CHAPTER XLII
At night, he ran to Yuan Chuli's mother's ward and slept all night, and the next morning Yuan Chuli's mother asked him what was going on, and he told him what happened, Chen Jianzhang said: "Aunt Yuan, didn't you say that my life was hers?" Yuan Chuli's mother said: "You are so stupid, I said that you are with her in this life and not with her now, how can you follow her now?" Not only will you not be happy, but it will backfire, do you think even if she wants her parents? Have you considered these? As long as her parents are not dead, you can't be together, the concept of the family in Chinese society is very strong, especially in the case of her family, you guys, you haven't achieved the right result, everything is natural, laugh to the end, not in front of you, why don't you young man open up? If you don't believe it, don't say that her little fu is a yellow flower girl, even if she is now married for the second time, it will not be your turn. You will not be happy if you are united now. Chen Jianzhang lowered his head in pain, covering his head with both hands.
Yuan Vinegar's mother came over and patted him on the shoulder and said, "Listen to Auntie, you take care of the front first, if you don't take care of the front first, you can't take care of the back, this is called taking care of one and losing the other, and in the end, you can't get both!" "In the evening he came to Xiong Mazi to drink, and in the end he got drunk.
After Dai Lin moved home, her mother was also talking about her daughter, and Teacher Yu said: "People say that if you want to hurry, you can't reach it, how can you force it like this?" You are really stupid, you can only force men away by coercion, men rely on coaxing, do you think you can't find anyone except you? The last time you came back, you said that his father liked several girls back then, and in the end his mother won, do you think about why his mother won? That's because his mother understands what his father needs, and his father's choice must be a good wife and mother, which of these four words are you worthy? You've already suffered a loss, why don't you even learn a lesson? Do you think you're the most beautiful in the market? People are on TV, which girl is not younger and more beautiful than you? The people who enter that unit are one in a hundred, how old are you? You are a second-hand goods in the eyes of others, and you begin to be complacent if they don't dislike you, which is the same as when you sell clothes. Go to a high-end place to wear a market clothes, no matter how good you do, it's an imitation, not a genuine product, go and go, go and clean up, and give me back tomorrow, fortunately, the two are reasonable people, if you go to another house, people will think you are like shit. After Dai Lin went to the house and was scolded by her mother, she also felt that it was not worth coming back like this.
As soon as Lou Yin heard about this, he ran to Chen's house, but this time he was unexpectedly kicked out by Zhang Simei, who had never come to blackface, but in the face of her wanting to grab Dai Lin's position, she was also open.
Fu Minxi also quarreled with his parents at home, the reason was because of Chen Jianzhang, Fu Minxi clearly told his parents that he wanted to be with Chen Jianzhang, and sure enough, he was strongly prevented by his parents, their attitude was very clear, that is, they resolutely disagreed, and locked Fu Minxi at home, no matter how Fu Minxi argued, it was useless, they just didn't agree with Chen Jianzhang, the reason was that the family background of the two was too far apart, they thought that the reason why Fu Minxi had such an idea was because of Fu Minxi's emptiness. Fu Xunhan also found Yuan Chuli to do ideological work for Fu Minxi, Yuan Chuli came to Fu's house and looked at the haggard Fu Minxi a little distressed, she said to Fu Xunhan and his wife: "This can't be done, if you lock her up like this, something will happen." Fu Xunhan asked, "What should I do then?" There's no way I'm going to let her stay with Chen Jianzhang? Yuan Chuli said: "I may not be able to do this ideological work, why don't I let my mother talk to Minxi, what do you think?" Fu Xunhan and his wife glanced at each other and nodded.
So Yuan Chuli and Fu Minxi got in the car and went to the Chinese medicine hospital. After seeing Yuan Chuli's mother, Fu Minxi threw himself into Yuan's mother's arms and cried, Fu Minxi learned that Chen Jianzhang was also hiding outside during this time, Yuan Chuli said: "Your decision has disturbed a pool of spring water, why bother?" So Yuan Chuli told Fu Minxi about the stakes, if she made such a fuss again, it would lead to no end, after listening to Yuan Chuli's analysis Fu Minxi cried, Yuan's mother nodded and agreed: "I was the same as you now, I did a forced thing, the two students in the class were secretly in early love, I thought it was wrong, so I strongly opposed this matter, and told the parents of both sides, the parents were very angry after hearing it, and called their children home and beat them, and finally made the girl jump into the river, Although on the surface I don't have much responsibility, looking back, wasn't it because of my own negligence that caused the tragedy? So we should think more about others, and if I had been patient at the time, maybe this would not have happened. Fu Minxi thought carefully about what Yuan Chuli's mother said, she also thought that her parents would never accept her marrying Chen Jianzhang at present, if she really didn't get it in the end, Chen Jianzhang would even lose her job, her parents' concept of family is very strong, and her parents have long said that they want to find the right person, although these are not what she wants, but she is from such a family and has nothing to do with whether she is willing or not.