Chapter 43 Understanding Others Leads to a Better Self
Qu Junru, who returned to Laizhou and was preparing for the summer vacation, felt that he had never had such a relaxed moment.
Perhaps, because Wang Xinyu entered his own world, he felt that she was very noisy, and he also felt that through his contact with her during that time, he couldn't tell what kind of feelings he had for her.
He was confused, and deliberately called Master early in the morning of the third day of the summer vacation and told him what he was currently encountering.
Teacher Hou told him: "Junru, you must always maintain a humble attitude towards anyone, they are not individual individuals, they are flesh and blood and souls, so no matter what others think of you, you must be polite and polite to them." Self-confidence, courage and the way of life that is not afraid of trouble, this is the way you should go! ”
Qu Junru didn't understand the meaning behind Master's words, and then played poker with his sister Li Hang for a while, and then had dinner together before leaving Master's house. At this time, it was already more than nine o'clock in the evening. When he returned home, he couldn't sleep, and the cold and cough caused by the wind blowing on the street at night made him feel very uncomfortable.
Qu Junru lay on the bed and thought about a lot of things.
Thinking about the day I first met Wang Xinyu and Sun Meng, what are the differences and similarities between them, why do I subconsciously like Wang Xinyu as Sun Meng's shadow?
Thinking about the day of graduation, he followed Sun Meng to her family art garden community, and thought about the experience that the two of them hadn't seen each other for nearly six years after graduating from elementary school. He didn't know where Sun Meng had spent the past six years, he only knew that he was in the strange city of Weifang, and the reason why he insisted on going to school was to grow himself very strong, so that he would have enough capital to come to Sun Meng.
This road is destined to be carried by Qu Junru alone, and I hope Sun Meng can wait a few more years. He walks very slowly, and now he has to use Fei's trajectory to find her, before coming to Weifang to go to college, Qu Junru's heart was still hesitating, should he step into the real society so quickly?
The realistic version of the step by step was terrifying, which made Qu Junru think later, if the end was Sun Meng, then he really didn't mind flying in front of her with all his strength!
What Qu Junru can give Sun Meng is the life that can spoil her until she grows old, and the future where the two of them will work together.
Her family and her own family are the targets of Qu Junru and Sun Meng's filial piety. The word love, Qu Junru has studied it for ten years since the day he met Sun Meng. Later, he understood that it was tolerance and warmth. When Qu Junru finds Sun Meng again, he will definitely tell her about his experience over the years. As for what happened when she was a child, after Sun Meng married Qu Junru, let his mother tell her, right?!
"Growing up" is a lonely two words that are not even on the side, in the first year of studying in the field, Qu Junru suddenly understood, it turned out that growing up was the process of breaking off the arrogant wings he once had, and then growing new wings, he named the new wings - transformation.
From a gentleman to a college student who lives a very transparent life, a year has really made him suffer too much and shed too many bitter tears. Qu Junru didn't think about it, and regressed back to his hometown, but because of the help of nobles halfway, he had this transformation!
No one knew that one night in this year, Qu Junru really packed all his luggage, and then prepared to go to the station early in the morning to escape the city of Weifang.
Qu Junru's heart is very strong, and he doesn't disdain to associate with anyone, he thinks that he is Sima Yi in the world, and after being rejected more than a hundred times in love, he feels that his relationship is not suitable for his own development, and he should go to his own place to make a big difference. But he saw Zhao Kuo's story, and for the first time in his life, he let go of the arrogance that he relied on to become famous, and bowed his head to real life. If Qu Junru wants to achieve a career, then temporarily lower his temper and ability, and only by learning how to deal with all things in society can he become a real overlord!
Before he stepped on the university campus, a friend in Chengdu, Sister Ting, said to him: "The weak always like to huddle together for warmth, and the strong will only go to the meeting alone." ”
At that time, Qu Junru was stubborn, and didn't he think that wolves and lions were also strong people who huddled together for warmth? Later, Sister Ting chuckled and said that let Qu Junru try to experience college life by herself. As a result, it took Qu Junru a year, from hundreds of brothers to dozens of friends, and finally less than ten friends now, before he realized that after stepping into the university campus, he stepped into society with one foot.
Society, this thing is much more cruel than Qu Junru imagined, and he only figured out his previous behavior and thoughts after he had less than ten friends left, which was too naïve. Once the wolves are hungry, they will kill each other for a piece of meat, and the lions will sacrifice their families when they are hungry. In this society, Qu Junru once thought it was warm, but reality taught him many ways to protect himself.
It is said that "one thing descends one thing", when Da Rongrong did not come to this world, Qu Junru also had no one in his eyes, and he had to intrigue with his brothers and sisters in society at every turn. Later, during a summer vacation, "she" came to this world, and Qu Junru was stunned to find that a small life can be so cute, from not taking care of her to change diapers and not knowing how to hold the child, to changing diapers without pressure and holding children, which really changed Qu Junru's original character.
The birth of his niece and daughter made Qu Junru realize the wonder of life, and also made good preparations for how to take care of his son Mingxuan and his daughter Yayin after he became a father in the future. At that time, Da Rongrong should also be a big sister, and suddenly I want all this to come true as soon as possible.
When proposing, Qu Junru should say to Sun Meng in a high-profile situation: "If I can only do two things in my relationship in this life, love you and don't let go of your hand, would you like to go with me?" ”
I hope Sun Meng's answer will not disappoint Qu Junru.
His desire to protect Sun Meng is expressed in one of his favorite poems-the general dies as a confidant, and he lifts his sword out of Yanjing.
Qu Junru wrote an ancient novel two months ago, before he had a falling out with Wang Xinyu. The story in it is that he and Sun Meng, if they can travel back to ancient times, every time Sun Meng has an accident, no matter where Qu Junru is, what he is doing, or who he is talking to, he will definitely raise his sword to destroy all the people who hurt Sun Meng. No matter how good the opponent is, there must be no Qu Junru and no bull.
Time flies quickly, from summer vacation to Chinese New Year's Eve in a blink of an eye.
In the evening, Qu Junru chatted with a friend of the opposite sex from Nanjing. She said that her boyfriend had never sent her any other messages today except for "Happy New Year's Day". It's really good, there are still people who send her "Happy New Year's Day", Qu Junru doesn't know who to send these four words now. It's been a terrible year, and my love life has been very bumpy. There are Qu Junru's own problems, as well as the woman's problems, so you have to be kind to him next year. Even if your love life is a mess, please let Qu Junru get rich overnight. He really can't think of anything else worth working on for himself in the past few years besides this. and others, so they refuse to be ambiguous. Waiting for someone who may not be able to see in the future is also waiting for the girl who makes her heart die.
In 2024, will you come? Happy New Year's Eve!!
The really powerful people are the ones who recognize the truth of life and still love life.
A person who is truly worthy of respect is a person who has chosen his own path and has gone through thick and thin.
On this road to the future, we are all people who grit our teeth and persevere.
Qu Junru always wishes that he and all the people he cares about can move firmly towards the ideal life.
He wants to take Sun Meng to all romantic places, whether it is Chongqing, Chengdu, or France.
As long as Sun Meng needs it, then Qu Junru will definitely take you without saying a word!
Sun Meng, you must know that the adult world is not as simple as you think, and everyone contacts you in a tone of verbal kidnapping.
Qu Junru hates this kind of life very much, so he also asks himself: Is he too kind to fit into the circle of adults?
He is probably the most unadult-like adult, maybe it is the influence of the environment, maybe it is the things he has experienced this year, all kinds of good and happy, even if he really encounters great setbacks and difficulties, he doesn't take it to heart, and after seven seconds, he forgets it completely. Qu Junru himself is still very distressed, whether his obedient mentality is suitable for such a cruel society.
On the afternoon of New Year's Day, Qu Junru received a call from a friend from Weihai, Sister Xian.
The two talked a lot, and she asked Qu Junru a question: "Qu Junru, I just learned from your sister Ting that you have been playing with the feelings of a girl named Wang Xinyu for the past few months, and as your friend, I am very curious." Since you don't like this kind of little sister, what kind of girl do you really like? ”
Yes, what kind of girl should you like in your twenties? Qu Junru doesn't know himself, he only knows that the person he likes, he doesn't have to be too perfect, in fact, he is still interesting and careful and serious, and occasionally romance can make him feel cared for and can IQ online, it's very good~ ~ ~
Qu Junru is a little warm to be honest, he doesn't have much savings, no house or car, and his family background is not strong.
Whether he is in love, after marriage or when his lover is pregnant, Qu Junru can always love, love her, and care for her. At the same time, he also hopes that his lover will love him with all his might, until birth, old age, sickness and death!
In the final analysis, Qu Junru still likes the two years that Sun Meng was in the same class as him, it was a simple and carefree time, which made him miss it very much.
No matter how the world and society change, Qu Junru's original intention will not change because of anyone. He became bad to find Sun Meng, and becoming a good person was also to find Sun Meng, what has changed is only the outside, and the inside is still righteous and heroic.
I didn't know before, but now I know, it turns out that after leaving, the two people who should have been together really can't see each other.
Two days ago, Sister Ting called again and asked Qu Junru how she felt that she had gone to college in Weifang for a year this time, how were you doing?
Qu Junru only felt that there was something empty in his heart, it seemed that the impurities he had experienced before had been swept away, and he had more love for Sun Meng and the concept of not giving up.
Sister Ting then asked Qu Junru a question that made him think about it for two days and didn't answer it - "At that time, there must not be only one Sun Meng in your elementary school who is as beautiful, right?" Why do you love her so much? ”
Right! When I was in elementary school, there were many beautiful girls in the same grade, such as Wang Zhongqin, Sun Yijun and Suo Fangzhu.
When I was a child, I inexplicably liked to play with girls, so Qu Junru still remembers their names after many years, but none of them are called Sun Meng.
What is the reason why I like her? A lot of reasons can also be said to have no reason.
She really couldn't be regarded as a goddess at the time, she had average exam scores, and she didn't like to play with other children, so she liked to draw and sit in the classroom and draw some inexplicable accessories and small toys, and she had a natural talent for business. Later, Qu Junru really stepped into the literary circle, and only then did he know that a writer and a painter were a natural pair, and he was very ambitious about money, which happened to match her natural business mind. When you are together, you are invincible in the world, and when you are separated, you are the emperor!
Qu Junru thought about it, and after he stepped back, he wrote an urban romance novel that belonged to the two of them.
Do you know that an 18-year-old teenager has the feeling of a 34-year-old middle-aged mental age?
Qu Junru can't play with his peers, likes to witness the experience of a baby growing up, has an advanced idea with a superior brain, but is not tolerated by society, and he is not good at words and does not know how to communicate with strangers.
What the university or society taught him was only on the surface, and Qu Junru still didn't understand the real inside. He understood the knowledge and private goods that Lao Hu told him that day, but he only understood it.
Qu Junru's heart is still more resistant to communicating with strangers, just like he finally figured out his own way of communicating with the world, but suddenly let him get used to another way of social communication in another way, which is very uncomfortable. To be honest, Qu Junru came to Weifang to study, but his 80,000 cows were enough to choke back his self-esteem, and he didn't allow himself to fail at all. Even now, he is penniless, he still wants to figure out this set.
In the evening, she told Sister Ting about her thoughts, and she replied to Qu Junru and said, "I really have someone to tell you how to solve this idea." ”
Both of them are in the same literary circle, how can they not understand the meaning of these words?
Too mature leads to can't keep up with the pace of society, I want to be naïve and naïve, but I can't go back, it's really embarrassing, and if I accidentally think about it, my ideological realm will exceed what I think at the moment. Moreover, no one has yet been able to solve the ideological realm of Qu Junru, how to integrate with this society well.
People with high IQs are still used to getting along with people with high IQs. Lao Hu always said that I was pretentious, Qu Junru admitted that he was indeed pretentious, this is not bragging, he will not ask useless questions when he reads things again.
Let Qu Junru observe the words and colors and know whether the person is available or not, he can see at a glance who the other party is and whether it will be useful in the future. But if you let him study social theory, this thing is too deep, and Qu Junru needs time to analyze it. Moreover, with the same social process every day, Qu Junru can't figure out his temperament at all. This may also be that Qu Junru has not been out of the country for eighteen years, right? I don't know much about some things in society, but over time, I may be able to understand them.
Qu Junru has always had his own set of things in it, others can't see it, some say that he is a smiling tiger, one set in front of the person, and one set in the back.
But this is society, and it is also a world where the weak eat the strong, otherwise, it's no wonder that Qu Junru can survive, right?
A smile is not just a politeness, it contains a meaning that only a few people understand.
Successful people always like to show off their success, only losers will continue to improve, Qu Junru is still young, and he needs a lot of failures to enrich his future success.
No matter how treacherous Cao Cao is, he also has Xun Yu, Guo Saijiu, and Sima Yi to give him advice. Love and social life, even if Qu Junru will no longer deal with problems, there are Yang Ting, Xu Yi and Qu Kaihong to judge right and wrong and distinguish the direction for him. It doesn't matter who he is, it's important who the master behind him is. When you are young, it is a good thing to be stupid, and it is a blessing to suffer losses. Why don't you say, "It doesn't matter who you are, it's important who your friends are?"
Qu Junru is very grateful to have a high school friend who is an anti-fighter in the Osai class by his side, and the little girl is only a teenager, and she can say that he is a college student speechless. Qu Junru also admires others from the bottom of her heart, because she sees farther and understands more thoroughly than herself, so she has won Qu Junru's respect. Qu Junru has no capital, and the only one who can compete with others is "young". Then he will give full play to his youth, he will never be afraid of failure, and if he fails, he will continue until he succeeds!
The old man said that he was a person who didn't hit the south wall and didn't look back, so let's fight!
No matter how big the setback is this time, it is not enough to defeat Qu Junru! Qu Junru admires the song "The Ruffian Who Moved His Heart", the weak who moved his heart are more ruthless than the wolf!
He is indeed pretentious, but he has the strength to be pretentious.
Time is a good thing, it can prove that what Qu Junru said is a stepping stone to success.
Sun Meng, Qu Junru has loved you for twenty-four hours again. It's not easy, I've persevered for six years or I like you with my original intention!
Qu Junru wrote very happily today, and actually received a recommendation vote. He never thought that the novel he wrote would have this result, he couldn't sleep happily, and sure enough, the author has schizophrenia, and when he wrote the first book, he was already beginning to conceive the story of the second book.
Qu Junru never understands what the tastes of book friends are, so the writing is a bit complicated, and there are all kinds of factors - youth, resurrection, the return of the strong, demons and monsters, fairy fights, crossing, romance, fighting, ancient costumes, arrogance, arrogance, society, reality, sweetness, tearing ratio, hot-blooded, cold, funny, perverted, and distorted personality.
Qu Junru didn't dare to define what type of novel he had written before, so he could only wait for it to be liked by more book friends. But book friends seem to prefer Shuangwen, when he wrote his second novel, he opened a Douluo fandom, and within a few days, he had more than 50 collections. I've experienced so much along the way, and I can't remember how many people I've met. Thank you for meeting and thanking for parting. Success or failure is his own experience, and after the decadence, he still has to pick up and continue to face it. How far can you go alone, and how high can you go? Hard work will pay off, Qu Junru always believes in these words. Success takes a lot of hard work than ordinary people to create, so insist on persevering, as long as you can't die, fight to the death!
Society is really a good thing, it not only allows you to see the virtues of the people around you, but also makes you understand what you should do. With a grateful heart to the society, we will repay the cultivation of the country. Behind him is a bright avenue, and the future is dark. I'd rather die on the road of hard work than look back and enjoy a life of drunken dreams and death. The sun will eventually set and the moon will always rise. The sun does illuminate the world, and the moon does give off a faint light. Success doesn't always need warmth, and failure doesn't always need to be dark.
The theory of relativity is a thing that makes good use of glory and wealth, but it is not good to use it to bankrupt the family. The current post-00s or post-90s generation relies on their parents for their living standards, and they have become the "rich second generation" and "gentlemen" in the eyes of others. Qu Junru also had these people around him before, and later he saw a rich second generation with a low IQ, squandering his parents' reputation and money, so he felt that their generation could not be ruined in a comfortable life.
After that, Qu Junru resolutely chose to leave them, and he couldn't bear to watch his friends fall, so he planned to open his own company, and then cultivate their strengths by himself, turning them into the best talents in the company. I hope that in the future, their generation can become the best version of themselves.
The life of wearing a bow tie, wearing sunglasses, wearing a suit, small leather shoes, and driving a luxury car, Qu Junru doesn't believe that his friends don't like it. Therefore, we must wait for Qu Junru, he will take his brothers to work hard for the future, and then take the brothers to live the luxurious life of the senior management of the regular company!
If he can really become the president, then on the first day of the establishment of the head office, the first thing to do is to go to his cousin, and then to these friends around him who have strengths but have no place to develop.
When recruiting people in the head office, we will not post recruitment advertisements, and all talents who bring a certain economy to the company to a certain extent are used. Don't have a high degree of education! Because, they have no social experience. Although the long one is beautiful or handsome, but the character is not good, the temper is bad, don't be! A company needs the help of wealthy executives. Don't be cold! Companies need to be dynamic, not lifeless zombies.
Relatively speaking, there are not so many rules and regulations for branch recruitment, as long as there is no big problem that is too difficult to solve, even if the other party is a person who has been released from prison, as long as he seriously returns to the society, then Qu Junru will use it!
Whether it is the head office or the branch, the working hours are only six hours, come to the company at 10 o'clock in the morning, get off work at 12 o'clock, take a two-hour break in between, work from 3 o'clock to 5 o'clock in the afternoon, and allocate other time freely.
There can be fourteen days of vacation in a month, which can be accumulated. If you do not take leave in the current month or the next month, you can accumulate 28 consecutive days off in the next month, and so on.
Such a company is a good company that everyone dreams of, and it is also Qu Junru who accurately found the "pain point" of workers, all workers don't like to work for a long time, and they all want to have a salary to spend every day on vacation, since this is the case, then create a company like this!