's good to lie flat and rot.

Yuan Sijin poked her with a smile, "You are a fan of the authorities, and you will be more sought-after in time." ”

"Your Shunyi Bofu is now the same every day, I don't know how many pairs of eyes are staring, you have a father and brother working hard in front, and you can naturally spell out a good marriage."

"But then again, what do you think of my fifth brother?"

This was said smoothly, and he didn't feel embarrassed at all, and Cheng Xiaosi didn't think much about it, "It's naturally good, good-looking and golden." ”

"That's it?"

Yuan Sijin was not satisfied, Cheng Xiaosi blinked, "Actually, I don't know much." ”

"I've only been in the capital for a few years, and you know what the situation was before, I don't know a few people until now, and I can't figure out which one is which, for example, your family, I've been here a few times, and I know your fifth brother, you, your father and mother, and I don't know the others."

Cheng Xiaosi didn't mean to be humble at all, the young lady didn't dare to look up when she walked, and she went out to the banquet to follow You Qinglian, the rats were bolder than her, and Xiao He couldn't figure out the way to survive in the upper class society in the capital, where to know the situation of each family?

Yuan Sijin had a complicated face, and couldn't help asking, "What were you doing before?" ”

It's been three years, so you should know a little bit, right?

Cheng Xiaosi sighed faintly, "Shinong Gonggong, our family jumped from the merchant to the top, the impact is not ordinary, my father and they can't find the direction in a short time, and they can't put themselves in a good position, let alone me?" ”

"I came to the capital to live in a place that I am not familiar with, I don't understand the rules, and I don't have any talent, once I go to the banquet is a joke, you just say wear jewelry, wear the precious smell of copper in the body, and don't wear people and talk about shabby to smoke the nose, how is it wrong."

"You don't know, this is a big blow to self-confidence, and over time I don't even want to raise my head."

"I feel safe when I keep my head down, and I feel sorry for myself, and the past is unbearable."

Yuan Sijin was born a noble girl, so naturally she couldn't realize the gap in this identity, and sighed for a while, "Why do you want to open it again now?" ”

"Didn't I walk around the ghost gate?"

Her excuse is very useful, "I kind of figured it out, what can those people do to me if they can't get used to me?" Did I eat their meal? ”

"What qualifications does a person wearing two taels of silver earrings have to laugh at the person who has jewelry on my body worth a thousand taels?"

"My dad makes money to give me flowers, I'm proud, it doesn't matter what I want to say behind my back, but if you want to say me in front of me, I won't be polite, I'm not very good at talking, so I have to get started when the time comes."

"The girl's family fights, or the other party has a bad mouth first, I don't believe that the emperor can still give my father's title for this matter."

The young lady just can't figure it out, what kind of upper-class society is still drilled into the big family, and being ridiculed for being low and being small will hit her self-confidence, and some circles are not something you can integrate into if you can talk and come to things.

The village girl who sold pigs in Shuangwen finally married the prince and became a wife, but it can only be in Shuangwen, not to mention the ancient times when the family was strictly hierarchical, you are now rare Cinderella can easily marry into a wealthy family, and the boss also has to pay attention to marriage, and the boss can't help himself at some times!

To be a human being is still to be realistic, and there are some classes that you can't cross through with your efforts.

Ay~

Yuan Si pondered her words and laughed, "It makes sense." ”

"If you want me to say that we can't climb it, let's not go to join in the fun, can't you be happy?"

She is a noble girl, and she has to go to the princess to talk with her, just because the princess is much more noble than her.

According to Cheng Xiaosi's idea, what about the princess, can the princess decide anything, because the princess is not happy that her father's official position is gone?

The princess is happy that his father will be promoted to the next level?

So what if she doesn't have a good relationship with the princess?

The princess is just a pawn in the hands of the emperor, marrying for the interests of the emperor, and possibly marrying far away, how much better is she than her?

Suddenly I laughed, and I felt so much more comfortable thinking about it.

"Hello Little Four, I will comfort myself."

Cheng Xiaosi was happy, "I failed in this matter and recognized the reality." ”

It's not just a failure, and the young lady's life is gone.

Yuan Sijin was stunned, she didn't expect her to be so calm, and then smiled, "I'll tell you about our family's situation." ”

"Huh?"

"It should be the beginning of your understanding of the family in the capital."

What else can Cheng Xiaosi say, and then Yuan Sijin introduced the people of the Yuan family, first saying that the Yuan family has been passed down for hundreds of years now, "The hometown is in the west, although the name has a long history, but the local people are still used to calling it Yuancheng, because this is the clan land of the Yuan clan, and more than half of the people in the city live on the Yuan clan." ”

"Such a view?"

can make a city change its name in the mouths of the people, how bad would she be if she was the emperor?

Yuan Sijin said: "But that was before, now it is naturally not as beautiful as before, there are many people in the clan, so many that I can't recognize them all, and there are hundreds of people within five suits." ”

"Our branch is now my father in charge, and he is also the patriarch of the Yuan clan now."

"My father also has two brothers and a younger sister, my father gave birth to my eldest brother, fifth brother and me, my second uncle has not yet married, and the third uncle gave birth to my second brother, third brother and fourth brother, and two cousins"

No one has said what the names of these people are, Cheng Xiaosi has already fainted, a big family is a big family, and there are so many people in one room.

"My two cousins went with my grandmother to worship the Buddha, but they were not in the house"

Cheng Xiaosi said sincerely, "There are so many people in your family, is your mother taking care of the feed?" ”