Recently, there was an incident that made me feel like I was really giving a good face to my relatives, and I was used to fucking sickness!

Because he owes a mere 300 dollars, my cousin owes my mother more than 20 years. When I asked him to come out, he not only lied and deceived me, but he also had to make it known to everyone.

I ordered him many times and asked him to say it on Monday and talk about it on Monday, these two days were busy. Good guy, my cousin has to take this matter to today, I said that he has no brains, he can't do things, and he has to choke with me, saying that mine is not.

As my younger brother, I've given him this point, so how can I remind my cousin that it's inconvenient to say it today?

Okay, my cousin wants to find out how he owes the three hundred yuan, so let's find out today!

Especially his love to complain to his parents, I really think that my cousin's IQ is simply too low, he is already in his forties, and he doesn't know that he has to talk to me about something.

I talked to my cousin in the hope that I could be mentally prepared as a younger brother, how did I know that my cousin's IQ was so low? You discuss this matter with my father on WeChat, and he has no role at all except for being able to defend you in front of you.

Can you get my father to discipline me? My father is at this level, and he can be trained, what else can he do? Can you still hit me? If he really fights, you and I will have a feud.

Do you think there is any occasion in the future, can I still take care of you? It's also that your fifth uncle (that is, my father) knows that I have a good heart, and he said that I am all kinds of bad in front of you, so that you don't care, and it really broke up the brotherhood between the two of us, who else can help you in Laizhou in the future?

I also told my third uncle (cousin and his father) about my position, and the third uncle said that he should get the money back, so you have to tell your cousin and ask him in person. I said, if you ask for this money, you can't stop moving, right? The third uncle said that he couldn't, and he had to pay back the money he owed, which is a truth since ancient times - it is natural to repay the money in arrears.

Again, when I was a child, I didn't know that there was this debt between you and your fifth aunt (that is, my mother). Now that we know, we're going to have to have an attitude from you, right? How can anyone be in arrears for more than 20 years? My brother, why didn't I pick up your video three times in the afternoon, I don't know what's going on here?

If you are ordered many times, you just have to break this matter and let the relationship between the two families break down because you owe the three hundred yuan. Can I say that you did this right, or do you owe your fifth aunt more than 20 years and just don't pay it back, and you did the right thing? There is not much money, but if you lose your integrity, you will not be able to make up for it in your life.

I ordered you once on August 15, don't associate with Mr. Wang, who lost his integrity, he owes Uncle Yu the decoration fee, and he hasn't paid it back until now, my father thinks he is not honest, let me order you, don't deal with him. It's okay for you, I'm stunned, I sat on the sofa all night and didn't listen to you talk about this, why did your fifth uncle call and I went back immediately? That's the code. As soon as I saw that you hadn't clicked it through, I went home and went to sleep.

Why did you make sauerkraut fish that night, and I said lightly?

You think I'm weak-mouthed, but it's not, that's a signal.

There is no credibility (Mr. Wang owes Uncle Yu the renovation money, no reputation) and integrity (referring to the debt you and your fifth aunt). No, the fish faded.

I thought that you had been with your fifth uncle for so long and had been to so many big occasions, so you should know a little bit about the world and know why I went to your house.

As a result, you don't understand at all, so you have to let me point out the "cause" in this cause and effect, really, my brother is really chilling

Through this incident between me and my cousin, I really feel that I must stay away from some low-dimensional, negative, negative, brain-ineffective, problematic values, selfish, unrepaid, ungrateful and giving, and calculating these "social garbage".

You must leave these people, even if they are your friends. Even, the other party is your relative, you have to be good to him, but you must stay away from him. We must understand what the real meaning behind this sentence is. If you think the other person is still saved, then I guarantee that there will be a lot of time in your life that will be wasted on these people.

Why do you say that, I'll explain it to you. Everyone will inevitably encounter garbage people, I refer to these people as "social garbage", they have very obvious characteristics, for example, they like to discuss right and wrong, tell right and wrong, and even spread rumors to you, they are negative and negative, have no expectations for the future at all, and are calculating everything. If this kind of person is your friend and you have to leave, you must be very determined to do it!!

You know that your own space and time are limited every day, people's lives are too short, very limited, we are in such space and time, these people exist in our lives, you will have all kinds of intersections with him, and if you intersect with him, he will bring you disappointment. He has been with you for a long time, there is a relationship of trust between the two of you, and sometimes, there will be contradictions between you, there will be estrangement, at this time you have to use your brains and energy on these social garbage, and with them first, there is no reason to talk about, second, there is no value to unify, and third, they will only consider the problem from their own point of view, and they can't listen to what you say.

Then when you find these people around you, you usually deal with each other, it's okay, right? It's hello, I'm good, everyone, but it's really when you encounter a problem, the contradictions and troubles he will create will make you spend your energy thinking about him.

Do you know how precious our time is for each other?

You think now, if there is such a person around you, you will feel very negative, and then the other party is not very motivated, and does not want to be responsible for his family or the other half, children, parents, he regards these people around him as a trouble, as a burden, you think about whether there is such a person around you.

If there is such a person, he is still by your side, then the other party is your stumbling block, he is the one who killed your time, and your life will be sacrificed in the hands of such a person.

What will you do at this time? Why don't you understand this very early on, what are you going to do? If you don't understand this truth, these people will always be around you, which means that they will consume your energy every day.

If you talk to such a person for half an hour, he will waste half an hour of your energy. If you talk to him for a month, he will waste a month of your time. These social garbage around you are the ones who boil the frogs in warm water, the ones who boil you off, and you die before you know it, and some people may have more than one or two around them.

One way to do this is to unload the people around you.

What does that mean? Don't hesitate for a second to unload such a person! Because, he will delay you for a lifetime, and if your life has been in such an environment, you will eventually become a person like him, and even you will become a worse person than them.

Because, you may be smarter than them, and being smart is not a good thing. The wisdom of doing good deeds is called useful wisdom; The cleverness of doing bad things is called complete rottenness. What really depends on what you do depends on whether you can grasp your own intelligence.