216 All-out General Battle
"Well, it seems that I really should improve, but I don't think I should reject people today, after all, she has no relatives and no reason here, and besides, people still treat me as a friend."
"Who said she had no relatives and no reason?
"Huh? What do you mean, doesn't she have no relatives and friends here? β
Now it's my turn to be weird.
"Didn't Yu You come here alone?"
"Who said it, she hasn't been abroad, she used to live here, but because her family was gone, she felt that she had no nostalgia here, so I sent her and the child abroad. She also has her own friends here. β
"Then why didn't you say it earlier, I thought she was abroad all along. In that case, we can't rest assured, and we think that she is not familiar with this life alone. β
"You're so naΓ―ve, why aren't you enlightened at all, it's okay to ask more about things and then make plans. Let you run with you for one more day, and you should have a long memory. β
"Why do you say that, how dare I ask so much, and besides, you didn't tell me anything about her. Look at you now, you guys are better now, now the old love and the new love get along together, you should feel very happy, right, why do you keep talking about me this and that. β
"What an old love and a new love, our relationship is not what you think."
Ouyang Jin said and lay down. One. Root. Read. , not going to continue with me.
"So what's your relationship?"
Actually, I also said that it doesn't matter why he would give birth to a child if it doesn't matter, but I'm afraid that I will upset him by saying it, so it's better not to say it.
"We are just ordinary friends, but one day we both got drunk by accident, and then we had a relationship, and then she got pregnant, and then she gave birth to a child without telling me, and I took care of them for so many years out of responsibility for the child, and this is the kind of relationship, we are not at all as you fear."
Well, I'm relieved to say that, and I understand. Ouyang Jin has only responsibility for her.
However, I can see that Yu You is now very fascinated by Ouyang Jin. I don't know if Ouyang Jin knows.
"Alright then, I see." I stood up and walked over as I spoke, lifted the quilt and sat in, wanting to say but not daring to say it.
"What's wrong with you, is there anything else you want to say and ask, I'll answer it to you."
Ouyang Jin knows myself better than I do.
"That, that's," I swallowed, "that is, I think after all, you have lived together for so long, people have feelings, even for the sake of the children, you have to gradually improve your relationship, although you have been telling me that you are only responsible for her, but I feel that Yu You is very attached to you, and admires you very much, you know that she actually likes you, right?" β
Ouyang Jin listened to me, sighed, looked at me very seriously, and then quietly held my hand.
"How to say it, like you said, people have feelings, in fact, I also thought about being together for the sake of the child, but then I slowly found that I was really not suitable for her, I was in need of a quiet person, and she was very enthusiastic, even enthusiastic to the extreme, we have many places that are not suitable. So there's a reason why I don't go there very often. I also understand her thoughts about me, but I keep hinting at her or showing my attitude with behavior, but she never gives up, so this is also something that I have always had a headache for. β
"Oh, I see," I nodded, "and you're telling me not to be overzealous in the future, are you telling me to be more obedient?" β
I said, leaning over and leaning on his shoulder flatteringly.
"Yes, so don't think about it in the future, it's useless to think about it. I have already identified you, I chose you to live together, and you will not be swayed by others, if you have a feeling of uncertainty or other uncertainty, it is my fault, I am not good enough, so you feel uneasy. β
"It's not." I changed my comfortable position and felt very happy, "I feel very happy now, it's because I think too much." What I've been thinking about all along, since you've had that kind of relationship and had children before, you can't be too ruthless. When I saw her alone, I felt so sorry for her, as if I had snatched you away from her, and I felt so guilty. β
"I belong to myself, and I don't belong to anyone, don't you know like this." Ouyang Jin said and sat up straight, and looked at me very seriously, "I tell you, you can't have such thoughts anymore, your words make me feel even more wrong, as if I not only ruthlessly abandoned my child's mother, but also let an innocent woman atone for me." Can't you want to know like that, it's not anyone's fault, it's not something that makes up for it, feelings are sometimes very selfish things, it's not like you want to do what you want. β
"Is that so?"
"Yes, people are selfish, especially in the face of feelings. We can say that we are responsible for ourselves, although sometimes we may need to wronged ourselves for the sake of the overall situation, but when there is an opportunity to fulfill ourselves, we will still seize the opportunity as much as possible. So, don't be so stupid, it's not your fault, it's not my fault, it's not anyone's fault, it's just that life has played a big joke on us. β
As I listened, my heart gradually calmed down.
Maybe that's the case, like Ouyang Jin said, we are all selfish, especially in the emotional paint, as he said, it is better to say that we respect our own hearts and our own ideas. Ouyang and I identified each other, and then worked hard for this purpose, the things in the middle could not affect us, no matter how much happened, we still chose to be together as always, and decided to get married.
"So, don't think about it, it's none of your business, you can wait to be a bride with peace of mind."
Today is the last day before the wedding, Ouyang Jin brought his mother and let our two families meet together.
I was nervous, after all, it was the first time I had brought my own family to meet with each other's family.
"Look at you, why are you so nervous?" Xu Wei said, brought me a cup of boiling water, and sat down beside me.
"Do I look nervous?" I touched my face and my heart began to feel uneasy.
I don't know why, although I have met Ouyang Jin's mother before, and she is very good to me, but when I think of the official meeting between the parents of both sides today, I feel very nervous.
"Don't be nervous, look at you, your face is pale, is Ouyang Jin's mother so scared, haven't you seen it before, as for it?"
"Oh, you don't understand, it was different before." I hit her, "It was an acquaintance before, but now it's a very formal meeting, in case I don't do well and I don't say anything, isn't that a discredit to my father and you?" β
"How can it be as serious as you say, and it's not the old society, don't worry, Ouyang Jin is so good to you, and his mother is not far behind."
This was about the same time, and I was relieved to hear it. Ouyang Jin's mother was really good to me, and she said last time that she would help me find a doctor for treatment.
"Well, okay then, I'm not nervous, then look at the clothes I'm wearing today, don't make people feel bad."
"You look good without clothes, what are you afraid of."
What is like a comforting thing to say this?
With this in mind, there was a gentle knock on the door of the private room, and as soon as we were done, the door opened.
Ouyang Jin came in with his mother in his arms. At first glance, I felt that this old lady was really temperamental, very aura, wearing a dark color, lambskin boots, black pants, and a fur jacket to show that she was very energetic and noble.
"I'm sorry everyone, we're late, so you've been waiting for a long time."
She clasped her hands together as soon as she entered, sorry.
We all stood up and greeted each other politely.
"Oh, you're so polite, in-laws, we just arrived, just arrived." My father was very polite, and said as he walked over, reaching over to shake hands with her, "It is said that the old lady of the Ouyang family is deeply hidden and has lived in seclusion for many years. β
"Boss Xu, you are too awarded, I am an old woman, but I didn't expect that when it came, we would become in-laws, and you would look up to me as a son."
"Look at what you said, the tiger father has no dogs, Brother Ouyang is dominant, and his son naturally does not lose to his son-in-law, I can have such a son-in-law, it is really my blessing."
"Boss Xu is really polite, your daughters are all smart and capable, talented and beautiful, I still envy your life, the three daughters are more beautiful than the other, what else are you not satisfied with?"
"This is true, I am most proud of these girls in my life, so the most important thing is their marriage, and now I have a son-in-law like Ouyang Jin, and I am naturally happy and happy. So today, I specially invited you, an old friend, to take this opportunity to meet and chat, which can be regarded as an old friend. β
"Yes, Boss Xu, your business is big now, and your life is so wishful, looking at these girls of yours one by one, I regret more and more why I didn't have more than you when I was young."
After Ouyang Jin's mother said this, we all laughed. She is very good at laughing and adjusting the atmosphere.
"Oh, there are joys and sorrows, what you see is only my glamorous side, I don't know the side behind me, but what, since we got together today, we only talk about happy things, so I won't talk about anything in the past, and I will only talk about happy things in the future, and I wish these two children a long time and grow old."
My dad said, holding his glass, and everyone had a drink together.
"Yes, as long as the children are doing well, then we have nothing to worry about as adults. So Xingzhu, if Ouyang Jin bullies you in the future, or if there is anything that makes you unhappy, you must tell us, and we will teach him a good lesson. β
Ouyang Jin's mother joked like this, and the whole table laughed, and I was embarrassed to want to go down the table.