Chapter 55: Stop fantasizing
A week later, Saturday.
At seven o'clock in the morning, Jiang Rui was going to Qingdao Fangte Dream Kingdom Amusement Park with her sister, and Qu Junru was still in college in Weifang.
Qu Junru just woke up and said "good morning", and the two chatted for a while.
Jiang Rui asked him if he would come to Fantawild to play together: "Smash, I'm going to Fantawild with my sister, will you come?" ”
Qu Junru had just finished washing up at this time, and he replied with two words.
"Not coming."
Jiang Rui sneered: "Come on, come on." ”
Qu Junru smiled helplessly, and replied to Jiang Rui: "Didn't you say it earlier, today is Saturday, I didn't ask for leave yesterday, and I can't go back to Laizhou today or tomorrow, let alone accompany you to Fangte." Have fun with your sister! ”
Jiang Rui felt that it was a pity that he couldn't play with his boyfriend: "Huh? What a pity. Then next time, I'll explore the way for you this time. ”
Qu Junru felt that Jiang Rui's method was also fine, and then he sent her some short video information he saw: "Well, people's joys and sorrows are not the same. I saw the hot search a few days ago and remembered a piece of news. At that time, a reporter went to the mountains to interview a single mother, in a dim and dilapidated house, a three-year-old child sat on a quilt, holding a bowl in his hand, the bowl was filled with instant noodles, the reporter said, you can't always give the child this, it will be undernourished. The mother was stunned for a moment and replied that she didn't always eat, but today was the child's birthday, and the child had wanted to eat for a long time. ”
Jiang Rui saw what he had posted, and quickly replied: "Huh? So pitiful, huh? ”
Qu Junru sent this to Jiang Rui, not to make her feel how difficult it is for a single mother in the mountains. Rather, I want her to understand that there are two kinds of lives in this world.
"There are many hardships in the world, but we are now relatively comfortable. So, if you can live a good life, don't choose to live that life. ”
Jiang Rui said that she understood the meaning of his words, and she was also a very caring girl: "Well, I know that I usually donate some materials to children in poor mountainous areas like my sister, and I can help or help." Smash, play or not? ”
Seeing that Jiang Rui was going to play a game with him, Qu Junru was immediately interested: "Okay, what game?" Rui Mama. ”
Jiang Rui told him the game: "You type a 'ghost' word, and then keep choosing the first word to see who is more interesting or funny." ”
Qu Junru asked rhetorically: "Okay, who will come first?" ”
Jiang Rui asked him to come first: "You come first, right?" ”
Qu Junru wanted to tease her, so he sent it: "The devil knows that you will be so ugly if you take off your makeup." ”
Jiang Rui was so angry with him that he was angry at once: "Smash! I'll beat you, this girl is more handsome than you even if she removes her makeup! ”
Qu Junru also knew that she was not really angry: "Hahaha, I know, I amuse you." ”
Jiang Rui wanted him to understand that some jokes can't be made casually: "Words are appreciation, not innocence, crying is venting and not weakness, I just use words to express what I think in my heart, and if I don't say some things, it doesn't mean I don't understand." I don't force a lot of people to like me and care about me. I know I'm not a celebrity to get hundreds of millions of fans to like me. Cheer us on ourselves, cheer for each other. ”
Qu Junru understood the meaning of Jiang Rui's words, and also said to Lucky Star in his own way: "Someone once asked me, do you want to get the lost things back?" I said that I had lost a button, and by the time I found it, I had already changed my clothes. Between people, there is no one who is inseparable from whom, only who does not cherish whom. Whether it's an old friend or a red face, one turn is two worlds. There is a person in your life who loves you, loves you, and cares about you, this is happiness. Ten thousand people chasing after it is better for one person to hurt; Ten thousand pets, it is better to understand one. In the world, not everyone can talk to each other from their hearts and lungs, all the people who pass by are the scenery, and the people who rub shoulders are all guests. ”
Jiang Rui really wants to be with him, so he will have the following words: "The most valuable thing about being a woman is "don't bully the poor youth". If you don't dislike the poverty of a man when he was young, and I am willing to accompany him through the hardest years of his life, such a woman must not miss it. And the most valuable thing about being a man is "don't be ugly when you're old". When he is old, the man is already brilliant, and the woman is exhausted of youth, and at this time, the suspect is old and ugly, and it is really a wolf's heart. Therefore, women know how to stay together, and men know how to be grateful, which is a lifetime. ”
Qu Junru is also really afraid of being abandoned by Jiang Rui: "I want to be a strong person, at least I don't hurt when I am abandoned." ”
Jiang Rui seems to understand Qu Junru's scruples, but she doesn't know much about love.
In order to make Qu Junru feel at ease, she consulted the old lady beside her. After her sister found out, she took her sister's number and sent a small essay to herself, a boy who is "not necessarily still not a brother-in-law".
"She said she's fine, she's fine, do you believe it? Are you stupid or not, how many things can she carry on her two-foot-wide shoulders? The man I want, not when I don't eat, will only say baby eat obediently Otherwise I will feel distressed But just put the meal in front of me and eat it quickly, so you throw it away The man I want is not when I drink, smoke, and indulge, looking at me and not doing anything, but also with a stinky face and saying, don't you want to be like this, okay? Instead, he snatched the things from my hands, hugged me and kissed me forcibly, until I didn't make a fuss, I looked into my eyes and said, you are sad, I will bite you. Labor and management accompany you to hurt, can drinking be a fart? The man I wanted, not when I was sick, would only say on the phone that I wanted to take medicine and cover the quilt. Instead, he stood directly downstairs and said to me, go! Go to my house, I don't worry about you taking care of yourself. The man I want is not a man who promises me every day that he will change something for me, but works silently, and I can see it. The man I want is not just saying that he loves me for the rest of my life, but taking me home, putting his arm around my waist and saying to my parents, this is your daughter-in-law, the woman I will marry in the future! ”
Qu Junru didn't know that he was opposite his future sister-in-law, so he quickly replied to her with a very interesting topic with a small composition.
"Lucky Star, I saw a topic about the college entrance examination, although you don't need it yet, but I suggest you take a look at it first, maybe it will be useful for you in the future. It says that you can take nine classes a day and study on your own three nights. You can write two refills in a day, make at least three sets of papers, you can wake up ten minutes early, go to bed ten minutes late, memorize a few words and idioms, and you can use the time you spend playing with your phone to figure out a math problem. When you spend time reading magazines and writing a reading in English, there is always someone who works harder than you. The scary thing is that people who are better than you are working harder than you. At the time of the college entrance examination, there were more than 9 million applicants, of which more than 8 million were not in the same province as you. Among them, 10,000 people in the same province have been escorted, and 2,000 people have no confidence in finding employment after university and will not take the college entrance examination. 8,000 people are fruit exams, 9,000 people can't perform normally, 1,000 people will be late, 42,000 people don't take the same school as you, there are 1,000 people left, more than 6 million people are not as good as you, and more than 2 million people will have psychological problems. No matter how many hobbies, social connections, or aversion to hard work you have, at some point in your adolescence, you will understand that learning is more important than anything else. If you have no desire, no one will pay for your future, you will either work hard to climb up, or rot in the mud at the bottom of society. That's life, either go home or fight !! ”
Jiang Rui read the topic of the college entrance examination sent to her by Qu Junru very seriously: "Smash, Anla, An." I've always done well in my studies, so don't worry. ”
Qu Junru wanted to know what kind of opinion he had of Li Jialin in Jiang Rui's heart: "Originally, what I wanted to prove to Wang Xinyu was love. In the end, it turned out to be proof that she was hurt. Rui mother, the same is true of your love with Li Jialin, right? I talked to him, and Li Jialin knew that we were talking together. I can only help you get here, and you can give her the rest yourself, I wish you happiness. ”
Li Jialin, Jiang Rui's predecessor, is in the same grade as her.
Strictly speaking, he's my nephew.
Why do you say he's my nephew? Because, we have a relative who we know in common, and from my father, he has several brothers who are sworn by. And that relative is my father's fourth brother, Li Jialin calls my father's fourth brother "grandpa", and I call that person "uncle". Therefore, in terms of that person's generation, Li Jialin is my nephew. However, I've always been very old, that's it!
Jiang Rui was really surprised when she saw this name, but she didn't like Li Jialin so much for a long time: "I did put in almost all my energy when I liked him. I had just been in my first year of military training at that time, how do you know that you boys have so many fancy intestines? Hahaha, it's all over, I don't want to mention him anymore. ”
After Qu Junru personally experienced the two relationships of Wang Xinyu and Jiang Rui, he did find that the current post-zero generation has its own set of opinions on feelings: "Although you are not a little girl, you have also imagined what kind of scene you will be on your wedding day and what kind of wedding dress you will wear." And most importantly, who will be the man who will greet you in a dress. Some people say that the person you marry must not be your favorite, you don't believe it. But you lost. The person you love is the man who gave you a wedding. ”
To be honest, Jiang Rui is only in her first year of junior high school, she is still far from the day of marriage, and she has indeed thought about what her future wedding will be like at this age, but she doesn't know how to reply to Qu Junru.
Jiang Rui asked her sister for help again, and her sister was really shocked in her heart when she saw that her "brother-in-law" actually talked about the topic so deeply.
This kid is not simple, interesting, really interesting.
Her sister took her sister's mobile phone and replied to Qu Junru in her own tone: "Love a girl, rather than give her up for her happiness." It's better to use your personality charm to keep her and fight for her happiness. ”
Qu Junru didn't know that the girl opposite him was not Jiang Rui, but her sister.
Soon, he came up with a countermeasure: "The most calm woman never texts and calls her boyfriend when she has nothing to do." Someone thought it was strange and asked her what she thought. She said: If he is not busy, he will contact me; If he's busy, why should I bother him? If he's not busy and doesn't contact me, then why should I contact him? ”
The meaning of his words is already clear.
Qu Junru doesn't like girlfriends who are too clingy, and hopes that Jiang Rui can understand that during the time when he didn't contact her, he actually had his own things busy, and he would reply as soon as he was done.
After all, her sister is a few years older than her, and she is a few years older than Qu Junru, and she understands more than him as a boy.
Jiang Rui's sister's reply completely shocked Qu Junru: "A woman is water, if you meet her at 0 degrees, she will immediately turn into ice." If you love her with 100 degrees, she will immediately boil. Therefore, your woman's temperature is your degree to her, cold and warm. ”
Qu Junru quickly reacted, and the girl opposite was actually the eldest sister-in-law he had never met: "Mother Rui, this is not something you can say, right?" Next to your sister? Your sister is holding your phone? ”
Why does Qu Junru feel that this is not like Jiang Rui's words that can reply?
is because her sister did not use Qu Junru's nickname, but behind these words, she emphasized the third perspective of "your woman".
Jiang Rui's sister admired Qu Junru's keen insight, and quickly gave her phone to her sister and asked her sister to reply to him.
Jiang Rui was very surprised that he realized so quickly that the person who replied to his message was not himself: "Yes, son, you are so smart, you are indeed my sister." I really didn't know how to reply to you about the topic of marriage you just mentioned, so I turned to my sister for help. ”
Qu Junru said hello to Jiang Rui and her sister: "I know, hahaha." Hello, sister-in-law! I'm Qu Junru, your sister's boyfriend. ”
Her sister did not respond directly to Qu Junru, but told him a short story.
Let him understand that there are some emotional things, and he should be cut off cleanly, and don't be soft on his ex.
"One day, your dog bit the couch. Mom told you to give the dog away, but you relented and kept it. The next day, you gripped your bloody hand and went for a rabies vaccination. It's not to blame others, it's to blame yourself for being soft-hearted. One day, when you hear your friend talking bad about you, and then you ask your friend what is going on, her innocent eyes soften your heart and make you forgive her. A week later, she arrogantly led a group of people to beat you with a blue nose and swollen face, saying that she couldn't get used to you for a long time. This can only be blamed for your soft-heartedness for a while, and the reality slapped you in the face, teaching you not to be soft-hearted and kind. Understand?! ”
Qu Junru can be soft on any of his exes, but when he remembers the moment when his predecessors were kind to him, it was the two of them who were sad.
Not only himself, but also his sister, the incumbent.
When Qu Junru was still reflecting on this, Jiang Rui's sister couldn't see her sister being sad for him, so she warned her "brother-in-law" again, saying: "Don't forget, when you first chased her, how sweet you talked, how you promised, and how you tried to get her." Don't forget, when you first chased her, you said that you care about her, only be good to her, send her every morning, noon and good night, and surprise her from time to time without saying tired. Because, at that time, you felt that it was worth it, and you felt that you liked it. But when the two of you have been together for a long time and have conflicts, you will start to ignore her, start to dislike her, start to feel satisfied with what you have, and stop managing this relationship, right? ”
Her sister thinks Qu Junru is interesting, why doesn't Qu Junru think her sister is very interesting?
He sent this message to Jiang Rui's social account: "What is the best way to deal with emotions? ”
Qu Junru wants to tell the two sisters from this perspective that he is not the kind of scumbag who dislikes his girlfriend after being with him for a long time.
Since he chose to be with Jiang Rui, he really went towards the goal of getting married.
"Stop fantasizing."
I don't know if this is Jiang Rui's reply, or her sister.
In short, these four words are very level, and they also made Qu Junru instantly understand what the psychological situation he should have after the freshness of the relationship crosses.
Qu Junru was still thinking about how to reply, Jiang Rui may have noticed that the four words his sister said caused his boyfriend to go offline and sent him a very sad word.
"I feel that life is hopeless, my studies are heavy, and I really want to leave on the Midyear Festival."
Qu Junru didn't go offline, he was just seriously pondering the deep meaning behind these four words.
After understanding these four words, Qu Junru immediately replied to Jiang Rui: "The ghost picks the weak to the upper body, and the Buddha picks the good to suffer." ”