Teacher Lin's first reaction was to ask to communicate with the child?

However, the audience in the live broadcast room thought about it for a while and understood.

"This kind of thing really can't be unilaterally listened to by the parents."

"That's right, if parents could be aware of their problems, they wouldn't come to Teacher Lin."

"Teacher Lin's request is right, Jiang is still an old spicy [dog head]"

"I also want to see what is going on with this child."

"Didn't his mother just say that this kid is depressed?"

"Depression? Isn't that possible to resist communication or something? ”

"Damn, wouldn't it be impossible to communicate with Teacher Lin in this way?"

"If that's the case, how should the matter be resolved??"

“……”

Outside the live broadcast room.

Facing Lin Feng's request, Zhao Zhixing and his wife glanced at each other with embarrassed expressions.

"What can I do?"

Zhang Liufang whispered to her husband:

"Shengrui, this child, has been nesting in his room, no matter how we knock on the door, we won't answer, now go and call him, can he open the door?"

Why didn't Zhao Zhixing know about this situation?

The connection was still something he told his children by sending messages.

But until now, the child has neither replied nor had the intention of coming out, and he is also helpless.

Therefore, in the face of his wife's words, he was a little anxious, and after turning around in place a few times, he gritted his teeth and said:

"It is said that it is difficult for a good woman to cook without rice, Sheng Rui does not cooperate, and Mr. Lin can't save my family even if he is a Daluo immortal."

When Zhang Liufang heard her husband's words, the entanglement in her heart was slowly let go:

"Also, the opportunity is right in front of you, you can't try it or not, right? So let's go knock on the door together? ”

"One by one, shall we? Give some room for relaxation. ”

"Okay, I'll knock first."

After the two made up their minds, they walked to the door of Zhao Shengrui's bedroom with apprehension.

Then, Zhang Liufang raised her hand and knocked lightly.

"Knock knock~"

A knock on the door echoed through the room.

Zhao Shengrui was half-lying on the bed, listening to this voice, and then looking at the mobile phone in his hand that was playing the live broadcast, his mood was very complicated.

At first, he felt very uncomfortable when he heard his parents speak, or what they said for themselves.

Then, when I saw the barrage area in the live broadcast room, many netizens were identifying with their parents, and they felt so stressed that they couldn't breathe.

At that time, Zhao Shengrui's chest rose and fell violently, and he only felt that he couldn't communicate with his parents in this situation.

It wasn't until Lin Feng gently said his guess and firmly asked to talk to him to understand the situation that he felt a lot easier breathing.

Because, what Lin Feng's words revealed was respect for himself.

This feeling was something he had never felt in his parents, and a hot current rose in his heart at the moment, and he experienced the warmth and emotion that he had not felt for a long time.

After thinking about it, Zhao Shengrui finally turned over and got out of bed, tidied up his clothes, and gently opened the door.

At this moment, the person who knocked on the door had been replaced by Zhao Zhixing, his hand still hanging in the air, ready to knock on the door for the second time.

Coldly watching the door open suddenly, his first reaction was a little surprised.

Of course, Zhang Liufang also opened her mouth in surprise.

This door has not been knocked on by the couple for a long time......

Then, the hearts of the two of them swelled with joy at the same time-

Shengrui, the child, is unwilling to communicate with them as parents, and the two of them don't care.

Anyway, things have developed to this point, and they feel that they can bear it.

However, at the moment, the child is willing to communicate with Mr. Lin, which is the hope of the family, and maybe the problem can be solved.

Thinking about it like this, Zhang Liufang handed the mobile phone to his son:

"Son, Mr. Lin wants to talk to you."

At this moment, the audience in the live broadcast room finally saw Zhao Shengrui's true face of Lushan.

The hair is yellowish, and the exposed skin is sallow and dull.

Dark circles and bags under the eyes hung on the face, and the cheeks were already sunken......

The whole person is also listless, and at first glance it is severely malnourished.

"Oh my God! This kid is like a skeleton! ”

"That's when I intuitively felt what anorexia meant."

"I just watched a documentary about depression, and the image of this child is similar to the patient in it."

"It turns out that depression is like this, it's so scary, it's so distressing."

"If you keep being depressed, something will happen!"

"Teacher Lin, save this child, it's so pitiful."

"I hope Mr. Lin can find a way to save him, otherwise it will be really troublesome."

“……”

And Lin Feng was also shocked by Zhao Shengrui's image.

Don't mention it when you're thin, what's worse is that there is no trace of yearning and expectation for the future in this child's eyes.

"School boredom, anorexia, depression ......"

Lin Feng sighed softly.

These things are pressed on this child's body, and it has reached the extreme point that he can bear!

Something had to be done to save this poor child.

Just when Lin Feng was thinking about how to open the child's heart and have a good chat with him, Zhao Shengrui took the initiative to speak:

"Teacher Lin, I want to talk to you alone, is it okay?"

While speaking, Zhao Shengrui did not go to see his parents.

In other words, from the time he opened the door to the present, he has zero interaction with his parents, and there is no eye contact.

Coupled with the request put forward by Zhao Shengrui now, the audience in the live broadcast room suddenly understood.

Clearly rejecting parents!

"Why would you go out of your way to avoid parents?"

"This request is unexpected, but it seems reasonable??"

“？？ What happened in this family? Why is this situation happening? ”

"I feel that these parents actually care about their children, but the behavior of children avoiding them is very interesting!"

"That's right, what is the reason for the child to do this?"

"It depends on whether Teacher Lin can open the child's heart!"

“……”

Outside the live broadcast room, Zhao Shengrui's parents looked at their children in surprise.

They knew that their son didn't want to communicate with him, otherwise he wouldn't lock himself up.

However, now they are connecting with Mr. Lin, and in their imagination, it is right for the family to talk to Mr. Lin together.

However, they didn't count these things, so the two of them turned their attention to Lin Feng for help.

"Teacher Lin, ...... this??"

Lin Feng looked at the child and knew in his heart that if he could make such a request, it seemed that the parents really had a big problem.

The lesson of family education is really a long way to go.

So, Lin Feng said directly:

"Sheng Rui, you can take your phone back to the room, and we'll talk slowly."

Since Lin Feng had spoken like this, Zhao Shengrui took his mobile phone, turned around and closed the door again.

Outside the door, Zhang Liufang and Zhao Zhixing glanced at each other helplessly, and then returned to the living room.

At this time, Zhao Zhixing had an idea and hurriedly turned on the TV.

Although the child refuses to speak in front of him, it is always okay to watch the live broadcast, right?

in the picture.

Lin Feng smiled at Zhao Shengrui and said kindly:

"Sheng Rui, if you have anything you want to say, you can tell the teacher, you say, I'll listen."

Lin Feng is also familiar with educational psychology, and knows that in the face of depressed children, he is most taboo about his own talking.

At this moment, it is best to be a quiet listener and guide your child to speak his or her heart.

Sure enough, Lin Feng's gentle attitude and understanding words moved Zhao Shengrui's heart even more.

He thought for a moment, and then slowly spoke:

"Teacher Lin, I actually feel very sad because my parents often compare me with other people's children."

"No matter what I do or how good I do, they always have a friend's child, a colleague's child, or even a child in the news report popping up to show that my achievements are nothing."

"I'm really uncomfortable!"

As soon as he opened his mouth, Zhao Shengrui choked up.

For him, it was a deep scar in his heart.

Lin Feng looked at Zhao Shengrui distressedly, and said understandingly:

"I know you're uncomfortable, cry if you want to."

For depressed children, when the mood comes up, it is better to be blocked, it is better to be sparse.

Zhao Shengrui shed tears for a while before continuing to speak:

"Actually, I've told my parents about this, but they always have their own reasons."

"It is said that there must be my teacher in the threesome, and letting others set an example for me is to inspire me to keep following in the footsteps of others and work hard."

When Zhao Shengrui said this, the tears in his eyes became even more uncontrollable, and they fell one after another.

"Teacher Lin, I'm so tired and uncomfortable."

"When I get up with my academic performance, they don't mention their academic performance, they want to mention social activities, and when I catch up with social aspects, they will take out housework and honor their parents to talk about things......"

When Zhao Shengrui couldn't cry, his parents sat in the living room, watching the live broadcast, with a look of incomprehension.

"This kid's psychological capacity is really not good."

Zhang Liufang shook her head and sighed:

"Other people's families say that mothers are more defeated, but our family doesn't exist, we are very strict with him, why is the ability to resist pressure so weak?"

Listening to his wife's doubts, Zhao Zhixing replied helplessly:

"Maybe the living conditions are too good, and there is a lack of exercise in this area, if this child is like us back then, he will definitely not be like this."

Zhang Liufang nodded, looked at her son in the picture, and said to herself:

"Son, we are parents to inspire you, and you will understand when you grow up."

Zhao Zhixing nodded, with a look of approval.

Just because children don't understand their way of education doesn't mean they're wrong.

If it weren't for their encouragement, would his grades have been so good? How much can a friend have?

It's a pity that this kid has poor ability to resist pressure, and he didn't catch anything in the end!

Just when they sighed for a long time, the audience in the live broadcast room empathized with Zhao Shengrui fiercely.

", I'm the most annoying to other people's children!"

"This kind of motivation is like a childhood nightmare of mine, and the memories of death are starting to attack me."

"You look at others and learn better than you; You look at others, they have won awards for playing the piano; If you look at others, they all know to help mom and dad work; You look at others, how sensible; Look at others, be more obedient; You look at others, you are never called a parent......"

"Don't talk about it, it smells like that! There are really a lot of parents with the same style! ”

"Ever since I was a child, I've always wanted to know who 'someone else's child' really is, and I promise not to kill him [Anger]"

"I can empathize with Zhao Shengrui, it's really forced."

"In this way, I can kind of know what is wrong with this family."

"It's worthy of Mr. Lin, who can detect it without a heart-to-heart conversation with Zhao Shengrui?!"

"Teacher Lin is still careful, and if he doesn't talk about this with the child, he really can't figure out what the crux is."

"In the area of education, it still depends on Mr. Lin."

“……”

And Lin Feng, after listening to Zhao Shengrui's description, sighed lightly.

Love is enough to hurt it.

Improper parental love can really ruin a child.

Looking at Zhao Shengrui, who was overwhelmed in front of him, Lin Feng opened his mouth to reassure:

"Shengrui, the teacher can understand your fatigue and hard work, and also understand the fear in your heart."

"In your upbringing, whether you're doing well or badly, the feedback you get is negative."

"Other people's children are like a spell, they are all better than you, all of them are the envy of your parents, and all of them help your parents criticize you for not being competitive and talented."

"You are driven by your parents all the way to chase the other person who is better than you, but, more than one, there is another, and the other person is always ahead of you, as your example, against your incompetence ......"

With Lin Feng's words, Zhao Shengrui gradually calmed down, because every word of Lin Feng spoke to his heart.

Even if he keeps saying that he is so tired and difficult.

But Mr. Lin actually saw the fear in his heart!

That's right, he's also afraid, afraid that he's really the one who's a loser who's good for nothing......

At this moment, Zhao Shengrui's eyes were full of indescribable admiration when he looked at Lin Feng.

Mr. Lin, you really understand yourself!

And at this time, Lin Feng's affirmative voice sounded:

"However, the teacher does not think that you are incompetent!"

"In the hearts of teachers, every child is unique!"

"Shengrui, you are you, you don't need to compare with others."

When the words fell, Zhao Shengrui's tears burst out of his eyes again!

"I am who I am, a unique ...... that doesn't need to be compared to others"

At this moment, Zhao Shengrui's eyes finally shone brightly.

In front of the TV, Zhao Shengrui's parents saw their child's reaction, and they had reversed their attitude just now and fell into thought.

Mr. Lin can impress the child Sheng Rui with one sentence, which shows that what he said is very reasonable!

Think again.

They always use other people's children to motivate them.

This kind of thing, from the perspective of parents, sees that it is an example.

But from a child's point of view, no matter how hard you try, you can't catch up with others......

At this moment, Zhang Liufang bit her lip and said with some embarrassment:

"Lao Zhao, we seem to have done something bad with good intentions?"

Zhao Zhixing thought for a moment and did not speak.

Because he didn't know what he should say, and he didn't know what he should do.

If you don't use other people's children to motivate Shengrui, then let it go?

That's not right!

At this time, in the picture, Lin Feng's indifferent voice came out:

"Sheng Rui, your question teacher choice is clear."

"Don't worry, the teacher has a way to help you."

"Now, please take out your phone and give it to your parents!"

When the words fell, Zhao Shengrui was stunned, and his tear-stained little face was full of dazed and uneasy.

Teacher Lin already knows what to do?

Doesn't that mean I'm going to take the initiative to find my parents right now?

Did they just hear what I said?

What should I do now?

Also, will parents listen to Mr. Lin?

(End of chapter)