Today, I was talking to my mother about a snarky relative in the family, and she asked me, "Some people like to get together, but some people have to come to the house, why is that?" ”

I replied, "Things gather by like, and people by groups." ”

Yes, it was these eight words that it took my mother half a lifetime to figure out why. However, as young people born after the 95th or 00th generation, we are at the cusp of high-tech development, and we understand the thinking mode half a lifetime earlier than our parents.

What kind of people make what kind of friends, and what kind of people can only attract what kind of people to come and talk. Behind the sincere people, all of them are his nobles, and over time, they also become sincere; Behind the hypocritical people, there must be hypocritical friends, giving advice, talking on paper, and pointing out the country; Behind the proud people, there must be proud and complacent friends, not only eating, drinking, and having fun regardless of the money bag, but also pulling friends to do all kinds of unrealistic things. And this is what kind of person is hidden behind whom.

If you suddenly find out that someone is the kind of person you've always wanted to know, there must be someone exactly like him behind him. Because it's still the same sentence - things gather by like, and people are divided by groups. Never forget this simple truth. So if you want to make a group of like-minded people, you have to be nice to them, and you have to be good to them, and you have to get to know their friends. Because, the friends you know are the people you want to meet. On the other hand, if you find someone who you don't want to know, then there must be friends behind him who are exactly like him. Therefore, the principle that things gather by like, and people by groups, applies not only to our selection of friends, but also to ourselves.

In social situations, we don't have to force ourselves to conform to others, nor do we have to change our preferences and principles in order to cater to others. Instead, we should cherish those who share our own goals and strive to preserve and develop these friendships. Because only in this way can we truly be happy and fulfilled, and at the same time receive help and support from others in times of need.

Therefore, whether in life or work, we should pay attention to choosing our partners, and strive to discover and attract those who are similar to us. At the same time, you should also learn to cherish and protect your circle of friends, and don't easily change your dating principles because of other people's evaluations or prejudices. Only in this way can we truly find our own sense of belonging and happiness. At the same time, we must also realize that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and we cannot deny a person as a whole because of some of his shortcomings.

When making friends, we should pay more attention to the strengths and strengths of others, and learn to appreciate and respect the differences of others. Only in this way can we really expand our social circle and make more different types of friends.

Things gather by like, people by groups, this principle also applies to our professional life. At work, we should work more closely with those who share our own interests and pursue career development and success together. At the same time, we should also learn to communicate and cooperate with those who disagree with our own, respect the views and ideas of others, and create a better future together.