Everyone is envious of those ruthless people in society, and they have never considered whether they are the material for that kind of ruthless people.

Let's talk about this topic today, how can you be ruthless?

Without it, you just shut up.

Even these four words are divided like this even for dogs, let alone people.

Why do you say that, most farmers in the countryside know that a dog that doesn't bark is the one that really bites, and a dog that barks indiscriminately, you can kill it if you give it a bone!

Do you think this is a metaphor that the countryman has no insight into? This is the experience summed up in the history of many years.

A dog that doesn't bark is the one that really bites, and this sentence is still applicable even in today's society. Many people always like to complain, complain, or even cry bitterly when they encounter some setbacks and difficulties, thinking that such a performance will make people feel pitiful and gain sympathy and help from others. But in reality, such performance only makes people feel weak and untrustworthy. On the contrary, if a person can remain calm, not show his emotions easily, and face difficulties and setbacks firmly, then he will give the impression of being calm and reliable, making people think that he is a ruthless person.

Therefore, if you want to be ruthless, you must first learn not to scream. It's not about you being callous, it's about learning to control your emotions and stay calm and sane. When encountering difficulties and setbacks, don't easily express your emotions, and don't give up easily. Instead, we must firmly face difficulties and setbacks and find ways and means to solve problems. Only then can you truly become a ruthless person.

Of course, becoming a ruthless person is not achieved overnight, and it takes a long time of training and honing. But as long as you can persevere and constantly improve your quality and ability, then you will definitely be able to become a ruthless person who is feared.

Let's tell you the truth, in the past, I used to be a very cheerful and lively sunny boy, no matter what topic, no matter what good or bad things were said, there were always friends or relatives around me who were willing to listen, because at that time it was the time of childlike words, what kind of topic you said, there would be people laughing around you, or cooperating with you to be funny and frolic.

But you know what? When I realized that after leaving the campus, what was in my mouth was no longer able to make waves in this society, I began to move towards silence and introversion, and began to listen to other people's ideas without making any suggestions. In terms of the current Internet language, I have changed from a social cow to a social terrorist, only to realize that I have become the fool in the eyes of others, because what I said is completely inconsequential, including even telling my ex-girlfriend to run away.

When you speak out or expose your thoughts, that's when you're really ignorant, and then I set a tough requirement for myself, that is, keep your mouth shut, listen to what others have to say first, and wait for the moment when others have nothing to say, that's when you play normally. You remember, if you say too much, you will lose!

And if you find that there is a person who talks endlessly in the occasion, it must be a person with a very empty mind, then at this time you may ask, since he is talking endlessly, he must have something in his head, but let me tell you, when a person is only willing to speak according to instinct, then this person is a person who has no real material in his head.

He doesn't know what it's called - forbearance, he just wants to release his desire to talk, not to express his opinions, so the first thing he becomes a ruthless person is, shut his mouth!