Young people have no knowledge, they don't talk big or small, they haven't experienced anything yet, and they feel that they are amazing.

And when Su Jiekai is old, he has become cautious in his words and deeds, but whenever he encounters something, he will look ahead and backward, and after weighing it again, he will make the most informed decision.

When speaking, it is natural that he will not be as straightforward as young people, but will detour left and right, say half and leave half, vague words, there is a way to enter, there is room to retreat, the words will not be exhausted, and the meal will not be eaten.

Ambiguity has its own reason for being ambiguous, and as long as the right to interpret is still in your own hands, it is nothing.

Over-interpreting is someone else's business, not making it clear is your own business.

Leave a line in your words, and see you in the future. That's it.

It's not so much about leaving a way out for others, it's better to talk about the good karma you have forged.

Of course, nothing is absolute, and there are also those who return to the mountains and leave troubles, after all, the most vicious people are a very small minority, so it's another matter.

Then if you can judge the situation and grasp this degree, you are a master.

And the old man of the Jin family, after living for such an age, has naturally cultivated to the master of the masters.

In order to train his daughter and teach her some principles of doing things for others, Su Jiekai then told a story about his hometown.

Back then, in the village, a family surnamed Hao married a daughter, so they invited a more prestigious second uncle in the clan to explain these things.

There is a local custom in a place, and the whole process is relatively smooth, and the joy outside the home is very festive.

The second uncle of the Hao family and his entourage, full of wine and food, went to the daughter's husband and family to say goodbye, and said some words very politely.

"In-laws, our daughters are pampered at home, clumsy at hand, and they can't speak well, after coming to your house, if there is anything wrong with it, please bother to teach, in case you do something wrong, for the sake of our mother's family, don't be harsh, let the son-in-law say it to the parents-in-law, or say it to my second uncle, the Hao family will discipline it strictly!"

After saying this, he stood up, clasped his hands into fists, and the etiquette was very thoughtful.

The elders of the husband's family also stood up and returned the salute, and said some kind words, naturally praising the Hao family's good tutoring and daughter's good raising.

Originally, when things came to this link, all the processes were completed relatively satisfactorily, and the next step was to send the girl's mother's family, that is, Uncle Hao's party out, and wave goodbye.

It's just a good thing, and Uncle Hao's humble words just now were all heard by Hao Dani, who was standing outside the window!

The eldest girl couldn't help but be angry, and was annoyed that the second uncle shouldn't arrange herself at the new husband's house, so she kicked the door open.

"Second uncle, what are you talking about? Your daughter is pampered, your daughter is clumsy, and she can't speak well, you are such an old person, don't you feel sorry, my father entertains you with good wine and food, and lets you send me out, but you say bad things about me behind your back, is there such a black-hearted person in the world? ”

Second Uncle Hao was so stunned that he opened his mouth, originally this was a scene of self-humility, and he spoke for you with good intentions, how did he become black-hearted?

He was so angry that he trembled and couldn't say a word.

"Dani, you can't be so good, I don't know what to do, isn't your second uncle all for you not to be angry at your husband's house in the future? Hey, you're so ignorant! ”

An elder surnamed Hao who accompanied him stood up to play a round and hurriedly stepped forward to support the second uncle who was about to get rid of him.

Hao Dani has long been annoyed and angry, where can she listen to the good words and persuasion of others?

"None of you are good people, how can I offend everyone? Tell me, where do I not know what is wrong? Obviously you said bad things about me, and you said it was for my good? Fools can understand, this is a curse! ”

She ignored the faces of the Hao family and the others, and began to cry and cry.

Second Uncle Hao had only heard that this eldest niece was really good-hearted and kind-hearted, but who would have thought that her heart was too "real", and she was too "kind".

"What a tiger girl!"

The Hao family didn't say much to her, threw down a sentence, and then brushed her sleeves back.

Since then, Hao Dani has given her the nickname "Tiger" girl, saying that her heart and eyes have not grown, and everyone is easily reluctant to deal with her.

The new husband's family also saw the true face of the new daughter-in-law, who had a good skin, but a belly of straw in her belly.

In order not to affect the genes of the next generation, the new husband's family sent Hao Dani back on the same day, and she wanted to withdraw from the marriage, not this "tiger girl".

Hao Dani's father, only then did she know that her daughter did not have a doorkeeper on her lips, and she offended all the big guys, and she lost her ugliness and leaked cowardice in her new husband's house.

"Dani, say you don't know what's wrong, I really didn't say that I wronged you! Your second uncle is humble for you and supports your new husband's family, if you do something wrong in the future, they will not let them lecture you or beat and scold you, but come back and let your father and mother educate you! Can't you even understand such obvious words? ”

Hao Dani's mother, I counted her down in one meal.

Because her mother, as a person who has come over, knows very well that in the local area, it doesn't matter who marries the daughter, the elders arrive at the new husband's house, and they all have such a set of rhetoric.

Even if the best girl is married, you have to say so!

When Hao Dani heard her mother say this, she suddenly realized that she was really wrong to blame her second uncle and the elders.

But if the words are like water spilled out, how can they take back the truth that has been spilled?

Once Hao Dani is successfully divorced, then she will not want to marry in this life, and she will also affect the second and third ni in the family, the reputation of this tiger girl has spread, who dares to talk about matchmaking again.

So Hao Dani's father and mother, with heavy gifts, went to the second uncle's house and the elders of the Hao family, kowtowed and admitted their mistakes, and said all the good things before they were forgiven by everyone.

In the end, it was Second Uncle Hao who went out again and went to the new husband's house in person to say yes, and finally let someone come to the family and took Hao Dani away.

Since then, the people of this village have strengthened the discipline of their children, and later became the hometown of etiquette, and its reputation has spread far and wide.

The story is finally over, Su Tiantian was disdainful from the beginning, and nodded frequently later, it turns out that there are so many exquisiteness in interacting with people, speech and behavior.

"Tilt, you should also pay attention to your words in the future, it's not that you are eloquent, and it's not that others are speechless to win, sometimes people may not want to see you in general."