Chapter 5: What is the Meaning of Our Efforts?

Lin Feng's last sentence "There are people outside the world, there is a sky outside the sky, don't sit in the well and watch the sky without knowing it", it can be said that it completely broke the psychological defense line of these students!

The children looked at the starting line in front of them, which was only a few meters away, but was actually out of reach, and they slowly crouched down, holding their heads and covering their faces in agony.

"What do you mean? Does that mean I can't catch up with anyone no matter how hard I try? ”

One of the students muttered to himself subconsciously, and then sobbed quietly.

The mood and atmosphere are contagious, and gradually the sobs on the runway begin to expand.

"Then what's the use of my efforts?! I might as well stop trying! ”

"Yes! So what is the meaning of reading and learning day and night? ”

"Woooooooooooo Mom and Dad, what is the meaning of my life? ”

“……”

This scene fell in the eyes of all parties, and it was full of taste.

The school leader looked at Lin Feng, and a thin layer of sweat broke out on his back.

He admitted that what Lin Feng said was the truth, but on this occasion, this kind of behavior would definitely attract a lot of misunderstandings.

What exactly are the consequences for the school's reputation? How will this teaching activity be carried out in the future?

In a hurry, the school leaders had no intention of thinking about other things.

And Professor Zhang Li next to him looked at Lin Feng, his brows furrowed slightly, thoughtful.

As an education expert invited by the school, he has no entanglement of interests with the school, so he will naturally not be disturbed by various factors like the school leaders.

At this moment, thinking back to the ten questions Lin Feng asked, he found that each question had a deep meaning.

The first problem is the parents' academic qualifications, which are mediocre at first hearing, but you will know them when you taste them carefully.

Parents with high academic qualifications have strong learning ability and relatively more accumulated knowledge.

If children can have such parents, then what they don't know, they may be able to solve it directly by finding their own parents, without having to ask the teacher.

And parents with low educational qualifications, when they encounter their children asking questions, he can only let their children wait to ask the teacher.

But the child's curiosity has a time limit, saying that he will go to the teacher the next day.

But whether the child asked in the end or not, the parents did not know.

Over time, the gap will naturally come out, and this is not a matter of IQ.

As a result, the gap between these two types of children has widened even further.

The second question is that I have asked for a one-on-one tutor.

Even if the parents are not highly educated and cannot help their children with their homework, most parents will hire one-on-one tutors for their children as long as the financial resources allow.

In this case, children who are also lagging behind in their grades will naturally improve their grades more easily and quickly than children without tutoring.

Moreover, some children who are already top-notch in their grades may improve their grades after receiving tutoring and tutoring, and even learn the next stage of knowledge in advance after the holidays!

And these are things that cannot be learned in school classrooms, and there is no way to learn them in advance.

Therefore, with and without tutoring, the gap is immediate.

And the question of maintaining a specialty is also very interesting.

Which parent doesn't want their son to become a dragon and their daughter to become a phoenix?

When I was a child, I had to report for the special class with my teeth gritted.

However, it is easy to get started and difficult to master, which requires not only the money of parents, but also the time and energy of their efforts.

Many children have learned a "specialty" to a greater or lesser extent when they are young, how long does it last?

It's only two or three years!

Being able to study until now in addition to schoolwork is a huge gap in itself.

And whether parents have been praising their children in front of relatives and friends is also asking about the point.

Parents praise their children and regard them as their own glory, and this sense of identity will be contagious to the children and make the children confident and self-reliant.

And if the child usually lacks encouragement, it is more likely that he is living in depression at any time, because from his point of view, he has done his best, but his parents will never say enough, not enough effort, not enough grades, and not enough personality......

If you don't get the blessing of your parents' sense of identity for a long time, your child will lose her self-confidence, become introverted, and shrink.

This kind of anticipation under the weight of the weight will clip the child's wings.

The future development of these two types of children is clear at a glance.

This question has nothing to do with money, in fact, it asks whether the child's spiritual world is rich!

Regarding whether he can study abroad, Zhang Li doesn't think that Lin Feng means to worship foreign countries, and thinks that foreign schools are better than domestic ones.

It's that the child can study abroad, and that is one more option in life.

The difference between "can go but don't go" and "can't go, so can't go" is huge.

Whether the parents have five insurances and one housing fund is related to a series of issues such as the future treatment and pension of the parents.

Parents have no worries about medical treatment and retirement, and children can work hard with peace of mind when they become adults.

From the fact that there are siblings or not, it can also be seen whether the parents have sufficient resources and are able to raise two children.

For today's people, having only one child is more of a forced helplessness, and most parents don't want to have children, but they dare not give birth.

And this kind of helplessness to pour all resources into one child will lead to great pressure on both parents and children.

Not having a choice and having a choice, of course, is different.

I also asked my parents if they had a fixed work unit, and having a fixed work unit means a stable income and a stable living environment.

Stability is a necessary condition for raising a good child.

If you don't have a stable job, the feeling of wandering and stress will also subtly affect your child......

Zhang Li was analyzing Lin Feng's various deep meanings, when the phone suddenly rang, interrupting his train of thought.

Taking out his mobile phone, Zhang Li looked at the number, hesitated, and hung up directly.

Turning his gaze back to the playground, he muttered to himself:

"But, Lin Feng, you are now exposing the bloody reality in front of the children, so how should you deal with the children's collapse?"

At this moment, there was a "bang", and Zhang Li looked in the direction where the sound sounded.

A man kicked off the chair and stood up directly, shouting at Lin Feng excitedly:

"What is your intention as a teacher?!"

He looked at his crying daughter on the runway and his heart ached:

"A teacher, just teach well, you have to do this one, is it fun?!"

This is the more than 50 parents of children who have not moved.

With his appearance, seven or eight parents stood up one after another, all glaring angrily at Lin Feng.

Be! Lin Feng was right!

There is indeed a gap between their parents, which also determines the starting line of the child.

But how many years can children be pure?

Later, when they go to society, they will be beaten by their own society, and now let them have a peaceful life, can't they just bury their heads in study? Why do you say this?

The corners of the school leader's mouth twitched, isn't this just worrying about something?!

"What about the head teacher? Hurry up, go and persuade. ”

However, there is no need for him to speak, the audience is already full of teachers and parents.

"Daddy Zhang, don't get excited, you have something to say."

"Big sister, big sister! Harmony is precious! You collect your nails ......"

"I feel distressed when I see the child crying, but if I have a conflict with the teacher, will the child still be able to read in the future?"

"Well, how many years can we protect our children? That's it, I think that teacher is just reckless, not really bad. ”

“……”

Everyone is pulling and persuading, and the parents' seats are directly chaotic.

And in this chaos, Lin Feng took the initiative to come over and smiled indifferently:

"Parents, I know you're in a hurry, but don't worry."

???

Now that this is the case, is there anything else?

The parents looked at Lin Feng suspiciously, and reluctantly suppressed the unhappiness in their hearts.

Lin Feng looked at the parents who had already stood up and said:

"You should be the parents of those fifty-odd children, right?"

"That's right, please come and join me in the next round of comparative experiments."