It's not good, and that's okay.

A sentence that I like very much recently: Everyone has a dark side, there is nothing strange about it, different attitudes towards different people, if you like it, you can communicate, if you don't like it, you don't need to understand, each has its own way.

Whenever someone says that I am a super good person, I often think that it is not that I am good, but that I am good for giving kindness and sincerity, and they will give me the same kindness and sincerity.

It's not that I'm good, it's that they're all good, and their personalities vary from person to person.

I do not advocate blind kindness, nor do I accept moral kidnapping, I must have a culture that does not hurt others, and I do not lack the ability to protect myself.

There are 100 in a 100 population, so why care about who you are in other people's mouths?

Learn to live with a lot of voices, but not be swayed.

Respect all voices, but only be yourself.

I've met a lot of people, but they haven't kept me, and I often wonder what kind of person is right for me.

I'm a very unstable, very volatile person, and I want hot emotions, stable emotions, countless flowers, and romance.

I like girls to tell me that she loves me, and I want to hear her say, I'll pick you up or see you tomorrow and take you out on the weekend.

I love all these words.

Girls with action and strong executive skills are what I admire the most.

She should be like that, I said I miss her, she won't draw me a big pie and make me wait for a long time, but will immediately set up an itinerary for me, and I can go as long as I can.

With her, I'm just happy or aimlessly driving around after dinner, with one hand on the steering wheel and the other finger clasped to me.

There was a song I liked in the car, I turned my head to look at her, she raised her hand and kissed the back of my hand, and at this moment I thought I would be with her for a long time.

She doesn't feel that my thoughts are sudden, and she will give me comfort and enlightenment when I am lost.

She would take me with her and teach me a lot of rules of love.

I am an extremely insecure person, and the more a girl loves me, the more I will rely on her and be determined.

She can accompany me to make small things and make small troubles, and she can understand my funny, brave and emotional thoughts.

When I met a girl like this, I thought I couldn't keep her, but I still wanted to meet her.

Recently, there have been some topics on the Internet about "social cows" and "social fear", and I would like to share my opinion.

First of all, I believe that "social cattle" and "social fear" are not mutually exclusive, but can coexist.

Each of us has some traits of "social cattle" and "social fear", depending on the group of people and the environment we are facing.

Some people may be very cheerful and confident in front of outsiders, but a bit introverted and shy in intimate relationships.

This does not mean that they have a "social disability", just that they exhibit different traits in this particular environment.

Secondly, I think social skills can be cultivated, some people may be naturally good at socializing, but others need more time and practice to improve their social skills.

If a person behaves a little shy or introverted on certain occasions, we should give them more understanding and support, rather than accusing them of "social phobia". At the same time, you can also improve your social skills by participating in more social activities and learning communication skills.

I don't think socialization should be a criterion for evaluating a person's worth, everyone has their own unique strengths and values, and social skills are only one aspect of it.

If you put too much emphasis on social skills, you may overlook other more important qualities, such as honesty, kindness, talent, and so on. "Social cattle" and "social fear" are not the criteria for evaluating a person's worth, and everyone should be respected and understood.

We should encourage ourselves and those around us to bring out our strengths and values, rather than being constrained by our social skills.