2023/11/7 How to treat the bad guys
I have always insisted that there are no good people in this society, not because I don't have a good impression of the world, but because I find that my cognitive logic is completely incompatible with these mixed people in society.
Not only will they use their own thinking to force me down, and then stubbornly make others feel that their thinking is right; They may even feel that there is a huge gap between other people's thinking and their own, and they will do it to strangers.
It is said on the Internet that these young people in society will vent their anger when facing strangers because of the lot of pressure brought by work, marriage, and childbirth. When you encounter such a "bad person", you must be worse than him, and you must be harder than him, so that he is afraid of you.
I don't know if you've ever met this kind of person, you take good care of him, but he thinks you're easy to deal with or a bully. I believe that such a person may not be aware of it, shameless or self-conscious.
Because I really have such a person around me, it makes me feel very disgusting, and I am in a relationship where I completely treat him as a friend, but he treats me as a tool.
When I met such a person, I used to think, how to deal with such a person? Or, should such people save some face for us?
In the beginning, I was very polite to everyone, and I was also very polite to such people, and even I thought from his point of view, judged and analyzed from his point of view, and the situation he was in at the moment.
Under normal circumstances, such a person is in a very bad situation, and the situation is very poor, and then I have the mentality of helping him to do something, give him something to do, and at the same time have a full understanding of him.
It's a pity that I found that such a person doesn't know how to be grateful at all, not only has to inch in, but also stinks and shamelessly pretentious.
I wonder what the hell they think? Through contact with such people, I have learned a deep lesson, and the thinking patterns of people are indeed different from others.
Sometimes, you want to be good for someone, but I'm telling you, such thoughts can be taken advantage of by some particularly bad people. In my opinion, this kind of person is really in vain, and if he doesn't give face, he is in vain!
The fact that these people exist in this world makes me really feel that society is so fucking dirty!
I can't easily assert that they are good in this life, but I make a bold guess, how can such a person have friends? I don't know if everyone has had the same experience as me, and I don't know if everyone is a kind person, and I don't know what kind of lesson everyone will teach themselves after being used for this kindness?
Let me share my opinion, that is, when you meet such a person, don't save face for him, you should beat, scold, kick, and don't have good thoughts! Do not pity anyone, for there is something hateful about the poor.
When one of my admirers was having dinner in Laizhou, he gave me some analysis and made me understand the truth.
She said: "Sometimes, when you meet a bad person, you have to be worse than him, and you have to be tougher than him, so that he is afraid of you, and even terrified when he hears your name." ”
When I asked her how to make such a bad guy afraid of me, they said two words.
him!
Yes, if you don't him, you're sorry that you wasted so much precious time on him.