2023/9/9 Mindset adjustment

At eight o'clock in the morning, I talked to Lao Jiang on the phone: "What should I do if I'm unhappy?" ”

She said, "Empty yourself," and hung up the phone.

If I hadn't known that she was so bad, I would have scolded her, but it's right to think about it, emptying yourself is the best way to make yourself happier.

Work is just a way to earn money, and I shouldn't be its slave around it, and I'm happy to have a good day today. Not only did I complete the assigned tasks, but I also successfully published my new work and successfully guided my business partners in their respective responsibilities.

This afternoon, the company arranged a business discussion, and Brother Tian asked his colleagues to express their opinions, but the colleagues did not speak, which made the atmosphere extremely embarrassing.

Isn't it, people don't make friends?

Is it just passion with customers?

Is life interesting?

Work is work, but you can't make yourself autistic!

You really don't have any ideas? I don't believe it anyway, so I express my opinion.

Is it useful to care about other people's opinions?

The knowledge is your own, say it, everyone will listen to it, help you go further, and no one will laugh at you. Everyone is an adult, and they all work in the same company, isn't it good to make progress together?

Do you have to die to save face and suffer sin?

Anyway, as a post-98 generation, I don't really understand what is going on with my colleagues in the company, and everyone is not happy?

Ever since Jiang and I talked, I had changed my concept of work. Work, to put it bluntly, is to make one's life meaningful. Before the customer said what he wanted, I quickly followed the customer's words to give him the product information and pictures he wanted, for fear of offending his hotel. As a result, the more dry I go, the more irritable I become, and I suffer from depression. When I came back, I found that I was still like a bear, so I simply stopped doing it, and tried to adjust my mentality very happily.

I tried to do this today, and it worked surprisingly well. The society is mixed, and it is difficult to distinguish who is a good person and who is deliberately fooling me, so I can only distinguish one by one in my heart, and then see who says what

Others laugh at me for being crazy, and I laugh at others for not being able to see through it. I've never liked to be used to other people, and I've never listened to people talk to me about traditional nonsense. Speaking of which, that is, those few words, are the brothers parrots or what? Don't talk about age, don't use your immature psychology to talk to me about society!

I'm not a college graduate who hasn't seen the world, and it doesn't matter who you are. What about losing your temper with me? Come, if you can't get used to it, I can talk to me face to face, I promise to let you see what it means to be a real cultural person, and don't say a dirty word.

Society is not your parents, no one will get used to you, in so many workplace people are you a yarn?

There is such a story about workplace cooperation.

A lock complains to a key: "I work hard every day to guard the door of the house for the master, but the master likes you and always takes you with him every day." ”

And the key also said dissatisfiedly: "You stay at home every day, comfortable, how comfortable!" I follow the master every day, in the sun and rain, how hard it is! ”

Once, the key also wanted to live a comfortable life like a lock, so he secretly hid himself.

When the owner went out and came home, he lost the key to unlock the lock, and in a fit of rage, he smashed the lock and threw it into the garbage heap.

When the master entered the house, he found the key and said angrily, "The lock has also been smashed, so what's the use of keeping you now?" ”

With that, he threw the key into the garbage heap as well.

The locks and keys that met in the garbage heap couldn't help but sigh: "Today we ended up so sadly because in the past, we were not cooperating with each other in our respective positions, but jealousy and suspicion of each other!" ”