Cheng Xiaosi's doubts, Mrs. Yuan gave her the answer, saying that she had received different teachings since she was a child.

"In people's mouths, men are better than girls, but it seems that men have received a lot of preferential treatment, but in fact, they have the heaviest burden, shouldering the rise and fall of the family, and they have to take care of their younger brothers and sisters, with them, even if they don't have much achievement, this family will not be easily bullied."

"The world is like this, even if it is uneven, there is nothing to be done."

Cheng Xiaosi still agrees with this, speaking of which she is also a vested interest, without the men of the Cheng family being busy day and night, their sisters can't live so comfortably, especially when their parents and brothers don't regard their sisters as marriage bargaining chips, their sisters' lives are quite good.

Mrs. Yuan continued, "Let's just talk about your eldest brother, he was enlightened when he was less than three years old, he got up early and before dawn, he had things that he couldn't learn all day long, and he rarely rested all year round. ”

"Since he was a child, both the elders in the family and the teacher taught him responsibility, and when he grows up, he may like the new and jumpy girls outside because of long-term fatigue, but his heart is always clear, and those sons in Kyoto are rarely too ridiculous outside, and even if he desperately marries a girl from an ordinary family, the joy will be worn out in a short time."

"Men and women love, Xingtou naturally thinks that the other party is good, but people can't count on love to live, and eventually have to be entangled in trivial matters, at this time the gap between the two comes out, can't play the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, can't read and write, can't control people, don't understand the tricks in human relations, men will feel that women are stupid and superficial, empty inside, not only can not become a virtuous helper but also drag their feet."

"The woman felt that the man had changed too fast, and the mountains and seas swore that they were overwhelmed, and began to complain and cry, but the more they did this, the more disappointed the two of them became more and more disappointed in each other, and forcibly put on clothes that did not belong to them, but they were suppressed by the clothes, and it was difficult to move from this point on.

Cheng Xiaosi immediately took the next sentence, "At this time, it is usually the woman who is angry with herself, and then the man remarries a girl who is the right person and is on the right track." ”

What is this called?

Ordinary girls deserve to die?

Mrs. Yuan smiled, did not discuss the issue of men and women with Cheng Xiaosi, glanced at him meaningfully, and felt that some words should be explained to her in advance, so as not to mess up after really encountering them, in her eyes, Yuan Su and Cheng Xiaosi are looking at each other, so it is not good, the more you care, the more you will drill the horns when there is an accident, the more you care, the easier it is to quarrel because of some trivial things, the world is unpredictable, she is a mother who does not dare to guarantee that his son will be for a long time Only Cheng Xiaosi is in her eyes.

"You remember, it's better to be blocked, the more you can't get it, the more crazy you want to get, and blindly forcing it can't solve the problem except for making people see enough jokes."

"Quietly put people in, put them under your nose, then everything is up to you, as a woman, you should be calm and intelligent at all times, and you must learn to protect yourself."

"Love and love are only temporary, and in the end, both of them have the ability to support each other, so that they can last for a long time."

Cheng Xiaosi understood what she meant, this is to tell her not to make trouble, she said that she can, if one day Yuan Su meets true love again, she can also be a rich and leisurely lady, what does she want now?

Taking a step back, at that point, she is not unable to take a concubine into the door, but also to achieve the goal of having a baby without pain, as long as her father does not fall, no matter how many women Yuan Su finds and how many children she has, she will eventually call her mother, she is the mother, these children will be happy under her knees even if they are hindered by etiquette, accompany her to relieve her boredom, and do her filial piety, even if she dies, these people will send her to the end.

Etiquette is strict, who wants their mother to be a concubine?

"What my mother taught us is that we have gained too much compared to ordinary women, and we should make ourselves broad-minded."

Mrs. Yuan knew that she understood, and nodded with satisfaction, "Knowing that you are a smart person, it is good that you can figure it out, and my mother doesn't have much to look forward to, so I look forward to you and Gorou living a good life." ”

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law walked slowly on the road, and after a while, Mrs. Yuan talked to Cheng Xiaosi about the gossip in the city for the past two days.

In the past, no one shared it with her, the old lady was not very keen on these, Yuan Sijin was a girl's family, she had to maintain her image as a mother, where could she say this, now it's okay, Cheng Xiaosi also likes this, they are still mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are many fewer taboos when they speak, but they are happy?

"That Mrs. Zhang is now, tsk, one is her own daughter, and she has high hopes for the Zhang family; One is his own nephew, or an old man, and the whole family is baby. ”

Cheng Xiaosi's eyes were blazing, "How do I feel that Mrs. Zhang's maiden family did it on purpose, knowing that my family is not good, I am worried about the girl who has been carefully raised by others, and it is shameless to say, I don't even dare to say that I am serious, I will come behind my back." ”

Mrs. Yuan grabbed her wrist and lowered her voice, "There is a follow-up to this matter, the youngest son of the Zhang family hates his grandfather's family for ruining his sister's reputation, and in a fit of anger, let people ruin the reputation of the three girls of the Cao family, the three sisters went out to incense together, were robbed halfway, and woke up unclothed, the Cao family is afraid that they are going crazy, the feud between the two families is certain, Mrs. Zhang must have a choice, that is the niece of the three relatives, wronged." ”

Cheng Xiaosi gasped, meaning that his own sister was ruined by her cousin, so she found someone to ruin the reputation of her three cousins and cousins, and she didn't want to eat at all?

"Who did the three girls of the Zhang and Cao families provoke?"

Mrs. Yuan sighed, "Although this matter has not been completely spread, many people have got the news and are watching the excitement, it is said that a few boys of the Cao family blocked the head of the family, and they were extremely humiliated by the Zhang family. ”

"But you remember, when you see these two families in the future, you will make friends with the Zhang family, Lord Zhang and several sons of the Zhang family are stronger than the sons of the Cao family, although it is not appropriate to step on the high and praise the low, but the eldest girl of the Zhang family married into the British Prince's Mansion, which is quite popular with the British princess, and the Cao family is weak, this time many people are waiting to see how they will deal with it."

Cheng Xiaosi understood, the two families are now like fire and water, and the wind direction in Beijing will also change.