The only obstacle

"Do you know what the only obstacle to people is? It's the communication barrier. ”

I was about to go to get a haircut, but I met the squad leader on the way, pretended not to see me, glanced at me, and went into a pavilion with her best friend

I looked up, something

Fashion - Beauty -

Girls love to do these things.

The guy who got the haircut is from the Northeast, I don't know why, could it be that I learned to listen, he also said

"Today is a leak in the chatterbox, and I have never said these heart-wrenching words."

The first sentence of this chapter begins with him sighing as he curls my hair.

I originally thought, graduate student, try my curly hair, but today I was arranged by this big brother. It turned out to look like Maitreya Buddha, but because of his dark complexion, he looked more like a chieftain.

Sure enough, it didn't end up being true.

"Usually playing games?"

He asked

"Don't play"

"Do you usually watch Kuaishou?"

"Don't look"

"Oh, then you're watching Tik Tok"

"Don't look"

"Ah——?h In the mirror, the little brother's brows were twisted into pimples.

I think there's something strange about this, don't you know this thing at station B? Why don't you ask me station B?

A piece of paper, palm-sized, rectangular, rolled into the middle of hair and bar-like barbed plastic. While rolling, the little brother said again.

"Then all your time is studying"

I think my little brother must have been very popular with girls when he went to school, and that's so good to say, even if I was

"Hmm"

"Hmm"

"Hmm"

"Wow—really?"

"That's amazing—"

He also gushed endlessly.

Continuing from the previous question, I said

"Will go to the gym."

"Huh?"

"Fitness—"

"What did you say, handsome guy?"

He put his neck over and his ears to me

"Usually—I will go—fitness"

"Oh oh oh oh oh"

Suddenly he stood up

"You're a sunny big boy"

"My heart is as dark as my complexion—"

I answered immediately.

"What do you say, handsome guy?"

...

Repeated three times, he roared and laughed awkwardly

"No, you're not dark, I see light in your eyes—"

I think of my former high school roommates

"Your eyes are bigger than mine, but you don't have the light in my eyes"

We called him Xu Shen, who looked like a panda, with eyes that were flatter than me, double eyelids, and through glasses, I could see stars coming out of my pupils.

Before walking on the road, someone said

"I feel like your eyes are exuding a kind of exhaustion"

If one person says this, it is prejudice, everyone says so, and the subjective ones together are objective.

The eldest brother's smile is not embarrassing, but it is against his will.

"I used to have a friend who was depressed and had to use tranquilizers for a while, but he couldn't get out of his own world, and he was able to recover, and I have half of the credit"

"It's just that for a year and a half, I was by his side, that is, nothing, no big deal"

"I studied psychology before - I felt like reading that book was going to make me depressed"

"People just want to communicate, emotions are hidden in the heart and don't say it, no one knows, so you will hold back the internal injuries to yourself, and the internal injuries will affect your work"

"In fact, people just can't get along with themselves, no one can't get along with you, it's yourself and yourself, you have to learn to let go"

"Man is a slave to money and material things, and desire makes people so miserable"

"It's just that sometimes you can't be anxious, it doesn't matter, but it's fine, the more anxious you are, the more you can't see things as they are-"

"Seeing flowers in the fog," I interrupted

"Ah yes, it's just seeing flowers in the fog"

"Look at the flowers in the fog, tsk, you say this word well"

"You still have to cultivate yourself, are you still afraid that her butterflies won't fly over?"

Speaking earnestly, he sighed.

Everybody says so, as if I made my career bigger and built a garden just to wait for the butterflies to fly over, and there is nothing more pleasant to pursue than roses?

Without that kind of wisdom, you can't experience it now, but when you make something for the collective, it's a lot more enjoyable.

"Hey, it's just that you know what to do, don't ask about the future-"

"Hmm"

I've always felt that the words "but do good deeds, don't ask about the future" are too hypocritical, don't care what the result is, just do it in a down-to-earth manner.

It seems to be true, but this is just a statement that I am relieved that I "don't care" after being frustrated.

If you want me to say, if you don't reach the heart of the Yellow River, you won't die, and you won't stop until you reach your goal, this is the posture that a strong man should have.

Or maybe you don't let go of your roots.