2023/10/21 The most important person is yourself

Everyone has a dark side, and there's nothing strange about it.

Have different attitudes towards different people, communicate if you like it, and strangers if you don't like it.

Whenever someone says I'm super good, I often think that it's not that I'm good, but that when I give kindness and sincerity, they will give me the same kindness and sincerity.

It's not that I'm good, it's that they're all good.

Personality varies from person to person, and I don't advocate blind kindness, nor do I accept moral kidnapping. You must have a culture that does not hurt others, and you do not lack the ability to protect yourself. In a hundred people, there are a hundred appearances, so why care about yourself in other people's mouths? It's okay to be yourself, and living under other people's words is disrespectful to yourself.

We have to accept the sudden loss in this world, the spilled milk, the lost wallet, the separated lover, the broken friendship, stop and tell ourselves to accept it.

If you can't face it with a smile, then be silent!

Take the things you care about lightly, there are some things and some people who can't hurt you as long as you don't care so much.

Whose life isn't a piece of chicken feathers?

It's just that some people choose to be hysterical, some people choose to remain silent, and there is nothing they can do, so let it be?

The heart doesn't matter what happens to you, you don't have to pretend to be good.

Not many people care about whether you are good or bad, you should eat, drink, pursue a certain basic material, and then properly make yourself mentally happy.

Everyone is an ordinary person, just live a good life, you can earn it again when the money is gone, you can find it again if the job is gone, you can make friends again if you are gone, you can meet again when love is gone, there is nothing in life, why are you afraid of starting all over again?

We spend a lot of time chasing the approval of others, but we often ignore the most important person - ourselves.

A person's true strength is not in the external performance, but in the inner independence and self. Only by doing a good job can you bear the ups and downs of fate and laugh at the ups and downs of life. Each of us is unique and has our own personality and characteristics. Don't deny yourself because of other people's evaluations, and don't change yourself blindly by catering to others. Only by strengthening one's beliefs and being brave can we find our own path and realize our own value and meaning.

In this rapidly changing world, we cannot control the thoughts and perceptions of others, nor can we change the attitudes and behaviors of others. The only one who can control it is himself. Only by doing a good job of yourself can you achieve a true sense of accomplishment and happiness. Don't care about other people's eyes, don't be bound by other people's standards, be firm in your beliefs, go your own way, and live the life you want. There will always be many unsatisfactory things in life, and there will be many difficulties and challenges. However, these are the only ways for us to grow and progress. Don't be afraid of failure, don't run away from difficulties, face it bravely, and be firm in your direction and goals, so that you can move towards success and happiness.

What I want to say is that everyone is an independent individual, with their own ideas and pursuits, don't change yourself in order to cater to others, and don't care about other people's eyes and evaluations.

Be brave enough to be yourself and stick to your beliefs and beliefs in order to achieve success and happiness.

No matter when and where, we must maintain a normal heart and calmly face the gains, losses and setbacks in life.