2023/10/31 Love is without skill

The bravery we always think is: if you can't do it, you will be divided, one shot and two will be scattered, the world will be different, and it will be better in front of you.

Later, we understood that perhaps the real bravery is: regardless of past suspicions, tolerant and generous, after discovering each other's shortcomings, still willing to appreciate and respect each other's strengths, find out the greatness of the small things, and find the romance of the ordinary things.

What is a good habit for them is good, and what is suitable is good.

If you want to be in a long-term relationship, you must learn to solve the problem, not solve the other person.

It's easy to fall in love at first sight, but you can't exist if you are born right, if the other party doesn't have serious problems with your three views and character, or if you don't make a mistake in principle, don't let it go easily.

A relationship that has achieved positive results usually goes through a period of passionate love, an independent period, a run-in period, and a dull period.

Sometimes it's not because you don't love each other, but it's in a peaceful stage, only if you really care about each other and are willing to communicate, you will solve the problem.

Loving this thing is never a choice, not to break up if it is not suitable, not to mention not changing it if you are tired of it, but to make people feel brave and gentle, and it is a loyal choice after avoiding countless freshnesses.

I'm not a little sleepy, I'm thinking about how many wrong paths I have taken, how many choices I have made wrong, how many right people I have met, and how many wrong people I have met?

I'm not the only one who can't figure out a lot of things, so my business isn't anything, and I suddenly feel so bored, nothing is interesting.

How did it come to this? I don't know, the suppressed emotions seem to be increasing day by day, and I always think that I am very strong and can withstand all the grievances and sadness.

In fact, I have taken a lot of wrong paths and made many wrong choices.

I'm just a very ordinary person, I can't amaze anyone, and I can't be anyone's favorite, others give me a little kindness, and I just think about how to treat her better.

I have become less like myself, as if I am going to be another version of myself at dawn.

I'm a little tired, and that's how life goes.

I feel sorry for my past, tired of my present, worried about my future.

For the few nights I couldn't sleep, I wondered what kind of person I was going to become.

What kind of life do I want to live in order to live my life satisfactorily?

How can you be so tired?

There is no winner in love, only both losers.

We always try to find skills in love, as if in this way we can grasp the initiative and grasp the lifeblood of love. However, true love is skillless, it is pure, sincere, and unadulterated with any impurities. We always think about how to control it, how to control it, but we forget that love needs to be managed with our hearts.

In love, we are all equal. No one is superior, no one is inferior. We are all ordinary, ordinary people with our own strengths and weaknesses. We all need to learn to appreciate each other's strengths and respect each other's shortcomings, rather than trying to change each other and make each other what we want them to be.

True love is not a game, but a responsibility.

It requires us to care for each other, to understand each other, to tolerate each other. We need to be genuine and not hypocritical. We need to take responsibility for each other, not evade it.

The road of love is full of twists and turns. We need to face them together and overcome them together. We need to support each other, encourage each other, and support each other. Only in this way can we go further, more stable and longer on the road of love. Don't be afraid of failure, don't be afraid of setbacks. Because in this world, there is nothing greater and more beautiful than love. In love, we also need to maintain independence and self-esteem. Although we all need each other's care and love, it does not mean that we have to give up our egos and rely on each other completely. We need to maintain our independent thinking and decision-making skills, and not give up our dreams and pursuits because of love. At the same time, we also need to respect each other's independence and self-esteem, not to infringe on each other's personal space and privacy, and not to hurt each other's feelings and dignity.

In love, you also need to learn to communicate. Communication is the key to solving problems and an important means of maintaining feelings. We need to learn to listen to each other, understand each other's needs and feelings, and share our thoughts and feelings with each other. Only through sincere communication can we better understand each other, solve problems better, and better maintain feelings.

Love needs to be managed. Doing business does not mean that you need to spend a lot of time and energy, but you need to treat each other with your heart, care for each other, and understand each other. We can show our love through small details, such as giving each other a warm hug, a small gift, a greeting card, and so on. These small details can enhance each other's feelings and make love more beautiful and stable.

Love is a beautiful emotion, which needs to be managed and maintained with our hearts. It is only through sincerity, understanding, respect and communication that we can find true happiness and fulfillment in love. Let's love bravely!