There was a time when I took the other person's kindness to me as a matter of course.

I blindly demanded and lost my temper at everything that was not to my liking.

I will feel that she is not good to me because she didn't wash my socks, and because of a little thing, I will feel that he doesn't love me as much as he used to.

But once she hugged me and said, "What I'm most afraid of is that you will think I've changed because of something I haven't noticed."

I was so sad that I felt like I was doing something wrong, but I didn't know how to overcome it. Later, a friend told me that she said that there is never a constant, and when you get used to looking at it with the idea that everything will change, you will find that what she does is not taken for granted.

There is never anything taken for granted in love, just because I love you, I am willing to meet all your needs.

She is willing to take 99 steps to tell you that her love is serious, and you must also be willing to take a step to respond to the other person.

One day you will understand: anything that has to do with it in the end is just an acquaintance.

I used to be self-willed and take other people's efforts for granted. I ask for more and more, but I neglect to balance the effort with the reward. Until one day, she told me that the thing she feared the most was that I didn't love her as much as I used to. That's when I started to reflect on my actions, and I realized that I had been asking for something but had never really understood how she felt.

I started trying to change myself, I started to pay attention to her needs and feelings, and I stopped taking her efforts for granted. I learned a little bit to respond to her love and to cherish her giving. I learned to respond to her in love and let her know that my love was serious.

I know that any relationship requires the efforts of both parties to maintain, and cannot be maintained by one party alone. I know that one day you will understand this, because you have been through it before.

We met once, and maybe in the end our relationship was just friends or strangers, but I hope you can understand that those past efforts and feelings are sincere. We learned a lot from this relationship and gained a lot of good memories. Although we are no longer dependent on each other, we are still important people in life. Cherish the present moment and be grateful for the good times you once had. No matter what kind of person we will become in the future, we should remember the love and sincerity we have given each other.

Everyone is also a phased companion, those people and things you can't let go, in the last years will be understated for you.

There is no empathy in this world, you can be depressed, you can complain, you can even break down, but you must know how to heal yourself.

When we walk into a relationship, we always expect the other person to be nice to us and meet our needs. However, this does not mean that we can take the other person's contribution for granted. In love, no one should be good to the other half for granted, only because of love, so willing to give.

I used to ignore this, just ask for it, and lose my temper about things that don't suit my heart. However, that didn't solve the problem and instead put me in a difficult situation. I began to realize that I could not take the other person's contribution for granted, but needed to respond to the other person's love and cherish the other person's giving.

In the process, I learned to pay more attention to the other person's needs and feelings, and learned to respond to her in love, so that she knew that my love was serious. I know that any relationship requires the efforts of both parties to maintain, and cannot be maintained by one party alone. It is only through mutual understanding and dedication that relationships can be strengthened.

Now, we are no longer dependent on each other, but we are still important people in life. We cherish the present moment and are grateful for the good times we had. No matter what kind of person we will become in the future, we should remember the love and sincerity we have given each other. We are all phased companions, and those people and things that you can't let go of will be understated for you in the last years. So, don't get too entangled in gains and losses, and learn to find beauty in the process. Let's cherish the present moment together and be grateful for every encounter in life.

It's never life that gets better, it's yourself.

When your heart is firm enough, no one can influence your heart. The more I experience, the more I understand that there is a degree of kindness, a bottom line for giving, not entangled in bad people and bad things, not consuming myself, and never being wronged, but I will not maintain any relationship that makes me tired.

First, there is no need, and second, there is no time to ask, and if the thinking is not at the same level, there is no need to convince each other.

Don't be anxious, just encourage yourself to live a good day, there are too many surprises in this world, and some things are not worthy of your emotions at all.

Life is in a hurry, you must live a good life, the origin is gathered, the fate is dispersed, and the fate comes.