I slumped in my chair and asked Bofei

I said that people are so tired and tormented to live

I said I always come to your dorm and say that, will you hate me?

It's not good, it's spreading negativity

So I said, oh, I'm cool today, it's not good, are you cool today?

Bofei looked at me and narrowed his lips, smiled, and didn't speak.

After a while, he said

You are a reflective person

I said no, I thought about it almost all the time

There is no benefit to thinking too much

I coughed

I asked

What are you doing in your free time? What are you doing when you're not playing with your phone, reading a book, or looking at your computer?

He said

It's just cranky

I said that it doesn't seem like me, it's like everybody, and everyone spends their free time thinking nonsense

Someone told me before that she didn't think about anything in her spare time, and I thought I was the only one who was always thinking about it, and it turned out that people who didn't think about anything were in the minority.

So I asked

Do you sometimes think so much that you end up with a big gap between the conclusion in your mind and reality?

He looked at me and thought for a moment

big

I say big, yes? I think there is a big difference between the results of my thinking and the reality.

He squinted again, his neck stretched forward, and thought for a moment

But it's not all the time

I asked, is there a high probability of a large difference, or is there a high probability of a small difference?

He sighed and smiled

Most of the time it's very different.

Since I'm big, I'm relieved, and I think about the final result, which is quite different from reality.

Think less, do more, get along with friends more, live more in reality, and it's not good to be alone more.

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