2023/10/7 Blind scribbling
If the flower is rotten, let it rot!
Broken relationship, that's the end of it!
It's good to work hard, it's good to have a clear conscience, just don't owe anything, leave the rest to time, and then want to get closer, and if you don't get a response, you should slowly let go.
The stupidest thing a person does is nothing more than not being able to get along with himself.
No one knows better than you what kind of heart I have for you.
No matter how hot the water is, it can't touch the ice, and no matter how long it takes, it will be cold.
It's not that I'm out of enthusiasm, it's that I know too well that enthusiasm is useless, and forgiveness is useless.
I understand you, you don't understand me, I can't be the master of two, it's useless to try no matter how many times.
You will always have a reason, I will never be able to catch up with your changes, so I can do it myself, I don't want to cover this relationship.
I'm all chicken feathers, and I'm not qualified to be anyone's light.
Sometimes, I really want to meet the soul that resonates with me, understand my bizarre and whimsical ideas, understand my nervousness, understand every stalk I laugh at, understand my inexplicable madness, understand my sympathy for the roadside scavenging old people and stray animals, understand my tears when reading books and watching dramas, understand my red eyes at night, understand my inexplicable empathy and sadness, know that my two sides are cheerful, lively, funny and generous, but also embrace my embarrassment, inferiority, sensitivity, timidity, vulnerability, depression and strangeness.
Appreciating my desire for freedom, my different pursuit of love, understanding my pain, knowing that I am ordinary but still willing to embrace me, and being able to empathize with many of my own.
Therefore, it is precious to encounter understanding and love from the heart.
I saw a very realistic passage
Mr. Yang Jiang once said that if you are favored by a rich man, you must marry, what the rich need for you: the husband and son make themselves beautiful and provide him with emotional value.
What the poor need for you: husband and children, housework, frugality, serving in-laws, a job to support yourself, considerate of him, understanding the hard work of his work, and preferably bringing some from his mother's family.
Although I don't agree with this passage of the gentleman, I am powerless to refute it.
Younger people will think that this view is too worldly and too snobbish.
When you're older, you'll understand, but it's too late......