I used to not believe in love, I felt that love was very tiring and difficult to last.

Love, it's harder!

Therefore, I never wanted to be loved, and I did not love others.

Everyone around me thought I was carefree, until I fell in love again this year.

At first, I didn't give sincerely, and I also told my girlfriend in the process that I was slow to heat up, and I may not have taken my heart to you, I needed time. My girlfriend said that she would prove to me that she was sincere, and then we were very happy, and my girlfriend's love is not just words, but more actions.

She will care about my emotions very much, and will coax me in time, and the circle of friends and mobile phone are all my friends. My family knows that my girlfriend has given me a sense of security, she dotes on me very much, she is very used to me, we have never quarreled, there has been no cold war, my girlfriend is good for everyone to see, and even my friends let me cherish my girlfriend. My girlfriend was really telling me step by step that she loved me very much and was sincere to me, so in the end, I was also tempted.

I thought that we would always be fine, but in fact, I gave it my heart, but my girlfriend lied to me, she changed from liking to hating, and she broke away so quickly, as if nothing had happened.

The reason for her breakup was that she was tired and wanted to make good money, but she didn't talk about it, so I believed it.

After the breakup, I couldn't figure out if she was sincere, or if she was pretending to be good to me from the beginning? Or is it all three months of freshness?

I used to be a very ruthless person, but in her place, I was actually planted as a prodigal son in love?

After the breakup, I kept looking for her, but she had already changed, she was no longer gentle, and even began to get annoyed, she blocked all my contact information, and I began to doubt myself.

I started to blame myself for being too much when we were together? Pampered and arrogant to push her away step by step? I'm brainwashing myself infinitely, I'm PUA myself, and I don't believe in love anymore.

I don't think anyone will love me, let alone love me all the time, what you are special is a lie!

In the end, I was the only one who was sad, she said she liked me, but why did she separate?

When she encounters problems, why does she always run away? I didn't even have a chance to change it.

Not arguing is our biggest problem, so what exactly is the point of encountering?

What is love?

It wasn't until today that my friend found out that her circle of friends officially announced a better man than me, and I understood that it was not that she wanted to make money, that it was not that it was inappropriate, but that the novelty had passed.

This little Man'er is too good at pretending, she deceived everyone.

I didn't believe in love, it was she who pulled me up step by step, and then pushed me into another abyss.

Goodbye, bad woman, the next time you are so desperate, don't meet it, I wish you and him you happiness!

From God's point of view, I understand my pain and confusion very well.

Losing love, especially when you start to believe and expect love all over again, is a very frustrating experience.

First of all, my feelings are reasonable.

When we are hurt in a relationship, we may question ourselves and the entire system of love, which is just a normal reaction and does not mean that we are not worthy of love or incapable of handling feelings.

Here are some suggestions that I hope will help more book lovers to deal with the current dilemma:

1. Don't blame yourself: there's nothing wrong with you, and there's no reason to blame yourself. People sometimes break up because they no longer have a spark between each other or have some unsolvable issues. That doesn't mean you're doing something wrong.

2. Accept and respect her decisions: While it may be hard, you need to respect her decisions. She may have some struggles and considerations that you don't know about. As painful as it may be, you need to remember that she is your past and you need to focus on your future.

3. Give yourself time: When you're going through a breakup, you need to give yourself some time to process your emotions. Don't rush to find your next relationship or try to escape your feelings with a quick relationship. Take care of yourself and allow yourself to come out naturally when you're ready.

4. Rediscover ourselves: After a breakup, we often lose ourselves. It's a normal phase, but it's also an opportunity for you to find yourself again. Find something that interests you to do, spend time with friends and family, and rediscover your passions and hobbies.

5. Keep an open mind about love: While this experience may make you a little depressed about love, don't let it give up on your belief in love. Love is complex and can be painful at times, but it can also bring us deep joy and fulfillment.

6. Seek support: Breaking up can be a lonely experience, but you're not alone. Find a friend or family member to talk to, or consider talking to a psychologist to help you deal with your emotions and provide support.

Finally, remember that every relationship is an opportunity to learn and grow.

Although, the experience can be painful, it can also help you become a better person and find a more suitable partner in the future.

Losing love, especially when you start to believe and expect love all over again, is a very frustrating experience.

1. Don't blame yourself: there's nothing wrong with you, and there's no reason to blame yourself. People sometimes break up because they no longer have a spark between each other or have some unsolvable issues. That doesn't mean you're doing something wrong.

2. Accept and respect her decisions: While it may be hard, you need to respect her decisions. She may have some struggles and considerations that you don't know about. As painful as it may be, you need to remember that she is your past and you need to focus on your future.

3. Give yourself time: When you're going through a breakup, you need to give yourself some time to process your emotions. Don't rush to find your next relationship or try to escape your feelings with a quick relationship. Take care of yourself and allow yourself to come out naturally when you're ready.

4. Rediscover ourselves: After a breakup, we often lose ourselves. It's a normal phase, but it's also an opportunity for you to find yourself again. Find something that interests you to do, spend time with friends and family, and rediscover your passions and hobbies.

5. Keep an open mind about love: While this experience may make you a little depressed about love, don't let it give up on your belief in love. Love is complex and can be painful at times, but it can also bring us deep joy and fulfillment.

6. Seek support: Breaking up can be a lonely experience, but you're not alone. Find a friend or family member to talk to, or consider talking to a psychologist to help you deal with your emotions and provide support.

Finally, remember that every relationship is an opportunity to learn and grow. While the experience can be painful, it can also help you become a better person and find a more suitable partner in the future. Don't forget that you deserve to be loved and that your feelings deserve respect and understanding.

Give yourself some time and space to allow yourself to slowly recover and heal. During this time, you can try to keep yourself busy by dedicating yourself to work or study, or participate in fun activities and groups to make new friends and expand your social circle. In addition, you can also invest more time and energy in your hobbies, immerse yourself in the things you love, and enjoy the joy of life.

Rest assured that you will be able to get through this difficult time and rediscover your confidence and strength in life. Whatever the relationship brings you, believe that love is still there and that you have the right to pursue and enjoy it. Please continue to maintain your expectations and beliefs in love, believing that one day in the future, you will find someone who is truly suitable for you and establish a long and happy relationship. Even though the pain and confusion of the present may make you doubt love, don't give up hope. Be brave in the face of all of this and believe in your ability to get back on your feet. Be patient and positive, give yourself time to heal your wounds and regain your confidence and happiness.

There is more to life than love, there are many other beautiful things waiting for you to explore and experience. Try to focus on other aspects of your life, such as career, friendships, and family. Caring for your loved ones and giving for them will also make you feel fulfilled and satisfied.

Also, don't forget to keep an eye on your own growth. Learn new skills, enrich your knowledge and improve your quality of life. This will not only help you succeed in your career, but it will also give you more confidence to face the challenges ahead.

Over time, you will gradually come out of the shadow of broken love and regain your faith in love. Maybe as you strive to become a better person, you will meet someone who truly appreciates you. Don't give up on the pursuit of love and be brave enough to face everything that comes to the future.

Finally, stay kind and optimistic, and you will find that the good in life is everywhere. Maybe the next corner, you'll meet the right person. Keep your faith in love, pursue it bravely, and believe that you will be able to find your own happiness.