I wondered, should I apologize?

But the mood of the people has calmed down, and if I go to apologize again, it is just to hit the muzzle of the gun, and people are afraid that they will have to be irritated again.

I'm still afraid that if I give a humility to the feelings, what can I do if the feelings between men and women are revealed. Of course, this is too vain, but this kind of false possibility often appears in my mind, in the end, I am not right, a bit of a hooligan.

I saw that the People's Daily said

"Learn to turn the page."

I'll persuade

"Eh, don't get entangled, don't be sad, learn to turn the page, what's the matter, won't you just write your name in the future?"

"It's not enough not to write your name, isn't it okay if I don't write it when I cut off my hand in the future?"

If I send an apology like this, people will not reply for a long time when they see it, and if I send another message to the past, it is estimated that there will be a small exclamation mark in the chat box.

So how can I apologize?

"I'm sorry, but I did ignore other people's opinions and influences on you. I didn't realize it before, and there were some words that said it was my fault, but now I understand that it was my mistake, and it really shouldn't be like that, and then I made you unhappy, I'm really sorry. This is the last message sent to you, so I won't bother you in the future, and I wish you a happy future. ”

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It's too sensible to write like this, and the parties have to buckle the soles of their shoes after reading them, so where is the problem?

I guess the problem is that the wrongdoer is not aware of the victim's mind.

And even if I learned about it later, I still couldn't do it, and then I chattered and persuaded people to want to open it.

It's not owing, it's not hubris, what's it?

Yes, so how can you make the person smile and be released?

I think there are two ways, one is that the time fades, but in the end it will leave a bad impression.

The other is that the misunderstanding has been resolved, and I think the victim does not realize that the wrongdoer has realized that he has made a mistake, and the wrongdoer does not realize what to do to make the victim feel that he has received the punishment he deserves. If the two are connected, I don't think there's a problem.

Of course, there is a very large, almost 95.25 percent possibility that these things, the so-called people are still angry and heartbroken, are all fantasies of me, and I always make myself amorous.

But there's nothing wrong with being sentimental, it's better than not being aware of others at all and making people feel self-righteous.

Obviously I haven't apologized yet, but the person who made the mistake has already healed himself, and the apology has two purposes, one is to make himself feel better, and the other is to make others feel better.

Now that I'm almost feeling better, I suddenly don't want to care about other people's thoughts.

But it can't be like this, this is too irresponsible, will it make her think that I am like a little mother-in-law after apologizing, and it is better to prevent problems before they happen, in case people can't think about it? Compared to this, it's a p to lose face, so I'm going to apologize!

But I haven't thought about how to apologize, so I still wait until I think about it at 2.00 in the middle of the night to send it to others, which can also cause a kind of guilt that I can't sleep because of this incident, and then I can't stand the mental blow and finally apologize and try to be forgiven.

The probability of being forgiven and moving the person concerned is high.