Zhihu replied to the previous article

Love is the process of mutual absorption of values, one party is attracted by the characteristics of the other party, when this value is absorbed, or when there is nothing to squeeze, it will naturally feel boring and impatient to leave.

People are all incomplete, attracted to what they lack, and it is not people who attract them, but qualities, and what is this quality?

I think it's fragile, it's quiet, it's warm, it's gentle, it's dignified.

The so-called cherishing and respect are the products of the moral system, the ego stands at the top, comforts itself, and condemns the other. A person's morality is not morality.

Because what I lack is not a specific person, what I lack is this kind of quality, and so on, I can fall in love with a thousand women.

But it's just these qualities.

Not only love, friendship is also the same, pinning on what they lack with others, then this is a casino where value is drawn from each other.

So what are you still struggling with, get up and find my scarcity, self-enrichment, self-possession of my scarcity, let me be absolutely free.

Throw out my regrets, indignation, and helplessness.

I went to get what I lacked.

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