What is aura?

Aura is something that a person has to cultivate for the rest of his life, and aura is the overwhelming energy!

Have you ever watched the God of Gamblers movie? If you haven't read it, please read it first.

Every time Brother Pony appears, every time the music comes up, it must be accompanied by slow motion.

There are many people who say, I don't have money, I don't have a career, I don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend, so how can I cultivate my aura?

If you are a person who understands aura, you don't ask this kind of question, why?

Because even if a person has no career and is not successful, then he has his own aura, as long as he can master the right method, he can do it.

I have a friend who is an entrepreneur who is very good at machining, and he has a company team of more than 4,000 people in his factory, but at this time he encountered a problem, and he came to ask me.

"Brother Qu, I'm thin and short, what if I should let myself have an aura?"

Because he is now facing a big problem, he finds that because he is thin and short, many people come to comment on him, saying that he does not have enough aura or momentum.

Even if it is this kind of person who has a huge career, he will still be judged and said that he does not have any aura.

So, do you think there is a causal relationship between your aura and what kind of career you have? It doesn't matter at all.

I taught him how to solve the problem if he didn't have aura, and the first thing he did was to slow down his body movements.

For example, if you are a comrade who wears glasses, once your glasses are a little loose due to sweat or nervousness, do you quickly lift your glasses and pretend that no one notices that your glasses have just been loosened? But in the eyes of some people, they will think that you may have something behind, think that you are in a hurry, or that you are not prepared at all, and in the whole process of your body movements, what you convey to the other party is a state of complete lack of energy. And the state of energy is to slow down your body movements, or through the small movements that your eyes will loosen, you take off this glasses, you have to enlarge your body movements, and then take the glasses and slowly lift them, and then gently drop your raised hand.

Then let me ask you, are the visual experiences brought to people by these two completely different movements completely different? If you think about it, you will know that the situation in which many big guys appear must be slow-motion pictures, and the trotting must be a younger brother, and it must not be a big brother.

Of course, when I say slow motion, I'm not slowing down yourself, it's like a psychopath, walking slowly there, no! It's about slowing down your own pace within the limits of what others can accept.

The second thing is that when you speak, the speech is very important, and most of the communication between people is through speech, eyes and expressions.

Speech is the strongest form of communication, why?

Because, others can't choose not to listen, so how should the speech be spoken? Slow down your speech, the moment you slow down, you will naturally have a sense of authority, and add pauses to your communication at critical moments when communicating and negotiating with others, even if your voice is small.

Because I started a company with a friend and worked as a partner, I would like to tell you about my personal experience. The year before last, I went to Deyun Club to watch cross talk and saw an actor, who brought me a great shock. Guo Degang and Mr. Yu Qian talked in front for almost an hour, and then he played behind Guo Yu and the others. What is his mission on the field, his mission on the field is peeing time, what does that mean, do you still need me to explain?

Well, in order to take care of some special book friends, let's explain. The peeing time is that everyone has been holding back for more than an hour, after listening to Guo Yu's cross talk, anyway, this guy is not a famous person, everyone must pee at this time, he himself knows that he is padding, then at this time he used a method, used a skill, and I feel very shocked until now. During the whole process of his appearance, he was speaking a stand-up comedy in a very weak voice, and the speed of speech was very slow, mixed with pauses, and how would this pause make others feel?

All the people went to the toilet and went to the bathroom, but at this time his voice was weak. If it were you, do you think anyone in the scene would want to listen to his cross talk? There will definitely be, then at this time, others will pat the people around them and say, "You are lighter; You slow down; Hurry up; You sit down; You don't make a sound, can you? ”

What is his mission? His task is to let everyone go to the toilet, and after going to the toilet, let the field return to calm, so that everyone can concentrate on continuing to listen to cross talk. But he is not a corner, second, he is not telling any wonderful jokes, and third, he has no greater influence, so how does he lead the emotions of the whole venue? He just lowered his voice, slowed down his tone, increased the pause, and in twenty minutes, everyone who should go to the toilet had returned, and they were already sitting in the small theater, he completed his task, and the audience was silent, and all the audience were quietly listening to the cross talk below.

When you also master this skill, even if you don't have any achievements, you will have aura; Even if you have achievements, you will have more aura.

Therefore, what is the reason why aura is an overriding force?

The aura will make the other party bow down, will make the other party have a different view, and will make the other party look up to you.

Aura is something that a person has to cultivate throughout his life, and aura is the external manifestation of a person's inner world, and it is a person's unique personality and charm. It is an invisible force that can generate trust and awe in people, as well as interest and affection for you. Whether it's in the workplace, in social situations, or in personal life, aura is very important.