Chapter 5: The Mother's Strong Intervention

(1) The mother changed her way to give birth to her own child

A few days later, her mother came to the factory, and Qiu Yue was afraid that her mother would publicize her love dispute as a distorted reason, so she took the initiative to follow her mother back. Along the way, she educated her mother ideologically, listing many sad life stories of couples who often beat and scolded each other and even divorced because they did not have a common language and common hobbies. Mother listened quietly. No reply was made. When she got home, her mother began to speak.

Mother said; "Okay, you've said enough along the way, and you've scolded enough. The anger should be over, now you can reconcile with Xiaohou. He's been waiting for you. ”

Qiu Yue saw that her mother's attitude had not changed at all, and thought; "Why is my mother so stubborn? She should understand the concept of marriage in the new era, why can't she think more about her daughter? ”

She decided to go with her mother. It was to make her mother break off the idea of forcing her to continue with Xiaohou. Then say; "Mom, don't worry about this anymore. It is impossible for me and Xiaohou to get married, because the lifestyle I want is impossible for Xiaohou to give me, so we can't continue. Since sooner or later it will be divided, why not divide it early? You're going to die of this heart. Stop meddle with me. If you persist, it's in vain. ”

Mother said; "Why are you so stupid? With such a good man, what else do you have to find fault with? Tell me yourself, what's wrong with him? ”

Autumn Moon; "I didn't say he was bad, I just said that we were not suitable, and after he left me, he could find someone better than me, so why did he have to pester me? Tell him to let him go, and stop wasting his time. ”

Mother, "You don't want such a good man, what kind of person do you want?" That is, you already have someone else out there. Otherwise it wouldn't be like this. ”

Akizuki was enraged by her mother's words. Say; "You don't hesitate to insult your daughter for him. Tell you, the more you press me like this, the more I dislike you, I really don't like a good man like him, because he is uneducated and selfish, and I don't want to marry him even if I marry the flower son on the street. ”

Mother said; "I won't let you marry Hanako, marrying him is your only choice, you must."

Autumn Moon; "I won't marry him, whoever likes him will marry him, I don't care."

Mother; "If you don't marry him, I will break away from your mother-daughter relationship."

Autumn Moon; "Whatever you want, as long as you say that I don't agree to marry that person, you want to break off the mother-daughter relationship with me, and you are not afraid of being laughed at by others, then go ahead."

When my mother heard this, she didn't say anything more.

She was afraid to see her mother's tears, and she was afraid that her mother would shed tears when she was sad. She knew that it was not easy for her mother to work for this family. After most of her life's hard work, she failed to give her father love and care, not because she was not filial, but because her family's life was also very difficult, and she had no time to take care of her father. Whenever the mother and daughter talked about family life, when it came to their grandfather, the mother always blamed herself and said that she was sorry for his old man. It's my own inability. It's a pity that I haven't taken care of my own home. Then there were tears. After Qiu Yue is sensible, he always wants to contribute his whole to his family within his ability. Especially her mother, she once swore in her heart that no matter how big or small her ability is, she will wholeheartedly make her mother happy and let her live a happy life. However, just because of her own marital problems, the mother was in tears. She felt that she should not be, but she could not compromise with her mother on this major issue of right and wrong, at this time, she chose to escape, she did not dare to stay at home for a long time, she had to leave immediately, she turned around and walked out of the house, and went straight to the factory. She forgot to eat, to drink.

(2) The mother moved the rescuers around

The next thing is that the relatives of the family take turns to be lobbyists, and the cousin came from Hubei, with her mother's entrustment, to persuade each other; "I heard my aunt say, that kid is very good, this is a good marriage, you should obey the old man. She is a person who has come over, can see things clearly and think farther than us. "The cousin also said;" As the saying goes, if you don't listen to the elderly, you will suffer in front of you. Be obedient, go back and reconcile with Xiaohou, you don't have to lose. ”

Qiu Yue ignored her.

The eldest cousin came from the county seat. It's still entrusted by my mother. My cousin said, "I heard my aunt and uncle say that the boy is good, not only is he good-looking, but he is also good to people, especially to you. ”

Akizuki said, "Yes. But, cousin, think about it for me, if I marry a man who has no opinions and no ability, what will my family life be like in the future? What would it be like to live with such a person for a long time? You are literate and knowledgeable, do you also agree with my mother's view of marriage? ”

The cousin was dumbfounded by the question. Shy. Then he walked away.

The elder brother also spoke; "You've been in love for so long, and now you eat him even if he's a piece of."

Autumn Moon; "I'm never going to eat this piece of. No matter how much pressure you exert on me, I would rather die than give in. ”

Seeing that there was no change in the matter, the mother began to torture herself. She often falls ill at the workplace, covered in scars from first aid. There was only a dull gaze in his eyes.

No matter how optimistic her mother is about Xiaohou, in Qiu Yue's opinion, it is all her mother's vanity, because Qiu Yue cited a lot of strong evidence, such as, 1, saying that he was too stingy and selfish, and her mother said, this is good, if you follow him, you will not be very rich in the future. 2, said that he was uneducated, and his mother said that he was a college student, why was he uneducated? 3, said that he had no mood, and his mother said that the mood can be eaten as a meal? 4. Said that he was not responsible. Mother said that he made such a small mistake, and you hold on to it.

To put it bluntly, my mother is optimistic that he is a college student and a technician. It doesn't matter if he's competent or incompetent. Because this hardware was really too little at the time.

Although Qiuyue lives in the factory dormitory, she still sends her salary home on time every month. I only have enough food to eat in the cafeteria. All the rest is contributed. Because she knows that this is the main income of the family, and the living expenses and tuition fees of her younger siblings will be spent here.

But said that her mother saw that this trick did not work, so she thought of another way, she decided to go to the Qiuyue factory and ask the unit leader to come forward to force her to comply. Then Akizuki will succumb. Come to think of it. She smirked, thinking it was a good idea.

The next morning, she walked to Qiuyue's factory with her "masterpiece". At the gate of the factory, I met Qiuyue's friend Jiang Taoyi to come to work, and Jiang Taoyi took the initiative to go forward to greet his aunt. And asked; "Auntie came to Qiuyue so early, what's the matter?"

Mother said, "I'm not here to find Qiuyue, I'm here to find your leader, she's so stupid, I can't understand her, and she doesn't listen to the persuasion of relatives, no way, now I can only ask your leader to come forward and put some pressure on her." ”

Jiang Taoyi said, "Auntie, you still have to think of other ways, I will be exempt from looking for the leader, because after all, this is Qiuyue's private matter, if the leader knows, it will make the city full of wind and rain, although it can put pressure on Qiuyue, but if Qiuyue succumbs and she reconciles with Xiaohou, then the impact of the wind and rain in the city will be even more unfavorable to Qiuyue, and it is not good for them, do you say?" Let's think of other ways, let's all try to persuade Qiu Yue again, hoping that she will come to her senses. ”

After listening to Jiang Taoyi's explanation, the mother felt that it made sense, and then said,. "That's it, then I won't go to your leader, I'll go back, you help me persuade Qiuyue, I thank you here." You know, that Xiaohou is really good, if she misses such a good person, where will she find such a good person in the future? She's so stupid, let me worry about it. ”

Jiang Taoyi really didn't know what to say at this time, she knew that Qiu Yue was determined not to reconcile, but her mother was also determined to want them to be together, Xiaohou, although there are many advantages, but to be Qiu Yue's husband, it is really lacking in ability, because their values are very different, and there are also differences in ability, such a marriage cannot last long. But out of politeness, she invited her aunt to sit in the dormitory, but her mother refused her invitation and went home by herself.

Jiang Taoyi found Qiuyue and said that he met his aunt at the gate of the factory, Qiuyue knew that trouble was coming, and her mother would not give up if she did not achieve her goal, what should I do? Who are you looking for now? Who can protect themselves? Relatives. May I? No. Because they have long been used by their mothers. My aunt has been a lobbyist, and if I go and ask her for shelter now, she will be very embarrassed, and she will not be able to go there. Cousin, big cousin, etc., can they help me speak? Are their words useful? Hey, forget it, I'm strong and strong, as the saying goes, "persistence is victory." "I just persevered, and the final victory was mine.

The mother did change her strategy. She no longer went to the leader of Qiuyue's unit, but went to the factory every once in a while to find Qiuyue, because she wanted everyone in the factory to know about Qiuyue's breakup with her boyfriend, and the fact that Qiuyue was wrong. In those years, everything about boyfriend and girlfriend breaking up was indiscriminate and disgraceful. is morally condemnable. Mother took advantage of this background of the times to force Qiu Yue to comply. She thought that she knew her daughter's personality too well, and as long as there was moral pressure, Qiu Yue would compromise and give in. Who knows, the stubborn Qiu Yue didn't eat this set at all.

On this day, the factory sent a cool drink, it was Tianjin Sydney, Qiuyue saw that she had three or four catties, she was reluctant to eat it alone, so she sent it home. Who knew that my mother came to the factory again this day. Didn't meet it. asked her roommate Qiuyue's whereabouts, and the roommate said that it might be that she sent Sydney home, and her mother said that she sent Sydney home? Will she still send Sydney home now? No, no, no. Then, he left the factory. After returning home, she saw Sydney, and naturally knew that Qiu Yue took it home, but this did not move the stubborn mother, nor did it make her sober up to whether what she did made sense.

Qiuyue came back from home, and after her roommate informed her of her mother's visit to the factory, she said; "Your mom said you couldn't take Sydney home now, no." And then it seems like a joke; "You are honest and honest, do you have a good relationship now, otherwise you will not be able to look down on such a good man?" That tone was exactly what my mother was saying.

Qiu Yue knew that this matter was not clear, and if she wanted to explain, she could only explain it more and more unclear and embarrassed, so she simply didn't say anything. I thought, let them go. Then he smiled helplessly, shook his head, said nothing, and went to bed.

In bed, where can she sleep? Originally, I thought that my mother would be fine after a while, and as long as I held on for a while, the victory would belong to her, but now she seems to know that things are not as simple as she imagined, she is a little dazed, her mother blocked all her paths, her friends, colleagues, classmates, all the people her mother knows, she has gone to find them, and asked them to persuade her to reconcile with Xiaohou. Mother always said that she was restless, such a good man didn't want it, there must be someone else outside. Even if your mother said this, can others still believe you? Such a morally corrupt person is looked down upon by everyone. How can I have the face to go out and meet friends? Thinking of this, I couldn't help but cry secretly.

Colleague Mo Yanling brought her a message, saying that her mother came to her house last night and asked her to persuade her to reconcile with Xiaohou. After Yan Ling finished saying this, she looked at Qiu Yue's expression with her eyes. Qiu Yue's expression made this kind sister suddenly understand her thoughts.

Then she said to Qiu Yue, "I persuaded your mother, I said please don't interfere in your marriage, as a parent, it's in vain to break your mind for the sake of your children, she really doesn't want to, you just let him go, the future days are her own, if she doesn't catch up with the good days, then, the bad days are also her own suffering, no one can help her live, right?" You are so hard to persuade and force, she still can't accept it, do you really use a knife to break her back? Even if that's the case, she still can't accept it, what can you do? ”

Only Sister Yanling dares to say these words, and she can say them. Because she is a kind and virtuous woman in the eyes of Qiuyue's parents, a good daughter-in-law who keeps women's morals, her husband was sentenced to five years in prison for being restless and trafficking in women, she is alone with her two daughters, and she has to be filial to her in-laws. This is a fact that is difficult for the average woman to accept, how can she still take care of his parents? For this matter, Qiu Yue asked Yanling, saying that you are already worthy of him with your daughter, why do you still care about his parents? Yanling said, "His breaking the law is his personal affair, and it has nothing to do with his parents, and besides, our family has lived together for many years, and everyone's feelings are already very deep, how can he abandon the two old men when his son is committing a crime?" ”

After listening to Yanling's words, Qiu Yue's heart felt a little better, she thought, finally someone can stand in her own perspective and say something in her heart that she wants to say but doesn't let her. Moreover, she also told the truth from a neutral standpoint. How grateful she was to Yanling, at this time, she shed tears in front of this colleague's sister. It was also the first time she had cried in front of people in so long. She doesn't know if it's strong or vulnerable? In short, she cried in front of people.

A few days later, another colleague Li Yanmei also said to Qiuyue, your mother came to my house last night, please let me persuade you to reconcile with that Xiaohou, your mother said, you don't want such a good man, are you stupid? Or do you have someone out there? Even if you have someone outside, we won't let him come to our house, as long as we don't admit it, he won't be able to enter this house. Yan Mei said, looking at Qiu Yue with a wicked smile. It's like watching a joke.

Qiu Yue didn't have any expression at this time, and she didn't make any explanation, as if she hadn't heard the beautiful words. Yan Mei asked, I talked to you, did you hear me?

Qiu Yue said lightly, "Did you see me go out on a date?" If you believe what my mom says, what else can I say? ”

A few days later, Jiang Taoyi said to Qiu Yue, your mother came to my house last night to ask my mother to persuade you, saying, "Qiu Yue listens to you the most, so please do her ideological work." Your mother also said; You think Xiaohou is stingy, what's wrong with being stingy? What's so good about being so generous like her and not having a penny left around her? You think he is uneducated, and others are college students, why is he uneducated? You think he is ignorant, didn't he just make such a small mistake, others accepted the criticism, and said that he would correct it in the future, what else do you want him to do? She went on to say, "My mom invited you to our house to eat dumplings."

Qiuyue said, I won't go to your house, so as not to listen to your mother to help me do ideological work again.

Jiang Taoyi smiled, "My mother doesn't do your ideological work, my mother said, how can there be such a mother in the world, and there are few such mothers-in-law." Do you think, will she still do your job? ”

Autumn Moon; "Okay. After a while, I will definitely thank your mother, she is so kind to me. I'm really not blessed, did I do too much evil in my previous life? Or was it the wrong birth? Meet such a mother. It's bad luck. ”

Everyone laughed for a while, Jiang Taoyi wanted to give Qiuyue a relaxed feeling, she knew that Qiuyue had been living under the high pressure of her mother for a while, and her spirit was greatly suppressed and very painful, but she also had no ability to help Qiuyue change the current situation, so she could only find something to do and find something light, so that Qiuyue's spirit could be rested. Qiu Yue also knew her heart, and she was full of gratitude to her.

The naïve Autumn Moon thought that marriage was her own personal act and her own private matter, and her mother's interference was also short-lived, as long as she thought she should deal with it. She didn't expect the situation to develop to such a serious point, she suddenly realized that she couldn't go out casually now, because her mother had already released rumors that she had someone outside, and if she behaved a little worse at this time, she would fall into a situation from which she could never recover, and moral condemnation would make her never look up, and if that was the case, she thought it would be better to die clean. She remembered a passage from aspiring young people during the Republic of China; "Life was precious, love was more valuable, if it was for freedom, both could be thrown away." Isn't my current situation in line with this belief? Suddenly, a powerful force rushed to her heart, and she decided to start a stubborn battle with her mother in pursuit of what she believed to be true happiness. Even if it's broken bones, it's not a matter of hesitation.