No matter how fun a game is, it's not all about life! Just a small part of life, to be exact!

No matter how fun the game is, it's always time to take up! To be exact, there is a lot of time to be occupied!

Therefore, in the eyes of the world, games ...... It's negative in every sense of the word.

In the 28th law, it takes 80% of the time to do 20% of the things, and the gains outweigh the losses; In inspirational chicken soup, if you can't win strong, you are self-abandoning; In business strategy, it is debt; In terms of time management, it is a negative teaching material; In the life energy passbook, it is borrowing and expending; In Madame's eyes, it's not just a good ......

This has caused a serious lack of confidence after playing the game, and there is always a sense of guilt!

Going back to the roots, it's a problem with the game, it's definitely not my problem!

You can't fool yourself into saying that you play less every day.

Anyone who has ever played a game knows that as soon as you start the game, you can't control the time at all, and you always know that a few hours have passed.

Thinking about it, only not playing.

Then delete it!

I gave away my carefully practiced number.,Entrusted to me again with the number that others thought was delaying and deleting the game.,Riding a horse around the various map scenes.,Say goodbye to the family.。

Exit the game interface.

Go back to the D drive and find the game folder, and after a few hesitations, delete it.

In order to be thorough, even the minesweeper and poker brought by the system itself were deleted.

This time it's clean.

Drawing, reading, writing, doing housework.

Make breakfast for Mrs. Tu'er (although it has only been done for two days, but it is not the same, what is it that is not a sample)!

Our lives are full of sunshine!

After a peaceful life, sometimes there is always a time to be free, and at that time I haven't set that very high goal for myself.

So I started to miss the days of gaming.

Absolutely not, it's too delayed, since it's been so many days (about a year), don't go on it!

Yes, the journey was too delayed.

After the journey is on, there are countless numbers to be on every day, countless free things to get to, and countless important tasks to complete, resulting in countless time being wasted!

Since the journey is delayed, then everything else should be fine!

Think about it, and make an excuse for yourself.

Take a look at the various games that are popular online.

3D games have become mainstream.

This is even more inadmissible.

God knows how obsessive these games can be.

You must not test your self-control in front of the game.

Let's play CrossFire.

CrossFire doesn't need to be a daily task, you can go up and down at any time, even if you have something to do in the middle of the game, it doesn't hurt.

This one must be fine, so let's play around with this once in a while!

After self-brainwashing, the action is extremely strong, re-downloaded, and the installation was successful after a long wait.

Get back to the happy days!

Again felt delayed and deleted all the games in 2016.

That year, I began to get involved in my daughter's education.

It must be emphasized here that although I love to play games, I am definitely not a plaything, I just use my role and my time to play, and I am absolutely responsible when it comes to other roles as a son, a husband, a father and a friend.

This point must be emphasized, the key points are marked, and the test is mandatory!

Otherwise, many readers will think that I am just playing a game!

In 2016, I became involved in my daughter's education.

It's education, not learning.

Again, there is a fundamental difference!

Before that, I thought that children were just playing when they were young, and they didn't have so much to learn. So as long as it is on weekends and holidays, I take her to start the crazy play program, I take her to play almost all the surrounding parks, so that later in the children's park, we can sit on electric toys without spending money, which is privately contracted, we don't know each other, so you can see how many times we usually play.

The reason why I play so much is because every time the weekend comes, my daughter starts to discuss with me where to play.

She was happy every time she discussed it, because she knew I would definitely take her.

I think I have a very good character, and that is to keep my promises!

I not only keep my promise to others, but also to my children, and even more so to keep my promise, no matter how old she is, as long as I promise to take her to Harbin Cultural Park for a drunken boxing weekend, I will definitely not miss the appointment. It's a pity that this little conscienceless person doesn't remember it, if you don't remember, you can't remember, I just remember, I remember that she laughed happily at the time, that's enough!

A daughter also has a great advantage, which I think should be extremely rare at her age.

Even the daughter is trustworthy, even after we go out to play when she is very young, she will never make a fuss about doing this game twice and leaving.

For example, the frog jumping in this oil field paradise, although she likes to play very much, she only says it a few times.

If you play with your children a lot, it will naturally cause objections from others.

I believe that children should not waste time playing, they should seize the time to learn and win at the starting line.

For this reason, I have clearly expressed my views in the article "Reading with Feelings" on September 15, 2020, which is excerpted below:

Since I was promoted to become a father, I have never been too strict with my children! The main reason is, of course, that I don't need to be like many poor parents who want to prove themselves by pulling out the seedlings of their children! To put it another offense, even though I can't fly myself, I don't want to lay an egg and let future generations fly!

In traditional education, my parents and I (and other parents) always disagreed. Unlike these parents, who are obsessed with their children's rankings, grades, etc., I have never been interested in these, so I have never known what homework my daughter has left every day, I don't know my daughter's test scores in various subjects from oldest to smallest, I don't know her rankings in classes, grades, schools, and cities, and I don't let her participate in any of the various cram classes taught in school...... One of the things I often put on my lips is: our family is free-range!

Of course, free-range farming is not a laissez-faire!

At least lead her to a place where there is grass and no wolves!

I agree and sometimes take my daughter to learn guzheng, watch her dance performances, take her to practice table tennis, learn vocal music, teach her to learn flower and bird painting, learn graphic design, learn book layout, take her to buy all kinds of ingredients for baking cakes she likes, and learn many things that seem unprofessional to most parents!

If there's one thing missing, it's that she doesn't go out of her way to develop her child's life skills (thankfully, she learned this on her own)!

Chinese children~ To be exact, I have seen Chinese children, many of whom are like what the article says: "I can't cook food, I can't sew buttons when I fall off, I can't fix the small things in the laboratory if they are broken, and I won't ......change the light bulb if the light bulb in the dormitory is broken."

Such a child is not a good child in my mind!

The good boy in my mind is peace, happiness, integrity, and kindness!

Many parents have asked me, "Doesn't it affect my child's learning when he learns so much?" ”

I didn't know how to answer, but after reading this article, I knew that I should copy the guide's words as it is: "If it will hinder you, it probably means that you are not an academic talent, and you don't have to force it." ”

Yes, the world is so big, why do you want to be an academic talent?

If you are not an academic talent, then what does it matter if you solve a few more math problems and a few fewer problems?

Then, on holidays, instead of letting your child worry about her unfinished homework, it is better to take her to the library to sort out a few books, plant a few small trees in the desert land, send a few clothes and books to out-of-school children, and sell a few newspapers for people in need...... See more of the outside world!

If I have the greatest hope for my daughter, it is:

As a father! The only thing I want：My daughter just is a happy girl，standing in front of a boy， and he love her too!

As a father, my only hope is this: my daughter is a happy girl who can one day stand in front of the boy she likes, and he loves her!

(The English above is my own translation, Chinese English)

That's enough!

As for those math problems, it's still the same sentence: what does it matter if you solve a few more problems and a few less?

yes, what does it matter!

I think the above speaks volumes about my attitude.

So my children don't go to preschool, don't go to make-up classes, take my son to the bookstore every week when I was a child, lead my daughter to play crazy since she was a child, and give them a happy childhood!

I asked her to do all the things in the article after I deleted the game, but of course it's much more than that.

It's good value for money to delete the game this time.

The download journey again was after the Spring Festival in 2020, and the login screen at that time reminded me that the last time I went offline was five years ago.

Time is so fast!

The reason why I downloaded it is because my mother's nurse has a New Year's holiday, and I have to take care of my mother during this time, which is nothing, and my mother has been sick for several years.

As always, I went back with my sketchbook and laptop!

The difference from the past is that there was an epidemic that year, the community was closed, and the unit also required to work from home.

It's nothing, you can spend more time with your parents. I often tell my wife that it is impossible for parents to accompany us for a lifetime, and the most important thing for children to do is not to be able to raise children without treating them. To do our part when they are there, in fact, the parents are not very demanding, go back and watch it, watch a movie together, pick them up and drop them off to participate in the activities of their circle, let them brag in front of old friends that the children can drive them when they grow up, if you say with a complaining tone that we want to take the bus here, it is not troublesome, he has to send it, which is more Versailles.

I've always been grateful for the months of lockdown that allowed me to stay with them for months, preparing three meals a day, taking care of my mother, and chatting with my father. In the past few months, I have been cooking for decades, braised pork, stewed pork ribs, a bumper harvest, pulling sweet potatoes, all kinds of stir-fried vegetables, and even made a pig's head independently for the first time in his life.

Later, I sighed with my girlfriend, it's good that I didn't eat at home!

I stay for a long time, sometimes I have more free time, especially when I take care of my mother, I am always afraid that she will fall asleep and call me, my heart is not quiet, and the painting effect is not good. One day I saw the secret card in the computer (this is issued by the journey for someone to steal the number, every time before going online, the coordinates of the rotating secret card will be given, and we fill in the corresponding number corresponding to this secret card to go online), and I have a sense of intimacy, and I want to see who else is in the family back then.

It's definitely an excuse to not get it on the table!

The excuse that you can't get on the table is also an excuse!

There are excuses just so that we can do this thing a little bit more justified as children!

So I re-downloaded the game.

Login.

The first thing I did was log in, I ran to Phoenix and looked at the bike time for the first time. Back then, riding this was definitely the most important thing every day, because of the untied silver.

Later, when I talked about it with the people of the new family, everyone laughed!

yes, it's been five years, a slightly unfamiliar interface, completely unfamiliar people and things. There are only a few accounts left that played together back then, and the people have long since changed, and the family has already retreated from the fifth level to the first level of the year.

After two or three days, I found that the flawless gems were more than 10,000 yuan for 10 yuan, even when I played the Internet café copy (there was an operation called the Internet café copy on the journey back then, that is, every city has some contracted Internet cafes, and a copy will be opened at seven o'clock every Saturday night, this copy can only be available in this contracted Internet café, and 24 flawless gems will be dropped if you clear the customs, and ordinary people can basically only play one, I was able to get three and a half copies in a limited two hours, and I can get more than 80 flawless gems every week, At that time, it was absolutely amazing to the family. In retrospect, so did Madame, who had never suspected me of what I was doing every Saturday night for so long, and came back at ten o'clock, and she couldn't save thousands.

It should be in the spirit of nostalgia, I bought five times to make a piece of equipment 13 stars, I was a 10-star set, don't underestimate these 3 stars, the setting of the journey is 8 stars to rise the equipment is directly back to 0, and then continue to rise from the beginning, whether it is successful or not, you will get four flawless gems, you can make up for the difficulty. Back then, it was this star ascension that exploded to 0, allowing countless money to flow into Shi Yuzhu's pocket.

The 13-star set is very beautiful, but the new friend said that it is not difficult to reach 15 stars now, so I want to upgrade to 15 stars, after all, it took the Jade Emperor millions to rise to 15 stars.

And just like that, I started my journey again.

I still underestimated the charm of the game or overestimated my self-control, the game couldn't stop from the beginning, and after 15 stars, there was a new goal......

It wasn't until last year, when I made my first five-year plan, that I realized that there was so much to do, that I realized that the game was really delayed.

One deleted it.

Actually, when you think about it, despite all the negative things about a game, the mere fact that it brings us joy is enough!

So, when you have enough time in the future, you can continue to download and download back.

Continue to brainwash Mrs., and let her accompany me to fight tanks when I retire in the future!

That's it! If it affects the housework, it's a big deal to delete it!

Anyway, it won't take much effort!