2023/11/4 It has been 26 years for the first time

From 1998 to 2023, a full twenty-six years.

How many 26 years can there be in life? My first 26 years were under the care of my parents and the influence of school, and I grew from a baby to a young adult and then to society.

In the next 26 years, in addition to work, meeting each other, building a new family, we will integrate the best years into each other's lives.

From the vision of the future to entering the role, I gradually know how to precipitate the yearning for a new life into the work hard day and night, bit by bit.

Like a quarter of a century, marriage has changed from simple mutual love and attachment to each other, mixed with more trivial and ordinary, and even occasional incomprehension, quarrels and quarrels, taking on more responsibilities has become the norm of life.

When I was young, I didn't accept quarrels and didn't like the Cold War.

I feel that the emotions that were so undemanding and simple and clear at the beginning were so unpleasant that they were contaminated with things they didn't like by external factors.

However, aren't these banalities the truth of life?

Perhaps, raising eyebrows, respecting and loving each other is an expression of marriage, and the wind and clouds are also a kind of existence of marriage.

can be trivial and mundane, and can be smoked in fireworks; After an argument, run out for a walk, and come back to cook dinner for each other; When we no longer force the other party to change for ourselves, but let him retain the most distinctive and precious qualities, we can let go of obsessions and become calm; When the other party's original family encounters wind and rain, they are also tired and helpless, and they are still willing to hold an umbrella for each other; We prefer that children can feel more love and care in the original family we have created, rather than indifference and ignorance; No matter how hard, helpless, sad and hopeless you have experienced outside, who can't say that the lamp at home is the warmest place?

Don't leave easily, don't let go of each other's hands easily, this may be the truest emotional expression and emotional catharsis of couples in mortal dust, right?

After the first half of his life, he gradually understood the impermanence of the world, and no longer thought that the earth was long like when he was young.

In the face of those uncertainties, regrets and trivialities in life, I know that there will be ups and downs in the following years.

I don't dare to hope for the next 26 years, I can only do it and cherish it, sometimes feeling and sometimes busy, sometimes low and sometimes excited, with fireworks in one hand and stars in the other, always seriously complaining and moving forward with triviality.

We are all trying our best to take care of our parents outside of work, and our children are trying their best to fight for their future in their own way.

Although we will still fail after our efforts, we are still supporting all the decisions we make now.

Because, to truly love someone is to accompany him to train a pair of hard wings to help him fly, rather than selfishly binding him and only seeing the uncertain sky.

Life never stops because of anyone, whether it is youth or aging, escape and anesthesia are meaningless.

Or for the family, or for that little reluctance, or just for the heart of the guilty, for us who were not so utilitarian when we were young, for the original intention that we decided to choose together, for the two old parents who have instilled many times of cherishment, understanding, recognition, and tolerance of each other's words, and those times that have been walked together, each other has been indispensable, and in the future, we are happy to move forward.

The first half of my life was full of twists and turns, but I don't regret it.

Because I know that life is a journey, and everyone will meet different landscapes and people along the way. Some stay in your life, others are just passers-by. But whoever it is, it will bring you something that will make you learn to grow and cherish.

My family is my most precious treasure. Although we have faced some difficulties and challenges, our family has never given up. We have experienced many ups and downs together, but the relationship has always been deep. In the days to come, we will face more challenges and difficulties together, but I believe that we will always move forward together.

My job is an integral part of my life. It gave me purpose and motivation, and it also taught me how to work and communicate with others. In the process, I met many wonderful colleagues and friends, and together we shared the joy of success and the pain of failure. But I know that no matter where I am, no matter what I do, I'm going to keep trying.

My future is full of hope and anticipation, and I hope to continue to maintain a healthy and positive mindset, and continue to learn and grow.

I hope to spend more quality time with my family, friends, and loved ones, and share more joy and happiness.

I believe that as long as we cherish each other and cherish every moment, the future will be better.